At the outpatient program I go to they have this clas on Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, which is basically all about coping skills. I'm not crazy about it to be honest, but there is one tool called "opposite action", which has actually helped out a lot surprisingly. The premise is pretty straight forward, do the opposite of what you normally would do when put in a situation that makes you uncomfortable.
For me stress is a big problem, if something is stressing me out, like say a relationship with a friend, or sorting out some beuracratic bullshit with my college, I tend to put it off until the last minute, because I dont want to deal with it.mthe problem is, is that whatever the stresser is that I'm putting off, it usually starts to worry me more and more, and ends up increasing my anxiety. So with opposite action, the idea for me, would be to face the problem head onl and reach an understanding or resolution as soon as possible.
It sounds a little lame, and no it doesn't reduce anxiety like a shot of smack would, but it has helped me out more than a few times, s obvious as it seems.