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Ecstacy ( MDMA ) sex party! What are your thoughts?

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...looking to host parties that would basically combine mdma with a casual swingers party, although i dont like using that term (they are mostly couples oriented and anti-drug)

ppl arrive and are supplied with Everything they need in an E/roll friendly and sexy environment, and encouraged to roman orgy it up, etc.

...have somen ideas in my head of how id like to do things and make them work but am interested in others thoughts approaching this from a wide variety of angles...

Have at it


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Why formalize the event?

There is probably a good reason swingers generally do not have a positive view of drugs and drug fueled sex parties.

I think it is a bad idea overall, unless you are prepared to deal with the inevitable emotional drug fueled drama that only increases expoentially with every guest you invite to ply with MDMA.

It could go really well once or twice, but things will quickly deteriorate after that in my opinion and experience.
 
I'd echo noodle and say it is a recipe for disaster. Swinging is hard enough emotionally without adding drugs. It is too easy to blame the drugs as an excuse while not facing often complex human emotions that will no doubt arise. It is all well and good finding a group of people who want to have no strings casual sex but things will get complicated if not every one is able to make rational decisions. Add to that the fact not every person is turned into a rabid sex machine on MDMA. Empathy is different to loss of inhibitions. Some people enjoy holding hands because of the tactile sensations not because of any emotion connection.

I'd also hate to be in charge of a group of drug fucked inexperienced individuals. Rather than enjoying the moment you will be faced with a range of responses from people reacting to the same drug. For every person you get happy and horny you are just as likely to get one who is suddenly turned off and slips into an internal head fuck. Like noodle said, there is a reason why most swingers scenes do not promote drug use.
 
^yes!
i dont think its a bad idea as long as everyone is mature about it . 21+
there are plenty of parties in my city that are held once in a while which involves alot of girls all kinda drugs and ppl love it but these parties im talking about all the girls are naked and making out (more girls then guys).
for safety i think people should bring there own stuff let ppl chose if they want to roll or not! a friendly sexual environment will be the same regardless if there are drugs involved or not. just make it a drug friendly party with lots of lights and massagers music & visuals people will get the point
 
Given that people know what they will be going there for, i would expect any problems outside the party the next day. Ime i have never had any sort of problems resulting from the night before. Each and every time something like this has gone on it has been great, i would fully support it. :)
 
If everyone is up for that sort of party then go ahead but I know when I have taken E that I can fuck for ages but there's no way I can shoot my load so pretty pointless screwing in the first place.
 
I can't help you start a massive orgy, because I've never been in one and I don't think anyone I know has either.

But I have thrown a few rolling parties and of those rolling parties, one got very very sexual.

1) Invite people you know are going to want to do MDMA. But be chill with people who don't want to roll, but are cool with it and have done it before. (they'll probably end up rolling anyway.)

2) Plenty of lights. Good music. If you have a good budget hire a local DJ. Play music that gets the idea of sex along.

3) Massages are a good way to lead to sex. Especially if the person you are massaging is on drugs.

4) You are hosting/providing the environment, it's intelligent not to be selling drugs. For one, you'll be too busy to be messing with that.

5) And lastly the most important step: As the host, it's your obligation to watch over and make sure all of your roller-skates are safe throughout the wild night. Even if you're busy making steam in the bedroom, always best to prepare your mind mentally for at least one panic-attack or alcohol-related illness.

The past rolling parties I've been to, the ones that end up getting sexual usually had very good quality MDMA, a lot of room, music, dancing and alcohol for those who are taking breaks. Though, there was never a massive orgy, most people ended up getting laid and I stumbled in on 2 threesomes.
 
Renz Envy said:
The past rolling parties I've been to, the ones that end up getting sexual usually had very good quality MDMA, a lot of room, music, dancing and alcohol for those who are taking breaks. Though, there was never a massive orgy, most people ended up getting laid and I stumbled in on 2 threesomes.
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Yeah that's about the extent i've gone with it.. couple of people/friends + MDMA which quickly evolved into a lot of sexual fun. One of the girls involved was a bit thrown back by it all despite been under the influence of MDMA. That would be my major concern for something massive.. the idea sounds awesome and all parties might be super keen on it, but during the midst of it.. the surreal nature of whats happening might bring up deep issues and someone might freak-out.. and that's going to be hard to deal with if your royally fucked (mind the pun).
 
alasdairm said:
you're talking publicly about supplying illegal drugs. nice and smart? not at all :\
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I don't think it matters.
Swinger parties are private events that have incredibly strict rules and standards for entry.
It's not like anyone can just drop by and walk right on in.

Ever seen the movie Eyes Wide Shut?
To some degree, this is how swinger events operate.
 
Monkeybizness said:
for safety i think people should bring there own stuff let ppl chose if they want to roll or not! point
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I would just like to warn that this might not be the safest thing because scummy people might bring in fake drugs, shittily cut drugs, or other types of BS that you wouldn't want. And the people feeling all impulsive and whatknot might get these shitty substances, and then, uh-oh...

I'm sure I've just been around too much scumminess, and that makes me extra wary about that type of thing, but it'd be easy for an enterprising young junkie to get some BS, or something dangerous, and then hear about this party, come, and then fuck people up with his ill-intentioned wares.

That said. Sure I'd go! I'd need a test kit though, but who doesn't?
But meh...that'd be easy, just screen the people and don't let in who you don't trust. This was probably a worthless post of mine...lol
 
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Noodle explain what what you mean by 'formalise', and also why you think the first couple of parties will go ok then things will deteriorate if you wouldnt mind
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formalize ( transitive verb ) 2. to give form or shape to something

Creating a themed sex party means formalizing the nature of the event. I do believe you are asking how to better shape the experience for eveyone involved. No?
 
IF they are anti drugs then do not include drugs! Some couples are quite happy to share their partners when they are sober. First of all understand that and then provide the standard - protection - lube - comfortable and safe location.

If you need more help then record the event and upload the link !
 
more sexe parte brainstorming!

thankyou all for the input, it will be taken under serious consideration.

i love a lot of the cool ideas and feel wiser having read some of the more practical ideas.

I wish to steer away from the term "swinging' as that is heavily aimed at couples
(whereas my event will be aimed at singles/non-discriminatory) and 'swingers event'
are typically heavyily against use.

i like the suggestion of making it a more casual thing, i am thinking multiple rooms, a casual
room, a 'sexier' room perhaps with porn playing or something, a room covered in plastic for applesauce etc.

when i say 'party' i mean in a private house not a nightclub style venue.

one more thing, was thinking of charging, mainly i suppose because of the sex thing (guys were
going to be charged much more as is the way of other style parties) it was going to pay for the
party supplies and help pay for the rent of a lovely house to host this kind of thing in,
pay for professional cleaning, lots of blankets cushions food drinks sex toys and machines etc.

was thinking (again mainly for the sexual aspect) of starting with something like 24 people and a
female:male ratio of 3:2

wish I could discuss a lot more here but i genuinely have no intention of breaking any rules, but am open to PMs

again thankyou all for the great input, please continue brainstorming this
idea for me and indeed, yourselves :)
 
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