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Guys: The longest you've gone without orgasm?

GUYS: What is the longest you have gone without an orgasm?

  • 1 day or less

    Votes: 3 2.5%

  • 1 to 3 days

    Votes: 7 5.9%

  • a little less than a week

    Votes: 40 33.6%

  • about a month

    Votes: 44 37.0%

  • a few months

    Votes: 19 16.0%

  • a year or more

    Votes: 6 5.0%
  • Total voters
    119
darknessfails said:
ok, so i'm the guy that withstood for about a year...

does anyone besides me NOT have wet dreams? i mean, i've had only a handful and i'm approaching 30 (this includes when i'm not jerkin it). my friends dun have much either.
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Yeah same. I have had one in my whole life and I woke up like WTF happened.

Longest I would say is about a month, and then some girl gave me dome. Lets just say it was a little to much to swallow =D
 
I'm actually suprised with a lot of the lengths in here; some of you guys have some self-control! God, I discovered masturbation at 11 and I'm 24 now...and I'd say maybe 4 or 5 days tops in over a decade. But I learned early to orgasm without ejaculating, so that definately has helped me through certain periods!
 
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That's cool. Is it like a tantric exercise or do you do it just to avoid mess or to be able to have multiple orgasms?
 
RhythmSpring said:
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That's cool. Is it like a tantric exercise or do you do it just to avoid mess or to be able to have multiple orgasms?
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Haha, it is a funny story. I actually discovered masturbation on my own, not knowing at all what the heck was going on (parents never had the talk with me), but I discovered it through a technique that allows for me not to ejaculate. Haha for about 4 months, I thought I discovered some secret of the universe that nobody else knew about. I referred to it as "that feeling" to myself. But ya, it actually makes the orgasm itself stronger, but I don't necessarily feel "satisfied" afterwords, as the junk's still all in there, so to speak. And sometimes it can make urinating difficult. And yes, I can have multiple orgasms that way, but nothing crazy - just like 3 in 10 minutes maybe....then I am psychologically turned off for a few hours at least.
 
I discovered masturbation around 11 or so....since then, I'd say 5 days, tops.

Basically, my mom was never shy about how much she loved sex and my dad always had a huge stack of porn mags, (they were divorced when I was a baby), so no matter where I was, there was always some kind of talk/stash of sexuality around.....so once I started, it aways just seemed to me, "If ya can, than do!"

However, last year, I decided to give myself a little test....I knew I was spending a lot of energy on orgasms, whether it be through sex or masturbation, so I decided to stop and see what it was like for a while....

I wrote/recorded more music when I wasn't jerking off/having sex than any other time in my life.....

Orgasms relax me....almost like opiates. I'm twice as motivated if I haven't gotten off in a few hours...
 
i once decided i should stop masturbating and planned to give it up till i next had sex (didn't have a gf). i think i lasted about 4 days.. i just get way to horny if its not taken care off regularly and start thinking of sex constantly
 
Never more than a couple days. Nothing memorable.

I'm also a guy who gets more irritable the FEWER orgasms he has.
 
Teko said:
i once decided i should stop masturbating and planned to give it up till i next had sex (didn't have a gf). i think i lasted about 4 days.. i just get way to horny if its not taken care off regularly and start thinking of sex constantly
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That's me right now. Except I'm lasting much longer.
 
After two or three days I become extremely horny and I basically have a constant boner. Why torture yourself?

The orgasm feels a little better but it's pretty much instant; it lacks the fun build up
 
i had a mushroom trip a few years back... after that i didn't masturbate for a few months, maybe 3 even.

it was an energy thing ~ don't remember it being difficult at all.. quite an amazing time

i too feel that when i masturbate my energy drops ... I'm gonna give it another go ~

i want that magical energy back
 
Yip today is day 3 of no orgasm. I made a promise too myself not too until I make the effort and get randy with a hottie.

And already I feel more energetic, happy and confident .... I really think I have the self control.
 
8ft-Sativa said:
Yip today is day 3 of no orgasm. I made a promise too myself not too until I make the effort and get randy with a hottie.

And already I feel more energetic, happy and confident .... I really think I have the self control.
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Let us know how you're going in a week :p

I'd say my longest was about 10-11 days, only relatively recently actually. I got to a point where I was overdoing the whole porn and masturbation thing and after some research decided I needed to cut back a lot, which I did for a bit, and still have compared to previously. I think it does help with energy if you can save it, and being hornier in general makes you more keen on trying to get some real action.
 
o m g... I can barely go one day without. I've never seen a reason to "cut back"... but I think the longest I've ever gone was like 3 days.
 
from when i discovered masturbation? maybe a few years back when i was a kid. in more recent adolescent years, i had a challenge with some friends to go 2 months without which i made it. of my own will, i would say recently would be 3-4 weeks. this is excluding when i had a gf, when which i didnt really masturbate at all since there was no need to...
 
i dont actualy know :O. it must of atleast been a week but thats shit. right starting from tomorrow im going to stop it for a month and see what happens. self experimentation FTW!
 
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