gingertabby
Greenlighter
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- Dec 30, 2023
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Everytime i've been the victim or the perpetrator, it's always like these 2 cases:
I know what i did and they don't need to justify not wanting to talk to me (or vice versa) but it might still hurt regardless.
And, when they just do it out of nowhere, for no apparent reason, nothing wrong was happening between us, yet they left without a word, sometimes even preventing me from contacting them in any way, or never replying to my attempts.
I am obviously talking about people who were really close and important to me, not just random friends or acquaintances that never had much relevant experiences with me. That's why it hurts me so much to think that i was not even worth an explanation to them, or that everything we shared was never real or important for them.
Honestly, even tho i been guilty of ghosting, i don't remember ever doing it like that. Only did it when they knew, or should have known what they did...
And even then, when they pestered me enough, i ended up giving an explanation, even if they didn't deserve jack shit.
Have you ever ghosted someone for reasons you thought were justifiable, or if you've done it like in the second case i described, what exactly went thru your mind, if anything at all...?
Edit: just added something.
I know what i did and they don't need to justify not wanting to talk to me (or vice versa) but it might still hurt regardless.
And, when they just do it out of nowhere, for no apparent reason, nothing wrong was happening between us, yet they left without a word, sometimes even preventing me from contacting them in any way, or never replying to my attempts.
I am obviously talking about people who were really close and important to me, not just random friends or acquaintances that never had much relevant experiences with me. That's why it hurts me so much to think that i was not even worth an explanation to them, or that everything we shared was never real or important for them.
Honestly, even tho i been guilty of ghosting, i don't remember ever doing it like that. Only did it when they knew, or should have known what they did...
And even then, when they pestered me enough, i ended up giving an explanation, even if they didn't deserve jack shit.
Have you ever ghosted someone for reasons you thought were justifiable, or if you've done it like in the second case i described, what exactly went thru your mind, if anything at all...?
Edit: just added something.
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