Doug, seroquel is a much more powerful sedative than benadryl or other OTC antihistamines. It is a drugged-state... it's so hard to get out of bed, and when you do you've slept for 12+ hours and you feel like you could sleep 12 more. There is no 'rest' when you're like that, it's more like a coma than actual sleep, lol.
This is what I was trying to express lol.
again i always feel like shit in the morning no matter what so if it helps me fall asleep im happy because i have so much trouble falling asleep.
I do too. I sit up from the recliner (because the bed I have leaves me in agony because of back problems; oddly enough it's a very nice and comfortable mattress, my issue is waking up lying flat on my back (I have hyperkyphosis-hunched back-so this is EXCRUCIATING). My hyperkyphosis also causes me neck problems because of the way that it's bent with my back being hunched forward at all times, so when I wake up, it's 4-5 cracks to the left, which usually have to be forced (and I have to slowly force it otherwise I have about 30 degrees to the left and right I can turn it), and then another 4-5 to the right.
I then limp to the medicine cabinet and take my morning 8-12 pills, dependent on if I take anything OTC, then walk outside and smoke. After about 30 minutes when my meds start to work, I can then TRY to get the stiffness out of my back, but is often unsuccessful. I'll normally reach full flexibility (which isn't much at all lol) after about an hour and a half.
Yes, being able to be conked out is nice, but I would like to actually like to wake up feeling somewhat rested and less like I got beat with a bag of bricks in my sleep.
I picked up some 3mg melatonin, but didn't want to test it on a night before I have to get up early in the morning, so I will try it tonight (probably about 24 hours from now) and report back.
Good luck to others trying to find something that actually helps you sleep well instead of just sedating you to the ability to sleep/having sleep induced by hypnotics.
-Doug