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getting extremely high with bf/gf?

sorry i was just goofing with you, sorry... but seriously Cypress Hill's first album "Cypress Hill" is an excellent CD to throw down while chillen hella baked with ur lady... i don't really have an answer for u really other than find some other things u guys dig doing while baked or maybe just give each other space, it's really hard to give relationship advice without much background of the dynamics of ur relationship. And buy her flowers... In general buy her flowers. And be sensitive without being a pussy. A relationship needs exactly one of those in it.
 
QUESTIONS: :\

I'm with Frizzatnik and want to know if you get this 'quiet awkwardness' with any other people??? 'Coz I think some amount of silence while whacked(high) is quite normal. How often does she/you smoke weed? How often do you see eachother?

Slightly Unrelated, but: 'What do people think of spending time with a GF who doesn't smoke, when you are high? (they may or may not know)
Me? They never seem to notice that I'm fucked, so its all cool.

BULLSHITTING: 8)

Marijuana is a depressant and can make everyone silent at different times. However you should be able to enjoy the silence with close friends/partners and not let it trip and stress you out. By sitting there thinking "Oh shit, i havent said anything for a while" your just making something out of nothing. Just relax and enjoy yourselve's without filling every second with 'hot air' and unneccesary bullshit. With a GF it is even easier as you can just lay and cuddle or be more intimate.

I was in a relationship where a GF and I got high everyday. I didn't really have any quietness or awkwardness with her coz we had been tight for ages and she was mad fun...but sometimes I found her less attractive when she/we were high (by no means an issue for me, but has anyone else ever had this?). I think the key with this success was the large amount we smoked and chilled together.

Other relationships that have involved the girl being an 'occasional toker' (eg. once a month/once a year), smoking has not been a good activity. Mostly the fact that the inexperienced chicks seemed to be a bit silly and 'dumb stoner like' while high. Therefore I tended to keep my everyday habit to myself or just not encourage her to partake. Personally, I can enjoy my chosen GF's while not high, or at least while not getting fucked together (hehe with buds that is).

WARNING: 8o

Be careful though brother, pothead GF's can be dangerous...My older brother's GF had never smoked before she met him and us. 2 year's later we are calling her 'bongator' because she loves pot morning, noon and night. She is keen for a bong at every moment in the day...ounces smoked weekly, shitting on our measly 1/4-1/2 ounce per week budget.

Peace Out and Good Luck...
 
Not anymore really, cause last period i'm not ALWAYS able to have a real good conversation cause there are just going to many thoughts in my mind. So that i can't focus on my girlfriend.

Used to love it though.. sometimes still. It's just super when you just smoke a good bong and make love with eachother.. the high.. aaah :)

But i must say my natural love high also works fine :) For real, i'm getting a strong buzz from just kissing and laying on bed with my girlfriend.
 
my SO and I smoke like we eat. we always love to sit down and pass the pipe/joint/bong to each other. in fact, i wouldn't trade this activity for the world. i don't know why your gf gets upset sometimes. i'm thinking that you like the rest of guys do the little things that push our buttons..iono on that situation. i never get upset when i'm stoned
 
i got really high with a friend of mine the other day. it was so funny we both had these crazy theories about the universe and were trying to explain them at the same time neither one of us made sense to the other but it was still really fun after we couldnt talk any more i had the idea that we would pretend each other didnt exist to see if we would cease to exist.it didnt work but the point is we had no idea what the other person was talking about but that didnt matter you should just go with it being queit is more fun anyway cause you amuse yourself when your really high
 
i find that im less attracted to ppl when im stoned. i might think someone is goodlooking when im not stoned, then when im stoned i just wonder what the hell i was thinking.

Does anyone else find that ppl become less attractive when they are stoned?
 
when ur stoned and ur girlfriend comes and shes not yeah its true about finding her less attractive, but if ur gettin stoned together its ok
 
I smoke with my boyfriend and he ALWAYS tries to get all kinky with me but unfortunately I'm not in the mood when I'm high so I just tell him to take the laptop and look at porn or something. I don't know why but I almost hate sex when I'm high...I just like to enjoy my lil fuzzy feelins by myself ya kno. I like to lay on him when I'm lazy though but he doesnt like it when I get snuggly and start moving my legs because he says that gets him really really horny...haha I call him a sex addict.
 

and being with someone you always wanna look good around doesn't help things. [/B]
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thats how i feel about weed and aquaintences.
i don't like gettting completely blazed, that is if i don't have alcohol, around people that i'm self concious around.
if theres a girl i'm interested in around, i can handle being slightly high, but if i get too high, i over anaylze things. i mean i don't freak out or anyting, but it kills the high, and wastes my weed. not gonna smoke a shitload and not enjoy it is what i'm gettin at.
 
Yeah i know what u mean about not getting along with them.
I am a total pothead and i love to smoke when im with my bf, but i dont like when HE smokes. He gets all anti-social, non-talking, dont-touch-me, and i HATE that! i want to talk or touch and him and he gets all not fun to be with. That brings more conflict, bc i wont let him smoke bc he gets that way, and he gets mad. But if he has alcohol in him first, then its ok...his personality wont really change.
 
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