GIRLS PLEASE READ THIS!!!!!!!

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bean_geek

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GIRLS PLEASE READ THIS!!!!!!!

I was at a nice little house party, I met many other Florida Bluelighters, I met a girl named Erica. She ate about 2 beans when I first met her. Over the night she was fed 3 pills by guys that she didn't know. So by the time I crossed her path again she was SO FUCKED UP that she was not even moving and random guys were walking up to her and she was pushing them away. So I watched her as a young guy walked up to her and was trying to get her up to go with him....I asked him do you know her? He replied yes I do....I knew that he didn't I met the guy that she was with and another girl that she was with. So I told Dominic that we need to watch her cause guys were trying to "hurt" her. So, I got her up and took her to her truck so she would be safe the boy that she was with was in the car too. I felt great after I knew that she was safe, BUT....when I saw those guys try to take her away to do what they pleased with her I was really pissed. I would expect guys to have respect for girls when they are that fucked up and not try to "hurt" them, what I saw fucked me up inside I WILL NEVER LET A GIRL WHO IS SO FUCKED UP OUT OF MY SIGHT. WHAT I SAW OPENED MY EYES....GIRLS DON'T GET SO FUCKED UP THAT GUYS WILL TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU!!!! PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF....I DON'T WANT TO SEE THIS HAPPEN TO ANYONE AGAIN.
I LOVE YOU ALL AND TAKE CARE.....
TARA
[This message has been edited by bean_geek (edited 15 November 1999).]
 
that's really sad. when i leave for the restroom for a while, my friends panic. (for multiple reasons). i always tell my friends where i am going, etc. etc. you are a true friend. much respect.....
and everyone-- party safe-- try not to get yourself into a situation where you cannot properly take care of yourself. that is just dangerous for all involved.
PLUR-Rachel
 
ahhhhhh
HUGZ tara......
nice to know there's someone out there looking out for us frail fragile cracked-out raver girls....
i've been in that situation many times, not to that extent, but enough to worry me.
you're a sweetheart
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alwayzzzz PLUR & happy :) rolling...
E-girl
*I said "no" to drugs, but they just wouldn't listen!*
**I don't suffer from insanity, I enjoy every minute of it**
 
I'm a guy and I can totally agree with that. It's truly horrible to see someone in that condition, and even worse to see other men, drunk or just plain horny trying to take advantage of the situation. It's even worse with alcohol than it is with E, and girls, especially underage ones that don't drink often (I'm 17, weigh 120lbs, and can drink like a fish) rarely know their limits, and I often find myself, piss drunk but very coherent from alot of alcohol taking care of people (sorry to say it, but usually girls, guys either know their limit, or either ego tells 'em to hide when they're too drunk) who drank half what I did and are stumbling around in a total daze. Anyhow, take no offense, an it's sorta off-topic, but i really need to get this off my back, cause i've taken care of way too many drunk girls in the last month or so. Once i had to go to the point of A: pulling the alcohol from their hands and B: stealing their car keys while they weren't paying attention, then drive them in their car (i don't even have my license, just a learners permit) because I was sober and the people needed to get home. ARGH. Today's lesson kiddies...DON'T DO ALOT OF DRUGS UNLESS YOU KNOW YOU CAN HANDLE IT, AND DON'T DRINK MORE THAN YOU CAN HANDLE.
--devnull.
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Critics have told me I've ruined the lives of 50 million young people.
I can't be certain of this, since only about 10 million have ever come back to thank me.
- Dr. Timothy Leary
 
I know the girl that you are talking about....she was a real sweetheart. I wish you would have come and gotten us and let us know whut was goin on. Between us guys, we would have put a stop to that shit.
That's the problem when you get drinkers and rollerz together. We had some tense situations after the party too, but nuffin like that. First roll party I ever attended where so many people were anti-fukin social.
I was happy to see you there, Sweety. You will be getting an invite to the next party. I hope you come visit us! Bring Monsoon too!
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~~~I dont do drugz, DRUGZ DO ME!!
~~~CAUTION!!! Brain Cellz are addicting!
~~~I wuz on my reserve brain cellz, but I have killed them off.......shitty!!!!
 
Man. I think I know which girl you're talking about too. Such a phucked up situation, at least some people are still looking out like you sweetie.
Well it wuz nice meeting you, hope to see you at the next one!
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Dave you guys had already left this was about 4 or 5 in the morning. I took care of her and I am happy that she's safe. I just felt that this topic needed to be brought up for the fact that I want people to be safe and not end up in a ditch or in a unfamiler place. I hope that you all take care of your selfs and others. Devnull that is a great thing that you do. I hope you keep it up. Thanks guys.Take care.I love you all.
Tara
 
Hey ! it was great to meet you ! Sorry if i didn't socialize more, i had a slight problem there and wasn't dealing with it that great. that is fucked up about that girls situation, mad props to you for watching out for her. can't wait to meetup again ! plur ! *R*
 
I think that your friend has is very lucky to have a friend which is like you.
I really know the problem, because I am always the girl who is "fucked up" ( Did I say right ). Each time, i "only" take 1 pill but it works very well on me and I always have very good pills. So I am always very "défoncé" ( I dunno how do you say it...someone got an french-english dictionnary pleaaaase ?! ). With a friend, we always go to the same clubs, the same days because we know that it's great. But there are always LOADS of guy, for too many girls. So, loads of guys always come to me, start kissing me ( on the check(??) or lips. OK WE ARE FRENCH PEOPLE. and this kind of kiss is already used to say hello and good bye here so it's not important ) but they try to attract me. I am lucky because this friend ( which is a gay boy )always keeps an eye on me ( even if he is rolling too ), and do as possible to keep me with him. And when he "looses" (?) me, he will have a look in each part of the club to find me. You have to tell to your friend how she was this weekend ( as my friend always does because most of time, I don't remember everything ) so that she will know that she has to take attention with who she goes when she hangs out and rolls. My friends asks me to never go ( I think that my grammar is horrible
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to this club alone even if i know people there because if every parties you dunno what kind of people is there. There are always people who tries to take advantage of the situation. it sucks !!!!!!!!!!
PLUR
A+
VALAYRIE
 
just to add to this
it's funny... because of my group of friends...i'm known as the defender. =)
and also the mos experienced...and you know what? i love it... when my friends want to have their first drop...the insist that i'm there...if everyone is too fucked up to drive...they look to me as the responsible one to make the judgements... and when my female friends are dropping...they stay attached to me to avoid trouble. I'm not a big, scary guy... but people feel safe and secure around me. I've had to pull many a drunk/rolling/aggressive asshole away from a girl i was with a hundred times... some lead to fights, sometimes not....but bottom line... us as MEN need to step up to the plate and have a ZERO tolerance for that bullshit, and not be afraid to get physical if it comes down to it... plus girls appreciate that and your chances with that girl are a million times better than the aggresive asshole =)
the U in plur stands for Unity... and that's a big part of it
peace
 
Thats my GURL!!!! You have the power to save the world one person at a time!!
LUV YA
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Thats pretty fucked upright there, but sadly it's pretty common. When I was living in the dorms people would always try to get girls drunk and fuck them. It's so fucked.
I see it sometimes at raves. It's usually pumk asses like Juicer and Fuzzychest(Did you read their fucking post?) and a lot of them are military guys who just heard that raves are a good place to pick up girls.
My friends are usually pretty fucking good at covering eachothers asses. There will be one or two semi-sober(couldn't find beans) people watching out for everyone. It kinda helps that I hangout with a lot of large guys so if someone is taking advantage of a friend of ours it's pretty easy to convince them to fuck off in a big fat way. I'm not talking about people just joining in on the cuddle puddle or shit but the guys who are like "Why don't you come to my house? or trying to get there hands doan someones pants or some such shit.
People watch your asses and your friends asses. Just because nost people believe in PLUR at a party don't mean everyone does.
 
Yeah, That's a fucked up situation. People shouldn't take advantage of other people when they are fucked up real good. I say "people" instead of guys because on a few instances, I've heard of it happening the other way around too......Girls takin advantage of guys in a fucked up state. Either way, It's wrong. If you need to use drugs to get with someone then you are one sick fuck.
I know when I go out, I'm usually with a crew that has a equal # of Guys and Girls. I look out for all of my friends. No matter how fucked up I am, I always feel the need to look out for everyone. My friends are as good as gold to me, and I'd do everything in my power and beyond to keep them from harm, and I know they'd do the same for me. If i'm too fucked up to look out for my friends than I know I'm doing too much drugs cuz it's the friends that really give me the fun I have when I go out....not the drugs. You can go out and do drugs all you want, but if it ain't with the right people...it's useless in my eyes. We all gotta look out for each other ya know.
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"I gots mad PLUR for all y'all"
Chipmunk
 
Thanks guys for replying...raverdad I have to say you were the shit....Dave was right I had to meet you. I am happy that you all take care of yourselfs and others. Dominic (XMonsooNX) me luvs u 2.Can't wait to hang out with you guys again! Love you all and take care.
Tara
 
Definitely props to you, Tara !
It's unfortunate, but a lot of kids who go to raves these days do not know how much they can handle, and they end up not being able to handle their drugs. There have been many times that I remember having to walk over passed out kids.
I haven't been to a rave in a while, but it's good to know that there are people like you around to help watch out for them.
The thing is . . . . do these kids learn from bad situations like this ? I hope so.
Not trying to ruin your fun, guys - just care, that's all. Happy rolling and stay safe everyone !
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***PLUR***
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It's a sad state of affairs now
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When we go out, we all stick together (a group of 4) - we'd like to be social - but there's too many drunks fucking it up - trying to sleaze onto the girls, making life generally unpleasant.
Running into other Rollers is cool - but they're getting less and less - clubs want to bring in the drinkers, not the e-tards - $$
Boo ... oh well, hoping Earthcore crowd hasn't become a bunch of yobs too !
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PLUR
 
Wow, that really sucks that that had to happen, I wish I would've known. But at least you were there to make it right. Mad props to you! I know I met that night also but I'll be damned if I can picture you =( Hopefully we'll meet-up again soon.
PLUR
Wyrm
 
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