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Curves or barbie dolls

doofqueen

doofqueen

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Was just reading the 'does size matter' thread and the poster made a comment about girls not having to worry about guys not caring about how big their boobs and arses are and thought to myself that it's really not very true...

please prove me wrong fellas =D

I just see so many glamours and barbie type girls being adored and fawned over and wonder surely there must still be guys out there that appreciate a woman that has an average or curvier then most figure 8)

I used to be quite large but i have lost 33kgs and went from a size 22 to a size 14/16 but am still "volumpuous" and curvy with an hour glass figure...larger breasts, small waist, rounded hips etc

No offense to those girls who do look like barbie or who are petite but personally i like girls who are soft and cushy to touch without bones sticking out...you want something decent to grab onto don't ya? ;) I'd be to afraid to be rough with them in case they break 8o

Although i have always been one for thinking that no matter what you look like ATTITUDE makes you sexy =D
 
Perhaps, but to throw another spin on things, perhaps we should bear in mind not all thin girls choose to be the way they are...

One of my starkest memories of my mother was how upset she used to get about people's comments on her size... she was 5'2" and has never weighed any more than 51kgs (around 110lbs) with the exception of when she was pregnant, and it always really upset her that people would accuse her of not eating, of having eating disorders, etc when she actually ate really well and just could NOT put on weight.

I still remember one day, mum was not having a good day in general and a particularly large woman said to her in a bitchy tone "god your thin, it's disgusting, perhaps you should start eating!", and mum simply replied "goodness, you're fat, it's really repulsive, perhaps you should stop eating" and turned on her heal and walked away.

I piped up a little later on and said to her that I thought what she said was a really cruel thing to say to the 'fat lady', and she told me how much it really bugged her that people we continuously commenting and accusing in relation to her size, and she seemed really hurt - it was only then that I realised, these things cut both ways.

Fuel for thought, no?
 
thats why i said no offense to the petite girls foxykel :)

I'm just wondering if there are guys out there that like larger than average girls as opposed to those who are slim and skinny
 
Wasn't taken offensively, I was just making a generalise point that many people seem to overlook ;)
 
Ofcourse thereare guys out there who prefer curvy girls.... i know a few. Skinny is NOT better.... Id take Rose McGowan over Christina Agulera any day!!
 
Generally I like bigger boobs, and curvy ladies, but it does matter less than you might think.

I was thinking about this, and I've been surprised several times by my male friends saying "I like to date X, kind of girl"and then actually picking up the exact opposite. One friend that stands out in my memory said, "I like to date short women, nothing taller than 5.3" A couple of weaks later he was dating a girl that stood at 6 foot. Men spend a lot of time talking smack about "what type of women they like." In terms of breast size, height, weight, etc, but it's seems to have little real world bearing.

I've dated all different builds, and found all of them attractive. It really all about how well you suck dick ;) or I mean attitude, yeah attitude.
 
i like curvier chicks!! there are alot of hot well rounded chicks!!

most guys standards are way too high i think
 
i got curvy hips but small breasts. unfortunately some things are beyond our control. :-(

i acn't complain about not receiving enough male attention, but i get turned on so much myself by seeing big breasts, that i'm slightly sad that this is something i acnnot offer my man.
 
so where are all the guys that like curvy women in ohio? :) i would be so sad if i had small boobs.... i love my boobs, they are the only thing i like still if i gain or lose weight.
 
FoxyKel said:
Perhaps, but to throw another spin on things, perhaps we should bear in mind not all thin girls choose to be the way they are...

One of my starkest memories of my mother was how upset she used to get about people's comments on her size... she was 5'2" and has never weighed any more than 51kgs (around 110lbs) with the exception of when she was pregnant, and it always really upset her that people would accuse her of not eating, of having eating disorders, etc when she actually ate really well and just could NOT put on weight.

I still remember one day, mum was not having a good day in general and a particularly large woman said to her in a bitchy tone "god your thin, it's disgusting, perhaps you should start eating!", and mum simply replied "goodness, you're fat, it's really repulsive, perhaps you should stop eating" and turned on her heal and walked away.

I piped up a little later on and said to her that I thought what she said was a really cruel thing to say to the 'fat lady', and she told me how much it really bugged her that people we continuously commenting and accusing in relation to her size, and she seemed really hurt - it was only then that I realised, these things cut both ways.

Fuel for thought, no?
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OMG! 8o
you just described my exact fucking life! i cannot go up to visit my college anymore because of the weight i've lost. i went from 127 lbs to just at 110...quite a noticeable difference for someone of my size/frame, etc. my coach gives me shit, athletic trainer gives me shit...even my best friend gets that said to her about me when she's up at the school gym. that is totally not cool. maybe i should use that line your mom used next time someone decides to tell me how to live.
 
I, personally, like to see a woman with a little "T & A", and it really helps if the body is somewhat firm. I think if you keep yourself toned (which I really need to do ;) ), it will make you more sexy, no matter what your size.
 
i think barbie might be a bad example for all this...barbie has gotta be the (most unrealistic) curviest example of anything i know :p
 
fizzygirl said:
i think barbie might be a bad example for all this...barbie has gotta be the (most unrealistic) curviest example of anything i know :p
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I think it's just an example ;)

However, I remember reading somewhere (don't ask me where, because I couldn't remember) that Barbie's body is physically impossible. If you were to make her "life size" she wouldn't work - it's impossible to have that small of a waist and that big of hips.

I have to say that I find women of all sizes attractive - if they look like they "fit" in their body. Some girls are thin, and always will be - and they can be very beautiful. Some girls, like myself ;), are very curvy and maybe a bit overweight - and they too, can be beautiful.
 
I love all types of women. I can find beauty in everything... Well not Ana Nicole Smith, That bitch is beyond all help. I got nothing against thick women but she stupid too and that's too much. Ana Nicole, I'd say suck a nut but you'd probable get hungry and bite down. :\
 
I think it's all about health and confidence.

I've been a size 8... and I was the most neurotic, boring, vacuous irritatable person during that time, because I was constantly on a diet, wouldn't go out because I "had to jog" in the morning at 6am, and STILL saw myself as fat.

I was the "ideal" but do you think I got lots of dates? nooooo.

So now I'm a size 12 - healthy, curvy, with medium-large breasts, decent hips and a little tummy. But the difference is I LOVE my figure now, I'll go with you to Maccas, eat chips infront of a DVD and rage on all night and drink and sleep in. I don't bore my partner with talk of fat grams and burst into tears at the sight of an extra 0.1 kilo on the scales. I dress to accentuate ;) . And you would not believe the amount of attention I get. Far more than when I was a stick figure.

*shrug*... it leads me to conclude that it's all about being happy with yourself. You exude the feeling that YOU think you're sexy, then you will appear so to others.

doofqueen, there is always someone out there who likes soft cushy chicks - probably more than you think. But what matters is, are YOU happy?
 
Defiently Curves! I admire a female who has a slightly curve to her. I can't stand stick figures, it's not a turn on at all! I'd much rather a Curve, Busty female :) *Yum Yum* - Mwaaah! :)

*Hugs*

Shal..
 
slm...i am definitely happy with myself...it's not like i lack in admirers (although thatsounds so up myself lol) i would like to get down to a size 12 eventually but it's not a big issue to me...loosing weight at one point in my life was the most important thing to me...thinking that i would be happy once i lost weight butreally i didn't get happy about how i looked till i was happy with who i was , and basically i'm pretty happy with who i have found in my journey of self discovery =D

foxykel....i'm sorry if you thought i over looked that fact but i actually am quite aware of theother side of the scale (as in i have alot of friends that are or think they are too skinny and would love to put on weight and i realise it's just as hard and if not harder to do this)

I was just wondering if the general bl population likes the cushy gals ;)

nice to see that they do =D
 
FoxyKel said:
Perhaps, but to throw another spin on things, perhaps we should bear in mind not all thin girls choose to be the way they are...

One of my starkest memories of my mother was how upset she used to get about people's comments on her size... she was 5'2" and has never weighed any more than 51kgs (around 110lbs) with the exception of when she was pregnant, and it always really upset her that people would accuse her of not eating, of having eating disorders, etc when she actually ate really well and just could NOT put on weight.

I still remember one day, mum was not having a good day in general and a particularly large woman said to her in a bitchy tone "god your thin, it's disgusting, perhaps you should start eating!", and mum simply replied "goodness, you're fat, it's really repulsive, perhaps you should stop eating" and turned on her heal and walked away.

I piped up a little later on and said to her that I thought what she said was a really cruel thing to say to the 'fat lady', and she told me how much it really bugged her that people we continuously commenting and accusing in relation to her size, and she seemed really hurt - it was only then that I realised, these things cut both ways.

Fuel for thought, no?
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Thats exactly me - im 5'1 and dont go above 8st, even after going on holiday and stuffin my face for 2 weeks, i jumped on the scales last night to find im the same weight as what i was when i went away :)

There is too much pressure to be the 'perfect' size, everyone is different and slm has made a good point its got something to do with confidence, if you are confident about your figure it will show and isnt that a bigger turn on than anything else?
 
FoxyKel said:
large woman said to her in a bitchy tone "god your thin, it's disgusting, perhaps you should start eating!", and mum simply replied "goodness, you're fat, it's really repulsive, perhaps you should stop eating" and turned on her heal and walked away.
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Ha ha! Classic! Your mom rox! Perhaps people should mind their own business next time. ;)
 
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