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Ecstasy Tabs - Experienced - X and the Swingers First Date

fatallyflawed

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I'm writing this report after permission from my S/O cause we agree that it should validate for a trip report and she has no regrets for her actions as neither do I!

We start of our venture by meeting a "swinging" couple at a bar (we never had done this so we couldnt call ourselves swingers.....yet!) Everything is going well (my non-social wife has even opened up and takin a likin to this)
So i pull out some pills and give them to all of us and we stay around for an hour waiting and we all have the same rush just happen, we get into our cars and go to their place and we talk for a bit while HE smokes a bowl and I notice HER (i will call the other couple HE and HER and my wife such for clarity) gettin the body tingle so i start rubbing her back and my wife is just lookin and smoking a cig...I come up with the idea of goin to the room where me and her could be comfy and my wife and HE enter behind! I pull out the some motion lotion (stuff that heats up) and Im rubbin her and then I start gettin a wave of euphoria. All of a sudden I feel a soft gentle hand grab mine and recoginize it as my wifes and look to see she has jumped in on the action!

The pills we took where Med-highish pills and me and my wife both had this feeling at this moment of like spiritual connection to each other (regardless of sandwhiching HER we felt a strong connection between us that can only be described as cosmic in force) I stepped out (I know im such an idiot) so that I could enjoy the moment spiritually and let my wife enjoy her first bi experience!
Into it HE started rubbin on my wife gettin geared for his entry and I noticed her blush in embarassment but then her and my eyes locked and she gave me a huge smile and gently whispered "I Love You" I swear time stood still at this moment and there was an even BIGGER connection that was very out of body in style. Even though we where about to be broken into this lifestyle there was a strong prescense of "we will get out of here together and be together forever"

then she had her face buried in HER and HE was goin at it and u know I needed a pic of this! After what seemed like an eternity in X world (like 2 minutes in real life) I finally got into it with HER. I was a bit nervous considering i was my SECOND WOMEN I HAD EVER SLEPT WITH, she told me to relax and I still was on edge. Then my wife got behind me and touched me gently and whispered thoses 3 magical words again "I love you" and the euphoric waves and touchin sensations took over and got my second "notch"

The night lasted FOREVER...literally started at 11pm lasted to 8am and we only redosed once but the trip was very spiritual and orgasmic and we where still rollin when we left their place at 9am. The ride home was a silent bliss of enjoying our time we spent together that night and what we just experienced TOGETHER as a couple and the world seemed right! It brought us closer and we are more so in love now than ever!

I wrote this report for two reasons.....1)it was our first "swinging" experiance and we where on x so it goes hand in hand and 2) we have rolled numerous of time and THIS WAS hands down our best time! We connected on such a spiritual and personal lvl that cant be described and that mind set and setting truly play a roll in your "roll" experience!

TY for reading this thread! If u dont agree with "our" lifestyle plz just leave,dont bash us here as this is not meant for that...it's a report of our trip and if u have questions then Im happy to answer!
 
Fantastic!
I'm glad it was such a wonderful experience for you. When being intimate with new people or in groups, the MDxx experience of being unafraid to be yourself and the genuine love from that is.....difficult to explain and beautiful to experience.

Thanks for sharing this with us and I hope it continues to bring you joy.
 
I can see that being a good experience as long as everyone involved was comfortable with it. Even if everyone is at first, stuff like that CAN come back and cause problems later. But if not, cool!

I personally can't have sex on E..I don't know why; it just freaks me out because I like to touch, hug, kiss, etc. but when it gets sexual it just isn't "innocent" anymore..*shrug*
 
Vlad.......

I havent been ignoring your post...I havent had a chance to write out the story!so check back in a day and I'll answer!!
 
Vladicus said:
I am quite curious.. How did you come by such a lifestyle choice?
And where are you from?
I am wondering how you (as a couple) came to such an agreement?


i know this is for pullstring.. but we'll give our reasons.

How did you come by such a lifestyle choice? ---> for myself and my hubby, we did not know anything about the lifestyle. But we do sell sex toys (home parties). Well we were asked by a swingers club to go one night and sert up a table. As we (me and my hubby) stood at our table, we watched a lot of couples playing and got excited about it. So we talked and talked and talked any and all our issues, concerns etc.


And where are you from? ---> New England


I am wondering how you (as a couple) came to such an agreement? --> I would say look at question 1.

hope that sheds some insight... pullstring.. your turn
 
for us it started of as innocent porn first if u will...we used to watch things like orgys or 2ways and she rather enjoyed watchin them. Have u ever seen the "real sex" show on HBO? there was one on an event that was called 'Swingerpalooza' and one night we where rollin and I brought up what I saw (not really tryin to invite her into it)and she was like "i couldnt do that" etc etc etc..............

time passed and one night she out of nowhere goes "u remember that swinging thing u saw" and it opened up a conversation that was very indepth and hit points like she thought it was intresting but didnt want to say it felling it would make me hink she was a whore for wanting to try it or that she didnt love me and then we both knew what was more important to us...and that was US! we made ground rules day 1 that if for any reason one or the other wanted to abort the mission there was no "but u promised" or any nonsense like that,the idea would die because our marriage was more important than gettin our rocks off so to speak!

We spent about 2 months goin over EVERYTHING (what was acceptable and how much we where into each other enough to not let this be a down fall,swinging died before us if u understand that) before we even started planning our first date (which u have read all about =D ) it just so happens that I fell the much planning and going over our realationship values and being 100% truthful is what made this work!

oh and we are from Las Vegas 25m and 24f with 2 lovely daughters!
 
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