help about drugs n money? ??

[pheeny888]

Ill try n be brief. I knew this girl at my job n we became close best friends. She was a h user well as myself. One week ago i met her n gave her 100. Bucks to get me mine. This was also done on a daily basis every day for over 2 yrs.at work it was easy n convient believe it or not. Shes never screwed me over before this. One week prior it took her two days of holding my money but she came thru. Now with this situation shes had my money for 8 dayS .now i was annoyed at her the last time but day after it she texted me worried about how i felt this n that. I thought we straightened things out. Well one day later(8 days ago now) i meet her give her a lil xtra $ more then i usually do since she lost her job where we worked together n i felt it might be an inconvenient for her. Anyway she wound up getting wacked on xanax n slept outside for two days. Her family was sic worried calling everywhere n so was i . Anyway she turns up pretty beat up n her husband brings her to hospital. We were only texting each other thru this time. Up until last friday (4 days now) ago. I know she couldve worked out something to hook me up but instead a text to me said yo bro relax your going crazy because i kept trying to set it up to make it happen ..but.i thought it was mean of her to talk to me that way. So my question is this- do i contact her about getting my money back or just stay away? Ive decided to finally quit the shit cos of the hassle n aggravation its caused. But im pissed big time. Do i have a right to be? I was so worried about this girl then when she turns up i got angry cos it was self induced completely. So where do i stand? I have a feeling shes pissed at me. Does she have a right to be? Shes definitely out of hospital by now n reason she was admitted was dehydration. Nothing serious. Anyway what the F do i do its . Driving me insane.

 

[treezy z]

2 things. Don't front money ever, and if she texts you all these sob stories she's lying through her teeth.

 

[Invisible Helper]

Sounds like a beginner stage ? Opiate addiction still dealing with sketch people and sketch situations . There are lawyers and doctors with same habits but they move differently understand ? That's a long essay you wrote put that effort into avoiding shitty situations lol

 

[Cdkman]

She was using u from the start..she always got something for getting your drugs and now she's just fucking with u

 

[SirTophamHat]

what do you do?

never interact with her again and consider the last payment you made to be her going away fee.

you are far better off without middlemen and women scamming you every way to tuesday

 

[pheeny888]

Ty for some advice. Im still pissed. It just irks me she'd pull this shit with me. We used to talk down about people who did this n here shes doing the exact thing we both despise (least i thought she did). I want to text her n say something but i dunno what. Only cos we did this same thing every day for over 2 yrs. Shes never played me. I want her to know i think shes a bitch. But what good could come of it ? What if she says i can get ur stuff not the money. Cos im thinking the last few times shes got fronted cos she did say she owes him money. Well then im right back where i started using the shit again. She was the one last link i had to the crap. I knew when something happened to her ( cos it always does) id have to quit it. I have a good life. I have a decent job a nice car n money in my pocket n bank. Things i haven't had in a long time. Funny how i risk it all for a quick high. Maybe its the change im afraid of. Its been in my life for about 16 yrs. Been thru rehabs jails bad relationships u name it n all cos of this crap i stick in my arm that never did anyone any good anyway. It just scares me to be w out. Far as the bitch who used me..I didn't like the way she lived n all she was about anyway.Guess i need to just let it go. Sorry for the long posts but no one knows this is still in my life. EEveryone thinks im clean. I needed to vent so ty whoever took the time to read my short story. Two things. one is cos i really felt we were some kind of friends. N two is i want so bad to call her on her bs. I want her to feel like a big p.o.s. for doing this taking my hard earned money. Anyway hope i can stay clean n finally live the life i show everyone i already am living. If u can understand that one.lol. Ty again for ur time.

Actually this "beginner" has been playing for about 16 yrs now. She was my guess u can call her my last resort n last connect to the drugs.

Replyed to u below instead of here ..new to this forum. My bad

Yes she did always get something. I ALWAYS thru her $5. .she didn't have to go anywhere. The dude would bring it right to the job so i just was being good people giving her a few in her pocket. Now with that situation over since she lost her job she had to drive just a mile or two to meet him so id give her 10 extra. Boy was i taken advantage of or what. Oh btw were in our 40's so been doing this way to long i think.

 

[Pill2Chill]

Probably, junkies don't care about much except their next fix. (Speaking from experience)

Please try to use the edit function when you were the last person to post already. It's right under your post next to 'reply' and 'quote'

 

[crazyhairman]

put your own work in sir dam i dont trust junkies AND we dont love them hoze id stay away , shes sounds like a lier to me - if u cant get the money back try to get somthing , like a tv or somthing els and dont frount your monies to a known user id let it go but next time dont trust a junkie

 

[Raysu]

Ok I will play devils advocate here. You say you both did H and had the same set up as coworkers and no issues for two years. Then she turns up on a xannies bender and loses her job and has family issues. Perhaps she just expanded her realm to other drugs, blew what cash she had, couldn't compensate with the lack of income and added stress and really has no way to get your cash back to you. Not that what she did was right but maybe what's going on with her is worse than what you realize or have been through. You can't get blood from a turnip or much from someone in deep. No doubt she knows it's wrong. Worry worsens everything addiction or other wise. Let her go and what you gave. Hope your benevolence opens her eyes to get the help she clearly needs. I've been screwed out of money given in good faith to those who had habits not half as bad as mine. Maybe that lost cash/product is a gift that ends up saving your life and keeping your life normal/free and you just don't see it in the present time but one day you'll look back and realize how close you were to losing what you still have.

 

[flomix]

Id ask for the money back saying i had it sussed. That way your not being smart and she wont know if your lying or pissed off. Then ignore her...