GreenMan91
Greenlighter
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- May 6, 2017
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Hey guys, it's been a long time since I've been on the forums. I appreciate the diversity of topics covered here.
Basically, I'm 25 and it's been over a year since I've had sex. There's at least three things I think that have contributed to that. The first is that I'm really busy. I got my first full time office job where I work 40-50 hours a week and I've been spending exuberant amount of times studying outside of work. Secondly, I moved back into my parents basement to save money. Third, I got sober over a year ago and I'm terribly anxious around new people which doesn't help with the seduction process.
I've been on tinder dates but none of the dates end up going anywhere. I try to go into these dates without the expectation I will get laid and instead just try to have fun. However, whenever I try to have a second date, girls say they aren't interested. It's usually not so hard for me to get a little action every once and awhile. I think I've just lost my mojo!
Does anyone have any experience/advice they can share? I feel like a virgin for the second time in my life and it's a little miserable. I moved recently so I don't really have a solid new group of friends. Is it more important to build that first? In the past, that hasn't been a problem, but I feel like as I get older the rules of the dating world change and I haven't kept up with them.
Basically, I'm 25 and it's been over a year since I've had sex. There's at least three things I think that have contributed to that. The first is that I'm really busy. I got my first full time office job where I work 40-50 hours a week and I've been spending exuberant amount of times studying outside of work. Secondly, I moved back into my parents basement to save money. Third, I got sober over a year ago and I'm terribly anxious around new people which doesn't help with the seduction process.
I've been on tinder dates but none of the dates end up going anywhere. I try to go into these dates without the expectation I will get laid and instead just try to have fun. However, whenever I try to have a second date, girls say they aren't interested. It's usually not so hard for me to get a little action every once and awhile. I think I've just lost my mojo!
Does anyone have any experience/advice they can share? I feel like a virgin for the second time in my life and it's a little miserable. I moved recently so I don't really have a solid new group of friends. Is it more important to build that first? In the past, that hasn't been a problem, but I feel like as I get older the rules of the dating world change and I haven't kept up with them.