ihatepipes
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I have been with my wife for going on ten years. 6-7 years we cohabitated (for lack of a better term) and now we are married for about 2 years. Sex is great. I think it may be good enough for her to last awhile because it takes about a week for her to be into it again. The sex is passionate. It really is an act of love. Definitely not just two people fucking for the hell of it. It feels meaningful. So basically everything is good except I would enjoy once or twice a day a whole lot, but I know that is not likely to happen and I am ok with that.
So what does it take for me to get her to be more sexually motivated. The obvious things are help out around the house, listen to her when she is talking, support her in what she wants to do etc.. I have tried doing these things, and I have also tried to talk to her about it. I can't really fault her because everyone's sex drive is different and I would never cheat on her, but I would be overjoyed if I could get her to be a little bit more "sexually adventurous" i.e. initiating sex, acting like she is actually into me and is turned on by the thought of having sex with me (sometimes I wonder if she ever feels that way and it affects me a little bit). She does have some thyroid issues which I have read can affect sex drive and she also is believed to have PCOS so those two things are working against me, but I feel like there must be something I can do to bring about the change I am after.
Any constructive advice is appreciated.
So what does it take for me to get her to be more sexually motivated. The obvious things are help out around the house, listen to her when she is talking, support her in what she wants to do etc.. I have tried doing these things, and I have also tried to talk to her about it. I can't really fault her because everyone's sex drive is different and I would never cheat on her, but I would be overjoyed if I could get her to be a little bit more "sexually adventurous" i.e. initiating sex, acting like she is actually into me and is turned on by the thought of having sex with me (sometimes I wonder if she ever feels that way and it affects me a little bit). She does have some thyroid issues which I have read can affect sex drive and she also is believed to have PCOS so those two things are working against me, but I feel like there must be something I can do to bring about the change I am after.
Any constructive advice is appreciated.