The Ego is dual, not singular
From here, the ego isn't actually 'self', but "self and other".
It seems to me that talk of transcending self often ignores something both equal and concommittent -- transcending other.
Self/other co-arise, and one can't exist without the other -- thus feelings of e.g. loneliness when self is deprived of other.
The dissolution of self (one's own ego) is the dissolution of everyone's ego.
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There is a base of Being (awareness), in which both self and other arise.
I see both my own body, and other bodies.
I hear both myself speaking and others speaking, when I'm talking to them.
That which sees, that which hears -- is always already transcendent of self/other.
Is this transcendent Being identifying with a single body, a single speaker -- or is it open to "being" both?
When I'm talking to someone online or in person -- can I move from "me", into the audience, and watch both "me" and "you" interacting as characters?
Peace...
From here, the ego isn't actually 'self', but "self and other".
It seems to me that talk of transcending self often ignores something both equal and concommittent -- transcending other.
Self/other co-arise, and one can't exist without the other -- thus feelings of e.g. loneliness when self is deprived of other.
The dissolution of self (one's own ego) is the dissolution of everyone's ego.
***
There is a base of Being (awareness), in which both self and other arise.
I see both my own body, and other bodies.
I hear both myself speaking and others speaking, when I'm talking to them.
That which sees, that which hears -- is always already transcendent of self/other.
Is this transcendent Being identifying with a single body, a single speaker -- or is it open to "being" both?
When I'm talking to someone online or in person -- can I move from "me", into the audience, and watch both "me" and "you" interacting as characters?
Peace...