The topic might seem like a cliche, that's why I'll try to enrich it a lil bit with my own perspectives, experiences and doubts...
She's sleeping. We have to be really quiet, since she's sleeping just less than a meter away from me typing this. I don't want to go to bed and I am not looking forward to sleeping with a woman with declining libido or lacking affection toward "the cock"...
After all, what's the point? I need to share a bed (wich is not that big) with someone, during summer it also might get too hot, thank's God she's not snoring...Why all that? It's after all just those moments of sex that are somewhat enjoyable, that seconds of ecstasy just before everything turns gray again and the gray shade of mediocre lives falls back upon us once again, making me/us sleepy, making me dislike any further contact until the energy is recovered.
It has been almost a month since our sex life is pretty slow. Once a week, after some insisting and persisting, rites and frights. And then the 2nd day some health problems kick in for the n-th time. Then menstruation. Then 'my father will hear'. And then this one epic: "I want just to be caressed and huged and loved. Why are you always holding my tits? Why are you touching my pussy?"
Guess what why, you smartass-girl, because you wouldn't be able to stroke a dick even if it was in the middle of your mouth...I say calmly to myself, caressing my love goodnight with a big smile, as I reluctantly get out of bed to 'leave alone' the sleeper after all other tactics to ignite her have failed.
Health problems? Boredom? Fears? Or in her case just knowing that you have a LTR boyfriend and you can do whatever...why rush the things anywhere. After all it's basically in the esence all the same, no? Or let's experiment a lil bit, running 'does he really love me without sex' thing or whatever...
But I don't care. Like in that song, 'it's getting late but I don't mind'. So many things to worry about in MY own life: careers, financials, flights, my own insecurities, aging parents, insurances, nausances...
Sometimes I feel so overwhelmed that I can barely make myself get out from bed. A good morning blowjob daily until symptoms subside would be the best therapy. But alas, I think I won't see it anytime soon (at least not from this girl). Instead, that sleepy face (of my gf) will be there staring at me again tomorrow morning, convinced that she is giving me all the love she can...at least her version of love. And guess what? Who knows what are the others like? (For one another I know, she had an awful smell coming out from her mouth at all the time and was shaking her legs uncontrollably during sleep)
So my question is...dunno. How to prevent sex drive from declining in a LTR? Why it happens and what can be done about it?
She's sleeping. We have to be really quiet, since she's sleeping just less than a meter away from me typing this. I don't want to go to bed and I am not looking forward to sleeping with a woman with declining libido or lacking affection toward "the cock"...
After all, what's the point? I need to share a bed (wich is not that big) with someone, during summer it also might get too hot, thank's God she's not snoring...Why all that? It's after all just those moments of sex that are somewhat enjoyable, that seconds of ecstasy just before everything turns gray again and the gray shade of mediocre lives falls back upon us once again, making me/us sleepy, making me dislike any further contact until the energy is recovered.
It has been almost a month since our sex life is pretty slow. Once a week, after some insisting and persisting, rites and frights. And then the 2nd day some health problems kick in for the n-th time. Then menstruation. Then 'my father will hear'. And then this one epic: "I want just to be caressed and huged and loved. Why are you always holding my tits? Why are you touching my pussy?"
Guess what why, you smartass-girl, because you wouldn't be able to stroke a dick even if it was in the middle of your mouth...I say calmly to myself, caressing my love goodnight with a big smile, as I reluctantly get out of bed to 'leave alone' the sleeper after all other tactics to ignite her have failed.
Health problems? Boredom? Fears? Or in her case just knowing that you have a LTR boyfriend and you can do whatever...why rush the things anywhere. After all it's basically in the esence all the same, no? Or let's experiment a lil bit, running 'does he really love me without sex' thing or whatever...
But I don't care. Like in that song, 'it's getting late but I don't mind'. So many things to worry about in MY own life: careers, financials, flights, my own insecurities, aging parents, insurances, nausances...
Sometimes I feel so overwhelmed that I can barely make myself get out from bed. A good morning blowjob daily until symptoms subside would be the best therapy. But alas, I think I won't see it anytime soon (at least not from this girl). Instead, that sleepy face (of my gf) will be there staring at me again tomorrow morning, convinced that she is giving me all the love she can...at least her version of love. And guess what? Who knows what are the others like? (For one another I know, she had an awful smell coming out from her mouth at all the time and was shaking her legs uncontrollably during sleep)
So my question is...dunno. How to prevent sex drive from declining in a LTR? Why it happens and what can be done about it?
