There is nothing in the original post to indicate she knew she was pregnant when she smoked. In fact it sounds the opposite. How many women are not aware of a pregnancy until 7 weeks or more? Plenty in my experience. And wishing misery and regret on a fellow member trying to find harm minimisation advice and work out the best thing to do is the opposite of what is necessary here. Even if she was aware she was pregnant when she used drugs, anybody who knows anything about dealing with drug problems knows that shaming people is counterproductive.Yeah I hope she feels bad killling innocent baby just so she can get high, disgusting behaviour, you'll regret if if you've got an empathy, everytime you put that pipe to your lips remember this conversation and I hope you don't enjoy your high
How can you knowing you killed your baby to get high eh, there are people going through ivf desperate for a baby, then you get pregnant easy and do drugs!
You can’t be sure she hasn’t logged on, read what has been written, and just decided that Bluelight wasn’t the judgement free place for harm reduction advice she thought it was and is now seeking help elsewhere.And yet she's still not been back online to get her advice she apparently wanted!
Chill outI stopped heroin to get pregnant, I was on methodone, I was on the ivf waiting list as thought I was infertile, I was desperate for a baby since I could remember, I had the old slip up while having tests to see if I was ovulating, then got pregnant naturally, but bled the day I found out, got told it was a miscarriage till a after the weekend I had a scan and he was still in me, I've not took heroin since I found out I was pregnant, not once! I nearly lost him because I kept bleeding then he was born 3 month's early 2lb 9oz and was blue at birth and had to be saved
I feel strongly about it's because I've been through drug addiction I thought I couldn't get pregnant and there's others getting pregnant easy and still taking drugs or having an abortion, some woman spend upto a decade and £1000 upon £1000 and some never get pregnant or miscarry after going through Ivf, yet here are drug addicts having sex taking drugs and then worrying what harm they might of done when it's to late
And yet she's still not been back online to get her advice she apparently wanted!