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Dating apps and drugs?

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Ismene2

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To any of the people who use dating apps - when do you mention that you like getting off your tits? Is it a dealbreaker if shes never had ayahuasca?

Or is simpler to just stay home taking drugs and choke the chicken as and when required?

Thanking you.
 
At the point in time when I used Bluelight most I got into the frame of mind that drug use was entirely normal and widespread and accepted. It took a few harsh reminders to remind me that things are definitely not like that in the 'wider world'

Unless you meet the female version of yourself, or as similar as possible, most will see drug use a huge red flag.
 
Bleaney said:
At the point in time when I used Bluelight most I got into the frame of mind that drug use was entirely normal and widespread and accepted. It took a few harsh reminders to remind me that things are definitely not like that in the 'wider world'

Unless you meet the female version of yourself, or as similar as possible, most will see drug use a huge red flag.
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Yes. It's very easy to fall into the trap of seeing drug use as normalised when you walk in our world. I too have had several harsh reminders that the general pleblic don't quite see things the way that we do...
 
I’m learning this the hard way right now. It doesn’t matter if you own your own business, been married half your lifetime, etc.. Soon as they hear you like a little weed, you get checked off the list. So funny considering most these people just sit around watching Netflix all day and wanna scoff at stoners who probably do 3x more in life than they do..

That said, I’m not gonna give up for awhile. I’m a gem in the rough, gotta look for another one and they aren’t easy to find.

-GC
 
G_Chem said:
I’m learning this the hard way right now. It doesn’t matter if you own your own business, been married half your lifetime, etc.. Soon as they hear you like a little weed, you get checked off the list. So funny considering most these people just sit around watching Netflix all day and wanna scoff at stoners who probably do 3x more in life than they do..

That said, I’m not gonna give up for awhile. I’m a gem in the rough, gotta look for another one and they aren’t easy to find.

-GC
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Yeah man, I agree. And the same sort of people, especially the likes of my parents (god love em) would say: "well if it's so important to you, drugs must be more important to you than finding someone nice" but it's not that at all. People like that are so closed minded, and I've found a few women over the years who were open minded enough to give me a shot, despite not really using drugs themselves. It's more a frame of mind, and it's not just drugs, people with that kind of willful ignorance are usually closed to a lot of cool experiences (like with sex, food and travel for instance) that they'd probably enjoy if they were a bit more open. People like that remind me of children who won't eat new foods vegetables cos someone at school said they don't like them. Variety is the spice of liiiifffe.
 
I was taken aback when I saw a few state in their bios "Absolutely no druggies"

And to be honest - taking psychedelics IS more fun than female company. It just is. After all sex only lasts 2 minutes 20 seconds (and that includes taking my clothes off)
 
Probably not the most ethical thing to do but in general i usually waited until after i fuck them before i tell them the extent of my drug use. Unless they bring it up and they seem open-minded about the situation. My girlfriend now is a Dead Head also so she is obviously cool with me taking certain drugs, we trip togther for instance.

Have dated woman in the past that hated drugs and i would be very secretive and live a sort of double life, which sucks. Mainly cuz they were hot and i just wanted to get some. My last girlfriend was super controlling when she found out and then started stalking me on Bluelight, after she found out who i was here.

Cuz i was posting in the PD Social about fucking a woman with purple hair, kind of a detective right. So a lesson from that is to never let a woman know about this place unless she is completely cool with you being a drug fueled degenerate. When you find your hold onto her for the rest of your life
 
Pissed_and_messed said:
I can not seriously date anyone who drinks but looks down on other drugs. It is just turn-off. Like dating right-winger.
If they does not look down on drug use, but for other reasons does not want to date drug users, I let them take that path and do not intervene.
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I could not agree more. Some people are way too quick look down on drug use while failing to rationally observe their drinking. I assume this is due to the cultural acceptance of alcohol, but it is unfortunate nonetheless considering how dangerous drinking is in comparison to other drugs and how inferior the effects of drinking are compared to other drugs.
 
Most of my girls were users and those who were not (well those who just smoked a bit and/or drank a bit) found my use really problematic (even when it didn’t affect them badly)..
 
Morbid Sea Cow said:
I could not agree more. Some people are way too quick look down on drug use while failing to rationally observe their drinking. I assume this is due to the cultural acceptance of alcohol, but it is unfortunate nonetheless considering how dangerous drinking is in comparison to other drugs and how inferior the effects of drinking are compared to other drugs.
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On considering, I'm fucked if I can think of such crappy drug that pure is classified as a serious carcinogen...
 
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