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Fckn fck dont do it.

I understand your need to put some emotion into what you're typing, but please try avoid putting fucking fuck in every sentence, it makes people not want to read it, and you won't get many responses, if that's what you are looking for..

Back to the topic - If this person is serious about wanting to commit suicide, and you have a feeling that they would actually go and do something like this, and they're not just crying wolf - Then I would immediately let someone who can help them know ( police/family/dr - anyone who could genuinely help ). If anything you are saying to them is not helping the situation, then find someone who can help.
 
it is a very difficult situation indeed. in my times of suicidal depression i wanted to punch people in the face who said "it will get better" or similar. for me, physical human contact, knowing that i'm loved and a non-judgemental ear were the best things.
 
There ya go fly. Just sayin.

There Is more to life. I hate to see people end theirs.

I didnt care who thinks i say fuck to much when im worried a friend will kill themself!

If u want to answer, do. If u want to comment on my speech when im panicking. Inbox me!
 
i against i said:
it is a very difficult situation indeed. in my times of suicidal depression i wanted to punch people in the face who said "it will get better" or similar. for me, physical human contact, knowing that i'm loved and a non-judgemental ear were the best things.
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Thats what helped me to. Thanks
 
It is very hard to know what to say to someone when they are feeling this way--even when, as you say, you have been there yourself. I know that while the words "it will get better" make you want to scream when you are feeling totally hopeless, they are indeed true words. Still, I think that for me, the key was feeling that I was too weak to ever make things better for myself. Having people point out how strong and courageous I was under the circumstances was helpful. Offering to be there to listen, to hold or even just to stand guard outside the door is sometimes the only thing you can do. It is a tough and delicate situation and it is always important to remember that no matter what happens, you are not responsible ultimately for whether a person lives or dies. We each make that choice for ourselves.

Sorry that you are having to go through this, Kayla. And I am really sorry to hear what you went through as a child; that is horrendous and you are quite a survivor.<3
 
Fucking fuck what the holly fucking fuck fuck fuck fuck ! Holly fuck why the fuck I just dont understand your fucking logic fuck fuck fucking fuck holy fuck! SHIT ^^
 
Didn't mean to offend you, that wasn't my intention at all :) Just trying to say that it makes for difficult reading, and for some people who otherwise would have given you a helpful response, may just read the first sentence and then not be bothered to read the rest. Anyway, I did respond to what you said anyway. Good luck with this awful situation, I know it's not a pleasant one :(
 
herbavore said:
Having people point out how strong and courageous I was under the circumstances was helpful.
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i'm much much better than i was 3 months ago, but now in the best place mentally that i've been for about 7 years, so i thought it would be good to work through things with a therapist. he has been getting me remember and record times when i've shown my strength/overcome difficulties. not positive thinking, actual evidence of times when i've overcome struggles etc. this may be beneficial to a very depressed person as it might help build up confidence in yourself, as when depressed you typically are very self critical and don't believe in yourself/have any confidence in your abilities. i don't know how it would be when suicidal tho, as i said, i'm much better now but it is useful, to recognise times when you have shown your strength.
 
Thanks against. That was sweet of you to share. I glad you are doing better. Did drugs have anything to do with the way you felt?
 
it was a few things, split up with my gf, didn't have anywhere to live, and had been taking mdma every weekened for months.
 
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