Foreigner
Bluelighter
From my near death experiences, I would define things this way:
Birth is consciousness identifying with a body-mind.
Death is consciousness disidentifying with a body-mind.
There's a brief period after birth and before death when consciousness is disidentified, but still occupying the body. For example infants in their first year don't retain attachment to things that happen to them. An infant who experiences pain, discomfort, etc... will cry and then the next moment be OK. There is no story or retention. Yet when an infant reaches out to grab an object, there is consciousness/awareness still present, there's just no story. Babies aren't even aware that their skin is a boundary that separates "me" from "out there". Duality has not occurred yet.
In our journey from birth to death, that pure awareness is always there, it just becomes a personalized "I" through identifying with duality. It's a mistake that every human makes after birth. Consciousness, through stimulus, begins to identify a here and a there, until it turns into "stuff happening to me". Then awareness says, oh shit, no, I am not actually a "this", I'm actually pure awareness... but it's too late, it has folded itself into duality. But not really, because it can never be truly divided, it just behaves that way for the duration of life. Then we spend our entire lifetime trying to reunite with that pure bliss, through externalities... relationships, career, love, drugs, sex, movies that open our hearts, all temporary things. Our suffering all comes from our very first belief in duality. It's hard to put this into words because it's not a mind-body thing, so the language is clumsy. It doesn't really involve mind at all.
We can't begin the process of reconciling this until we get older and have the cognitive development to learn the skills. As infants we are just pure awareness and so the dualistic process occurs naturally.
Pure awareness happens near death as well, which I am more familiar with. You get so weak that there is no energy for the activities of mind and the attachment to body-mind becomes so weak that "you" begins to cease and there is only the present awareness of consciousness. No past or future.
Granted, I have not actually died so I can't say what happens next, but post-birth and near-death have very similar features.
Birth is consciousness identifying with a body-mind.
Death is consciousness disidentifying with a body-mind.
There's a brief period after birth and before death when consciousness is disidentified, but still occupying the body. For example infants in their first year don't retain attachment to things that happen to them. An infant who experiences pain, discomfort, etc... will cry and then the next moment be OK. There is no story or retention. Yet when an infant reaches out to grab an object, there is consciousness/awareness still present, there's just no story. Babies aren't even aware that their skin is a boundary that separates "me" from "out there". Duality has not occurred yet.
In our journey from birth to death, that pure awareness is always there, it just becomes a personalized "I" through identifying with duality. It's a mistake that every human makes after birth. Consciousness, through stimulus, begins to identify a here and a there, until it turns into "stuff happening to me". Then awareness says, oh shit, no, I am not actually a "this", I'm actually pure awareness... but it's too late, it has folded itself into duality. But not really, because it can never be truly divided, it just behaves that way for the duration of life. Then we spend our entire lifetime trying to reunite with that pure bliss, through externalities... relationships, career, love, drugs, sex, movies that open our hearts, all temporary things. Our suffering all comes from our very first belief in duality. It's hard to put this into words because it's not a mind-body thing, so the language is clumsy. It doesn't really involve mind at all.
We can't begin the process of reconciling this until we get older and have the cognitive development to learn the skills. As infants we are just pure awareness and so the dualistic process occurs naturally.
Pure awareness happens near death as well, which I am more familiar with. You get so weak that there is no energy for the activities of mind and the attachment to body-mind becomes so weak that "you" begins to cease and there is only the present awareness of consciousness. No past or future.
Granted, I have not actually died so I can't say what happens next, but post-birth and near-death have very similar features.