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Drugs And Parents [MEGA-MERGED]

I didn't mean to nitpick you on that. You simply said they are ridiculous due to most likely an uneducated (due to disinterest) opinion.

Anyway. Chea. Respect their rules, oh...you don't live with them. Then what is the big deal, you just feel guilty about hiding it?

Do your parents tell you everything they do? Nah. Why would you want to know.
 
my mom pours out the wine that people leave at our house after christmas. she's anti-everything.

but she has known about my drug use since i was 13 and, now that i have moved out, she doesn't really know what to do but doesn't mention it except in random bouts of lecturing about people she know who "fried their brains" in college
 
You're not under any obligation to tell your parents, IMO. It really isn't their business because you're an adult now, and if they don't have the context to understand what you're doing (which actually it sounds like they might!), there is a risk they would not understand and it would damage your relationship.
 
I am 29 now, and I used to hide everything from my parents. It became VERY obvious to them when I died my hair green and my pupils were often dilated much of the time. They were OK with, but not in support of my marijuana and psychedelic use. They both experimented when they were younger, so I assume they thought it was just a phase.

When I started to use harder substances (heroin, cocaine) they became very worried.

After my life fell to pieces and my sister ODed and died, they were obviously very concerned.

To each their own, but IMO, I would prefer not telling my parents anything until I am in need. If you use drugs recreationally and don't get into much trouble with it, then it is quite possible for them not to find out. (thus your ass won't be in as much trouble)

Needless to say, if you continue to do lots of drugs they will ultimately find out.
This has been my experience, and the experience of everyone I know who used drugs excessively.
 
Think about this REAL HARD. Wait about a month and if you still feel like doing it, think about it for a year.

You can't ever take this back. I thought my parents were cool enough to know I was eating mushrooms and smoking pot (before I was even into opiates). All they did was worry about me.

It will probably do more harm than good and your parents will not be excited for you. There's a reason they didn't tell you about their drug use.

They probably already know anyway, but it's a better idea to leave it unsaid.
 
Thank you all so much for your input! It really means a lot to me when people help others for no reason other than to help.

But, Center, I am only too well-educated in hard drug use. I've seen firsthand what a hard drug addict looks like, and when it's your uncle that you used to play with at the playground a few blocks away every now and then, the one that continues to break your grandparents', mother's, and your own heart by popping up in different parts of the country, begging for a money transfer, even going so far as to solicit his own goddamn clothes he's wearing just for one pathetic little bump of coke, it's hard to forget. I can't imagine heroin or meth being any different. Except maybe if he was addicted to meth, he would have been dead by now, saving us a lot of grief. And don't think for a second that we haven't tried helping him. We've learned that he's got to figure things out on his own.

But I digress.

I will take all of your comments into consideration.
Again, thank you.
 
My folks don't want me doing anything while I live here, and I'm abiding by that if only for a short while (will have my own place by year's end). As far as I know, cannabis is the only thing they know I've done, and I'm content to keep it that way, as they are humble, conservative, Reagan-generation people and let's just say they wouldn't take it well.

well if you have done rolls, you have done meth. and if you are involved in the drug community, as it sounds you are, good luck staying away from coke. I used to say tell myself a similair thing, but eventually when you are drunk and high as it gets at a party, some kid is gonna offer you a line and give a friendly "are you kidding, i wouldn't charge you" laugh when you say "i don't have cash for that," and then BAMB. next day you say "whoa i'll never do that again," and the process starts all over again. maybe not the case for everyone, but trust me, it's a common scenario.
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You can't say for sure that he's eaten pills with meth in them. It's possible, with the likelihood of having done so in direct correlation with how many pills he's eaten. And hell, he might have the willpower to resist Snow White's allure, for all we know. I know I ain't touching coke anymore, that shit feels too damn good.
 
Parents knowing about drug use

Being young ang gay I have done all the recreational stuff. My parents especially dad knows what the gay scene is like with drugs.....I even showed him an E a while ago to tell him it looked good cos it was a clean hard press etc.

He has also found used syringes and know a few ampules of morhine went missing once......i slammed it for fun then trod on the glass vials to look like I had accidently broken them....like it wasnt half obvios he is in the medical field and I was staying at his work apartment my room was full of syringes needles etc.

more recently they went overseas and he was kind enough to leave 5 ampules of pethidine (merperidine) in his lunch bag.....naturally after about 3 days I couldnt resist trying it so against the advice of a doctor friend I IV'd it. Sinve id taken one it was obvious anyway so I ended up doing them all the stuff is lovely high as a fucking kite off 100mg although its really bad to IV it since its meant to be IM.

They found a bag of used and unused picks along with bigger gauge draw up needles in my room and all I got asked was 'are you injecting' I said yes and nothing more was said.

Also they know when I go out clubbing I get on it cos ive come home extremely trashed plenty of times and being in medicine he knows what to look for. Mum gets more worried cos she thinks E is dangerous. dad knows its prety safe.
 
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