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Mental Health First session of group therapy bit of a let down...

For sure. Put your mind at ease. The psych could probably give you a quick answer if you've spent a lot of time together. I've been around many spectrum people and there's usually some telltale signs easy to spot when you have been around enough.
 
Atelier3 said:
Do you feel that that has or does anyway impact your quality of life in any way?
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It has made me lone wolf and i'm used to keeping stuff inside me. my human relationships are very superficial and artificial from my part but that's how i enjoy it. It's hard for me to get bonded to people anyways. I really don't care enough.
 
Oh right, should mention my experience was in a private hospital in Australia that had a good reputation from the people I spoke to there who had been to numerous other public and private institutions.
 
DeadManWalkin' said:
It has made me lone wolf and i'm used to keeping stuff inside me. my human relationships are very superficial and artificial from my part but that's how i enjoy it. It's hard for me to get bonded to people anyways. I really don't care enough.
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Interesting. I feel much the same. I don't mind being social superficially especially with random people but I can't maintain a deeper connection with more than one person at a time. And in the main, I don't really want to. Although I do worry about being old and alone if I don't find one lasting connection in life. However fortunately, I get along with dogs very well and find their company rewarding.
 
Atelier3 said:
Interesting. I feel much the same. I don't mind being social superficially especially with random people but I can't maintain a deeper connection with more than one person at a time. And in the main, I don't really want to. Although I do worry about being old and alone if I don't find one lasting connection in life. However fortunately, I get along with dogs very well and find their company rewarding.
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I think we're different.
I got ASPD diagnosis, while you sound like you avoid people because you find them threathening because of your past experiences. It might be reason for my "emotional shutdown" too, since i had very violent childhood.
It has always been easy for me to get up in social hierarchies and i'm very social when i want to be. I can be charming when i want to and i get women more than i want to.
 
DeadManWalkin' said:
I think we're different.
I got ASPD diagnosis, while you sound like you avoid people because you find them threathening because of your past experiences. It might be reason for my "emotional shutdown" too, since i had very violent childhood.
It has always been easy for me to get up in social hierarchies and i'm very social when i want to be. I can be charming when i want to and i get women more than i want to.
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I think you may be correct about me. I had years and years of very negative experiences with people when I was very young up until my teenage years. Being abused several times and being continually bullied each time I changed schools. A lot of that stuff has stuck, although I've done years of therapy to address both points. There is a thing called Attachment Disorder which relates to ability to form bonds as an adult because of childhood trauma - I think I've more likely got that than being on the spectrum.
 
DeadManWalkin' said:
I think we're different.
I got ASPD diagnosis, while you sound like you avoid people because you find them threathening because of your past experiences. It might be reason for my "emotional shutdown" too, since i had very violent childhood.
It has always been easy for me to get up in social hierarchies and i'm very social when i want to be. I can be charming when i want to and i get women more than i want to.
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Maybe you’re just hot?
 
Atelier3 said:
I think you may be correct about me. I had years and years of very negative experiences with people when I was very young up until my teenage years. Being abused several times and being continually bullied each time I changed schools. A lot of that stuff has stuck, although I've done years of therapy to address both points. There is a thing called Attachment Disorder which relates to ability to form bonds as an adult because of childhood trauma - I think I've more likely got that than being on the spectrum.
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Well, it's learned behaviour. You learned that it's better not to attach and it's completely understandable.
I learned violence as a means to solve problems and i didn't learn much empathy. I'm the kind of guy who talks everyone out of cop situations with his bullshitting skills.
 
Orrrr by the sounds of it.... maybe a sociopath. Orrrrr a hot sociopath. Not to diss your social skills/masking but generally those two groups have more success than others on the spectrum.
 
nOtHiNg_ElSe_MaTtErS said:
Orrrr by the sounds of it.... maybe a sociopath. Orrrrr a hot sociopath. Not to diss your social skills/masking but generally those two groups have more success than others on the spectrum.
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Google Anti-Social Personality.
Got diagnosed back in my foster care and mental health institution days.
Got instituniolized on purpose most of the time, i didn't want to go to jail so i just acted crazy when cops came. Shit on my papers like "Mental hospitalized for violent, delisuonal and shady behaviour"
Fun to fuck some schizophenic teens on the mental side. :D
 
Hahahahaha bro I thought the acronym you used was ASD as in autism spectrum disorder. Totally didn’t even register the P. Hahahaha! Okay yeah now I feel mean using sociopath so flippantly even in a teasing way.
 
nOtHiNg_ElSe_MaTtErS said:
Hahahahaha bro I thought the acronym you used was ASD as in autism spectrum disorder. Totally didn’t even register the P. Hahahaha! Okay yeah now I feel mean using sociopath so flippantly even in a teasing way.
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It's okay i don't get mad.
I anyways hijacked @MrsGamp's post, so let her keep going from now on. She had the real issue and real problems.
We are just chit chatting here.
 
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