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Cocaine Etiquette

Dr. J

Dr. J

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Ok, haven't posted in quite some time, but have a situation where I really want the input of those who may have found themselves in the same scenario.

There's a person, let's say someone who isn't me, gets his blow from a very good friend. Now, this guy and this girl have been friends for some time, couple of years, in fact, but nonetheless a friendship that may not have blossomed were it not for the amount of drugs watering it, if you get what I mean.

Well, his friend gets the blow from someone else. So, she serves as a middle (wo)man. Now, this guy, realizing the lengths she goes to secure the stuff is totally and 100% cool with sharing. Who else is he going to do blow with - all my himself? Certainly not.

But, what happened to my friend the other night is, well, I think down right shitty.

After every line he does, he offers up a line to the girl AND her roommate. Don't get me wrong, everyone gets along and really are friends, but things get a little strange when the white powder and razor blades come out.

This guy and his friend go outside to smoke, leaving the roommate inside. Well, for some reason the pile always looks a little smaller. But, this last time, it was blatant - the roommate was like: "Hey girl, I think the plant in the bathroom needs some more sunlight, it's not going to get much just SITTING RIGHT ON THE WINDOWSILL". And then, at the end of the conversation, "Oh yeah, but be sure you move it RIGHT OFF THE WINDOWSILL." And this girl would disappear into the bathroom a few minutes later.

This friend is gay, and has been hanging out with these girls for some time, but this was the most obvious and was happening (literally) right under his nose.

Now, why sneak blow from a friend when you're already being given free lines. He's basically giving them 2/3 of his shit up front, losing how much up their nose behind his back?

What really bothers this friend is that he shares a lot with these girls, and they really are cool girls, fun to be around, I mean shit - he's met their family, done thanksgiving, etc; it isn't just totally drug based relationship.

And NO, this friend isn't just imagining the pile of coke getting smaller...things this obvious aren't made up.

So, would you say something right then and there? Ruin the night? Say something later? Have to lose a friend over drugs? Lose out on a contact of some fire stuff?

My friend is really interested to hear what you might have to say :)
 
Dr. J looks for etiquette tips: "He's basically giving them 2/3 of his shit up front."

If I was giving most of my Coke to these girls anyway, then I would not worry much about them using (or taking) a little bit more.

If you're worried about this happening again . . . then next time, pour "just" enough for the lines you want to offer to them (and yourself). If one of the girls complains, THEN it would be a good time to confront them for their "sticky fingers."
 
Are you saying the person 'your friend' gets it from stole some, or the roomate only? If it was both of them, I don't see any way he could bring it up and not loose a hookup/friendship. Either he just uses them as a hookup (and doesn't leave cocaine layin around while over there), or he ends it.

If it was just the roommate, I'd just tell him to watch his shit. I had a friend who had a few roommates, and I trusted him so much I would leave things at his house, or leave it where people could take it while I was in another room.

One time, I got some shit stolen, blatantly(by a roommate), so I just didn't ever leave my shit out over there anymore. My friend noticed that I was being protective of my shit, but I never made a big deal of it, and it was just kinda unspoken that I didn't want to get my shit stolen.
 
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They both take part...it happens when SWIM goes out with his friend to smoke, the plate gets put up on a shelf, but the roommate goes and grabs some and sorts it out for the two of them - a tagteam event if you will.

SWIM doesn't want to lose this friend over something as trivial as drugs, but when he's already throwing down, why the need to be greedy and take even more??
 
^ That's shitty. If you have to keep dealing with them to get shit, I'd just keep my stuff in a bag and take it out whenever I was going to offer lines. They'll catch on that you know, but you're not actually confronting them about it.

They sound like shitty friends, though, and I would go to other people if I could, unless they're the only option... or if they have some fucking great coke, of course!

Edit- You should see if they are still friendly with you if you don't do all your coke with them. Tell 'em you quit and see what happens. I hope for your sake they'd stay cool, but I don't think they would, honestly.
 
Cocaine Etiquette:

Rule #1: Don't sneeze!


As for the situation... I'd deffinately keep better track of your bag around them. Only thing you can do unless you dont mind starting a confrontation
 
"when he's already throwing down, why the need to be greedy and take even more??"

You are asking US this question!? If you really want to know the answer to this question, just ask the girls.

I, personally, would not do that . . . but there are all kinds of people in this world.

1) Maybe they're taking some so that you will say something.
2) Maybe they think you're so wasted that you don't even notice that it's gone.
3) Maybe they don't want to be snorting it, and figure that a little theft will prevent future snorting.
4) Maybe they think you're a loser, and you deserve to get ripped off.
5) Maybe they are selling it, to make a few extra bucks.
6) Maybe they would rather snort it without you.
 
take a gun, shoot her in the leg. Tell her what she did wrong. Then finish the job (whatever that means -- I don't know).


She doesnt' respect you.

If she is selling drugs to you and wants to hit it with you, she's being a bitch. Someone who respects you won't do this, or will at least turn the offer down until you demand it, unless she is selling to you at the price she is getting (which probably isn't true). Also, if she brings along her friends, she is a bitch.

Then she is stealing from you... Dude, this bitch is a fiend. I would go drop her off somewhere, and leave her ass. Seriously. And her friends. And you could give them the plant to take with them, because you don't really need a plant in the bathroom.

This is why I think cocaine is such a bad drug.
 
Stop giving your coke away. I wouldn't give mine away unless its to my best friend, and then, I don't really care. I certainly wouldn't give it away to a GROUP of people. If I found out he was stealing from me, i'd probably kick his ass throughly enough to put him into the hospital because that is some backstabbing, lowlife, punk shit.

Don't these whores have their own cash to invest? Especially if they are BUYING it for you ? By the way, you are deluding yourself if you call these people who blatantly steal from you 'friends'. They are using you. It would be no big thing to lose contact with these people, no matter how good your 'friendship' is, real friends just don't steal from each other.

CONFRONT THEM.
 
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^^what he said, it just sounds like a fuckin' shitty situation.
 
Get coke from her and then tell them you have somewhere else to go. Fuck 'em. No need to kill the connection; just kill the friendship.
 
yea who the hell leaves there coke layin around of course people are goin to steal it. dont let them cut it up, dont even let them hold it. the more you keep it in your pocket, the more you get in your nose.
 
i trust my friends around the white princess, but there are definitely acquaintances where id keep an eye on my beautiful pile.

id say confront the people in question, cuz thats bullshit.
 
coke does this to everyone man

just tell the dude not to leave his shit lying round if he thinks people are robbing it
it really is simple as that


why are americans so thick???!?!?1
 
Dude, this problems come upto me before. When its over, they wont be friends. but....Yeah..Your goin' to have to bring a digi with ya, weigh it up before you leave. weigh it when you come back (use a smaller mirror this time and tare your scale to the weight of the mirror sans coke, assuming you dump it all out)

Face it, if they're ripping you off. They are not your friends.

I hope you handle the situation better then I did, but then again, you cant hit women.
 
Uhh, don't leave your coke lying around?

I have that rule even for weed, and if I did coke, it'd be the same.
 
^While I completely agree with you, everyone knows how people get when they're all coked up- you just want to keep that high going, you don't want to come down.
 
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