Falling in love whilst on E

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Medic_CoW

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On new years eve i had the time of my life, the pills were good the music was good, and every thing was going great.
i ended up meeting this girl and was with her for most of the night while flippin pretty hard. i fell in luv with her, but was it really me or the pills taking over me...
we are not together at the moment, coz it turned a little sour right at the end of the night, but we are still friends.
Was it my true feelings coming out or was it the pill feeling coming out???????
 
Aghhhhhhhhhhh.............
the second I read the title to this I yelled!! Do not, I beg of you, please do not ever confuse feelings that you have towards a person while on E with the real thing! I did it and it hurt like hell when I realized that all it was was an E-bond!! I find it is so easy to attach yourself to someone when your under the glow. Lay off the drugs for a while, get to know this girl sober and then see if it's the same. You never know, she may be a great catch, but she may just be a E attraction too. You've really got to be able to set reality and yourself on drugs apart. Be careful with this one, I don't want for anyone to go through what I went through.
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I'm having this same problem with a girl right now. I just wanted to hang out, party, have a good time. Now she's calling everyday and I just want to be friends, sometimes being nice to somebody can give them the wrong vibes, I want her to be my friend, not my girlfriend. I just don't know how to tell her this without causing any harm, can it be done? I can't avoid the situation much longer.
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IMOKRUOK - Roll On Roll Off
 
Hmmmm....
Months ago I met a guy on e and had a great. After two "non-rollin'" dates I knew it was the e that enabled me to have a good time with him 'cause he was boring as all hell in normal life.
HOWEVER, I'm currently testing out the situation again. I met him about a month ago we rolled the first couple times we went out together. I wasn't sure if it was the E or him that I liked so much.
We've just spent a big chunk of "sober time" together and, honest to goodness, its more fun sober than when we roll. All the euphoric, intimate, happy feelings are there and then some.
Its natural ecstacy, my friends.
Definately give it a try and go out on a normal date.
Good luck!
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I fell in love on e
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lived with my e lover on e
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got married to him on e
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and am still in lurve 5 years later
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I think you can open your heart and find people you really connect with on e, you just have to be able to carry that positivity and caring into sobriety...
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"For goodness sakes, would you look at those cakes?"
 
well thats the thing we've hung out sober a couple times and she is still interested and I was never really from the start, I need a way to not hurt her feelings cause I thinks she's a great gal, I just don't want to be in a relationship, I want a friendship. They tend to last longer for me anyways so it would be better off for her.
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IMOKRUOK - Roll On Roll Off
 
You gotta be straight with her - no bullshitting. No false hopes. Tell her you just want a friendship now AND forever PERIOD. Do not leave it open, do not tell her maybe in the future, do not give her any reason to think she may have a chance later on(this'll only make her hang on longer) Tell her EXACTLY what you're thinking and feeling - she'll respect you that much more for being honest and not leading her on. If she can't handle just being friends, just let her go. Trust me on this one! Please.
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If you can't change it - get over it. If you can - do!
 
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