Adikkal
Bluelighter
The question is,
Would we be more offended and disgusted if a well dressed and neatly groomed man started asking for money and hurling abuse?
Or just puzzled,
I can see it from both sides. Aesthetically, no, the 'dirty and unkempt' homeless people are not pleasing to the eye and generally are a depressing stimulus as you walk through the city streets, therefore most people choose to ignore them, which just perpetuates the whole cycle.
This makes the homeless people feel worthless, invisible, and sub-standard as a human being. Put yourself in their shoes and tell me if you wouldn't get pissed off at the world occasionally and vent by yelling abuse at the 'rich' and successful members of society while you are left to go back and sleep in the luxurious confines of your Big Screen TV box. The same box that the members of 'rich' society have discarded.
Seriously, think about the effect this type of shit would have on your ego. Its all well and good to say they should take advantage of the services the govt provide (which they should) but most of the time the inherent issue is not so much a situational, physical problem of having no place to stay, but from a complete destruction of their sense of self-worth.
Its more a mental problem than anything, you try breaking out of that.
Go and walk a kilometre in their tattered old shoes, then get back to me.
But with all that said, no doubt the next homeless person i pass on the street i'll avoid eye contact with becos its not something i want to deal with. I mean, i definitely pity them, but thats also part of the problem... being pitied by society is another damaging thing to the ego.
It is alot more complex than being simply without a home, its a crushing thing to happen to a person. So next time anyone whinges about the dirty nature of the city, cluttered up with ugly homeless peeps, try and view the world from their perspective.
Exercise empathy - then re-evaluate.
Peace
Adikkal
Would we be more offended and disgusted if a well dressed and neatly groomed man started asking for money and hurling abuse?
Or just puzzled,
I can see it from both sides. Aesthetically, no, the 'dirty and unkempt' homeless people are not pleasing to the eye and generally are a depressing stimulus as you walk through the city streets, therefore most people choose to ignore them, which just perpetuates the whole cycle.
This makes the homeless people feel worthless, invisible, and sub-standard as a human being. Put yourself in their shoes and tell me if you wouldn't get pissed off at the world occasionally and vent by yelling abuse at the 'rich' and successful members of society while you are left to go back and sleep in the luxurious confines of your Big Screen TV box. The same box that the members of 'rich' society have discarded.
Seriously, think about the effect this type of shit would have on your ego. Its all well and good to say they should take advantage of the services the govt provide (which they should) but most of the time the inherent issue is not so much a situational, physical problem of having no place to stay, but from a complete destruction of their sense of self-worth.
Its more a mental problem than anything, you try breaking out of that.
Go and walk a kilometre in their tattered old shoes, then get back to me.
But with all that said, no doubt the next homeless person i pass on the street i'll avoid eye contact with becos its not something i want to deal with. I mean, i definitely pity them, but thats also part of the problem... being pitied by society is another damaging thing to the ego.
It is alot more complex than being simply without a home, its a crushing thing to happen to a person. So next time anyone whinges about the dirty nature of the city, cluttered up with ugly homeless peeps, try and view the world from their perspective.
Exercise empathy - then re-evaluate.
Peace
Adikkal