everyone around me having hard times

[trll]

Right now I have several close friends in trouble, I love them and I want to help, but its taking my energy away from cleaning my own side of the street. So to you all, " I love you, I want you all to come thru, and from now til sunday I am gonna feed, wash, massage, take care of you like i said. Then I need 3days in bed, followed by 2days taking it easy, then when I rested we see what needs to be done."B xx

 

[trll]

Thank you, I have to say that they all working hard on their problems, But they same old story, everyone knows that I am kind and lovely, amazing and admirable to do what I do. They come to me for suport favours food advice warm place, and company, and I find it hard to say no. (hmm, a little work needed?)
But I still so sad from my sons dads suicide, I miss him so much. I knew he, tho far away would help me if I ever in trouble. I sad for the loss of the future. So I need to do some greiving and sleeping. Thank you OverDone, for your words, I may by relying on TDS for company and comfort in the coming days It is so good to know that you all out there.
with love, bx

 

[Venrak]

Positive vibrations

 

[trll]

oh, man... I'm so sorry to hear of the father of your son's suicide.

We're here for you but in the meantime...

I would so like to find someone who has been through losing a loved one by suicide, I just miss him and finding it hard to come to terms. Seems others think i should be over it by now 5 months later i am still floored..
bx

 

[sam123]

5 months later aint shit... theres no reason to expect youreself to be over your fathers death.

I feel the same as OP right now and im glad you posted this becauae it made me realize that i as well need to get some damn alone time from everyone elses problems. Recently clean from meth, lost a long time friend to an OD, lapsed on drugs once recently and in the middle of some serious depression but it seems like i spend all damn day handling the problems of the people around me. Gonna go home today and get some damn time away its ridiculous how much other peoples problems can drain you when you offer yourself to easily to their aide 24/7....