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Condoms vs. without condoms... whats the difference??

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ovenbakedskittles

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What is the difference between using a condom and not using a condom as far as how it feels?? how much better does it feel not wearing a condom more than it does wearing one???

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As a guy, it feels so much better. You can really appreciate the warmth, texture, wetness, but emotionally I feel closer to her too and for me that's really important. It's like if you play with someones skin using your fingers but through their clothing.. it's just not the same as direct skin on skin contact.

I think there's probably some kind of subtle thing too like biochemistry or electrical interaction when there's skin on skin contact, that you don't get with a barrier in the way.
 
Condoms, diseases, and unwanted pregnancy are among reasons why I think sex before marriage isn't ideal.
 
^^...Just say no kids. LOL

Anyhow, sex with a condom is infinitely better than no sex. Sex without a condom is not worth the risks, and the difference in feeling, while present, is not like day and night. If you are in a steady relationship, and your partner is on birth control then there is not much to say against sex without a condom.
 
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Shimmer.Fade said:
^^...Just say no kids. LOL

Anyhow, sex with a condom is infinitely better than no sex. Sex without a condom is not worth the risks, and the difference in feeling, while present, is not like day and night. If you are in a steady relationship, and your partner is on birth control then there is not much to say against sex without a condom.
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Of course. Good sum up!!
 
Infinitely better.

But with greater reward comes greater risk.. I'm still amazed i skated through my early twenties without impregnating someone or contracting a disease; im more cautious these days, especially when alcohol is involved.. and my desire for sex overwhelms my rational judgement, Goddamnit.
 
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As a guy, it feels so much better. You can really appreciate the warmth, texture, wetness, but emotionally I feel closer to her too and for me that's really important. It's like if you play with someones skin using your fingers but through their clothing.. it's just not the same as direct skin on skin contact.

I think there's probably some kind of subtle thing too like biochemistry or electrical interaction when there's skin on skin contact, that you don't get with a barrier in the way.
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Id rather whack off than to sex with a condom tbh
 
As a girl it makes a slight difference, like it doesnt smell like latex and I think that condoms even when lubricated kinda cause a slightly annoying friction especially the condoms that are like the trojan ribbed, her pleasure and the other weird ones in the "pleasure pack". Condoms especially shitty cheap ones suck for girls to but obviously necessary. Also, guys stop getting shitty, wack ass condom that suck! Also don't get that fire and ice bullshit...no bueno for the vag. Thanks. Xoxo
 
I actually prefer condoms. If I don't have one, after about 5 minutes or so, my penis gets sore. It feels a little better without one, but not to the extent most people say.

Like the people who will pay a hooker extra to not use a condom. Really? Not worth it.
 
I never have had sex to finish with a condom. I have also only laid with two girls all the way my entire life so I am clean with no babys because both took birth control along with the pull out method. The girl I am with now and I tried the condom thing just wasnt the same. Made for those one night stand I dont care much for you overall sex but to get my rocks off kind of experience. I dont know what do you think guys? The connection just isnt as deep as when a piece of rubber is involved.
 
^ You're right about that. Lube is useful, inside and out.
My first time I ever had sex, I used an unlubricated condom, I couldn't get the damn thing off when we were done. I finally had to cut it off with a pair of scissors.
(The condom, not my penis)
 
Waffle Sock said:
Quite possibly the most accurate comparison there will ever be
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Come on. Now you don´t even get to taste it. I think it would be like licking a diet light yogurt instead of an ice cream.
But it comes with a final taste. It has too, or else we would do it anymore..
 
lazylazyjoe said:
I actually prefer condoms. If I don't have one, after about 5 minutes or so, my penis gets sore. It feels a little better without one, but not to the extent most people say.
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I feel like on average most guys last longer with them. Are condoms really that awful? Like this now is making me feel as if past hook ups weren't really that good for the guy because of a condom?
 
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