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This sentence says so much more about you than about myself or other people in the industry ...
The opinion you and other prostitutes have of me doesn't matter.

Prostitution harms women, men, trans people, and even children who are all forced into it since it reduces them to commodities, degrades, and dehumanizes them.

eastern star said:
Wow. That comment is quite dehumanizing. From someone who has been there. I was going to just PM the person who wrote the post with my opinion. But speaking on this response... I understand the way you feel but, it hurts to read that in the same way maybe hearing Faggot or Nigger would be like to well, you get my point.
No it's not dehumanizing and it's silly to compare what I posted about people who are prostitutes and how they're always forced into it somehow, with homophobia or racism.
 
Here's an interesting and recent piece by Conner Habib, wo is both a Muslim and a sex worker, on "How Anti-Sex Activists Use the Tactics of Homophobes and Racists to Marginalize, Criminalize, and Oppress Decent People": "If You're Against Sex Work, You're a Bigot"

Favourite quote: "What's more dehumanizing: showing your butt cheeks to an audience or having someone tell you that you don't exist?"

Eastern Star, don't let this bullshit get you. What you're reading here is an example of hate speech, which is abusive and supposed to hurt and harm. This one isn't even very cleverly disguised as pity.
 
I do completely agree with you, SpaceSquirrel. My feathers are far from ruffled on this one, thank you. I feel sad for people who are so hateful really.
 
Here's an interesting and recent piece by Conner Habib, wo is both a Muslim and a sex worker, on "How Anti-Sex Activists Use the Tactics of Homophobes and Racists to Marginalize, Criminalize, and Oppress Decent People": "If You're Against Sex Work, You're a Bigot"

Favourite quote: "What's more dehumanizing: showing your butt cheeks to an audience or having someone tell you that you don't exist?"

Eastern Star, don't let this bullshit get you. What you're reading here is an example of hate speech, which is abusive and supposed to hurt and harm. This one isn't even very cleverly disguised as pity.

8) Of course as a prostitute who is still actively involved in selling your body and doing sex for pay, and being forced into prostitution for a multitude of reasons you're going to claim that what I've posted is 'abusive' when it's not hate speech or whatever other silly bullshit you want to claim.

You are an example of the many ways women coerce and force other women into prostitution and claim that it's 'liberating', 'fine', 'something someone can make a career out of', and other utter rubbish. You are also ignoring the fact that the majority of prostitutes have been victims of sexual abuse both before they were forced into prostitution and after they become prostitutes, and that prostitution harms society and the people who are forced into it.

People who supposedly consent to their prostitution, rarely, if ever, give informed consent. Informed consent would be presenting them with all of the available data on the inherent harms of prostitution before they are in a position to become literally reduced to goods to be bought and sold, they are the wares, the objects.

Prostitution is a product of lack of choice, the resort of those with the fewest choices, or none at all.

You're romanticizing the idea that someone has a ‘choice’ to become a prostitute, as self-determination and use it to normalize prostitution as ‘sex work.’ Both succumb to the belief that whatever happens to a person in prostitution is normal because it’s their 'choice' to become a prostitute. Both these views have facilitated the expansion of sexual slavery in many parts of the globe and the extensive ways in which people themselves become ‘goods and services’ – as prostituted people, as trafficked instruments of exchange, as objects of sex tourism, and as indentured domestic workers who are often sexually exploited as well.

I read the silly article/opinion piece you linked to. It's grad school rubbish and theory that bears nothing about reality or the actual facts of someone being a prostitute.

The opinion that "if you're against sex work, you're a bigot." That's quite an accusation, considering "sex work" is a euphemism for sex trade, rape, oppression of people, and human trafficking, in which women, men, boys, and girls are manipulated, exploited and sold as sex slaves. The notion that anyone would consent to being a slab of meat solely used to provide sexual pleasure to strangeres has no basis in reality and is just another delusion prostitutes will claim. Some people succumb to such work, with the other option being starvation.

I'm certainly not 'anti-sex', 'homophobic', or 'racist'. However if you want to see someone that is all for the oppression, trafficking, oppression, and violence against people who are prostitutes including women, men, trans people, and kids who are prostitutes go look in the mirror at yourself.
 
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Oh and I see your prejudice just got more vile.


What I wrote is not being judgmental.

When someone's a prostitute they're forced into it, and it can be from a pimp, relative, so called "friend", other prostitutes, or because they're poor, or addicted to drugs.

My partner, of 21 years, is an ex-escort in a Japanese nightclub. I've shown her what you wrote, particularly the quoted bit here, and she laughed long and loud. Whilst some of what else you say that I havent quoted is true, your life experience seems extremely limited. My gf did the job because the money was excellent (probably way beyond what you'll ever earn in your life). She wasnt poor, pimped, drug addicted or anything else. She worked in a safe environment. Whilst I acknowledge this may not account for the majority of sex workers, your vile little prejudiced rant does nothing to help their cause either. Don't dress your condemnation as concern.
 
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Oh and I see your prejudice just got more vile.




My partner, of 21 years, is an ex-escort in a Japanese nightclub. I've shown her what you wrote, particularly the quoted bit here, and she laughed long and loud. Whilst some of what else you say that I havent quoted is true, your life experience seems extremely limited. My gf did the job because the money was excellent (probably way beyond what you'll ever earn in your life). She wasnt poor, pimped, drug addicted or anything else. She worked in a safe environment. Whilst I acknowledge this may not account for the majority of sex workers, your vile little prejudiced rant does nothing to help their cause either. Don't dress your condemnation as concern.
*yawn* Coming from you a regular troll here at bluelight this is completely laughable. 8) Nothing I have written is vile, or prejudiced but what's actually vile and prejudiced is how you and your so called "partner" are completely ignoring the reality of prostitutes and prostitution and how nobody choose to be a prostitute. LOL

Were you her pimp? You certainly have the mentality that it's fine for a woman or anyone to be a prostitute simply because of the myth that they'll become wealthy from it, and pimps also have this mentality towards prostitutes and prostitution, and many prostitutes are coerced many times by relatives or so called "friends" who are prostitutes themselves. 8(
 
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people have different opinions

you are all entitled to them and if you don't want to hear a variety of responses get off message boards on the internet.

simple

not everyone is forced into sex work https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Secret_Diary_of_a_Call_Girl

some are well educated and needed easy money

but ultimately the job will distort your perceptions of sex in one way or another and it has its dangers.

everyone is different and what works for one person wont for another.

try to get along please
 
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*yawn* Coming from you a regular troll here at bluelight this is completely laughable. 8) Nothing I have written is vile, or prejudiced but what's actually vile and prejudiced is how you and your so called "partner" are completely ignoring the reality of prostitutes and prostitution and how nobody choose to be a prostitute. LOL

Were you her pimp? You certainly have the mentality 8(

Whilst some of what else you say that I haven't quoted is true...

Your post is outright abuse, ignoring the fact I acknowledged some of what you say is true. Your reply is to call me a pimp and question my "so-called" girlfriend. And my mentality.

To me this is the very definition of an abusive post.
 
Your post is outright abuse, ignoring the fact I acknowledged some of what you say is true. Your reply is to call me a pimp and question my "so-called" girlfriend. And my mentality.

To me this is the very definition of an abusive post.

If you think what I wrote is actual abuse when it's simply something you personally do not agree with, you really do need to get out more into the real world.

You're the one that brought up how much money she supposedly made while being a prostitute, you glamorized her "work" being a sex object and commodity to strangers who paid her for sex, that she did this by her own choice, that it was not dehumanizing, etc.
 
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I feel very sorry for you, PirestTheyCalledHim. You're obviously having serious mental issues, a severely distorted perception of reality. Not all is lost though, you too can be saved. Just get some therapy, locked ward would probably be best.

Think I'm wrong? Oh, poor, poor thing, still in denial. :(

Not in denial you say? Gosh, now you're promoting insanity! Woe is us - it's probably contagious! Get them off the streets and locked up even quicker!


ROFLMAO ... I dunno what you guys are doing on a Friday night, I'm off to some partying now and celebrate life! =D
 
Has this thread really descended to analyzing the psychology behind being a hooker?

You're a prostitute, selling your body for money. Whether you do it because you're fucked in the head, or forced, or think it's fantastic money, who gives a shit. End result is all the same - you're selling your body for money. Unless you're a compete looney tune, your tricks or johns or customers, whatever the hell you call them, are just that. That's the point of this thread.

All this philosophical bullshit is unnecessary and immaterial. OP, run.
 
Thanks For all your advice, everyone.... Today is her last day in the industry...... We had a long talk and we decided, were gonna keep it long distance for about a year when shes done school. I believe shes trustworthy, and since im the only one who knows her I'm gonna go with my gut. For the people who think she just wants my money, she actually wont let me pay for anything when i come to see her and i dont let her pay for anything when she comes to see me were 50/50..... I dont konw, but what i think we found isnt something im ready to just throw away cause she decided to get in to the industry to put herself through school before she met me..... i been with hundreds of women and its not my place to judge someone who played the cards they were given..... i hope i can pick this thread up in a year and say were insanely happy.................. Cheers to those who find love in a hopeless place

Priest....... think happy thoughts, your outlook is so negative
 
I feel very sorry for you, PirestTheyCalledHim. You're obviously having serious mental issues, a severely distorted perception of reality. Not all is lost though, you too can be saved. Just get some therapy, locked ward would probably be best.

Think I'm wrong? Oh, poor, poor thing, still in denial. :(

Not in denial you say? Gosh, now you're promoting insanity! Woe is us - it's probably contagious! Get them off the streets and locked up even quicker!


ROFLMAO ... I dunno what you guys are doing on a Friday night, I'm off to some partying now and celebrate life! =D

This trolling does not even warrant a reply. 8( The only person who is not living in reality when it comes to prostitution, is you but you are a prostitute and told a woman who supposedly once was one sugar coated BS and lies that prostitution is a perfectly fine thing to do and nobody gets hurt, trafficked, abused, forced into it, etc. 8)

coldincanada said:
Thanks For all your advice, everyone.... Today is her last day in the industry...... We had a long talk and we decided, were gonna keep it long distance for about a year when shes done school. I believe shes trustworthy, and since im the only one who knows her I'm gonna go with my gut. For the people who think she just wants my money, she actually wont let me pay for anything when i come to see her and i dont let her pay for anything when she comes to see me were 50/50..... I dont konw, but what i think we found isnt something im ready to just throw away cause she decided to get in to the industry to put herself through school before she met me..... i been with hundreds of women and its not my place to judge someone who played the cards they were given..... i hope i can pick this thread up in a year and say were insanely happy.................. Cheers to those who find love in a hopeless place

At least you're keeping things long distance for at least a year. Have her get help since she was a prostitute, if she actually has stopped being a prostitute and stopped having sex with strangers for money. Good luck.
 
thread closed because of all the complaints from people within it resulting in the end of a discussion due to childish factors in general. OP good luck, i always said that once she gets off the game things will be better because ultimately she doesn't want you banging other girls and escorting is the same thing but on her side.

hopefully love will work out. you only live once make the most of it. everyone has a different life and if you can make this work then do it!
 
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