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Can you have safe sex anymore? How many before you get STD?

Sounds like you just came from sex education class. It freaked me out too. If your partner (male or female, I wont be sexist, ill say you're bisexual ;P ) has warts/lice all over the place, get out of there! Odor may or may not be a sign of disease, but your partner should at least be clean and take care of their self. Condoms, when used properly, can prevent many STDs. Some STDs in the 1 out of every 5 people statistic are indeed curable and (relatively) minor. As another person said, the 1 of 5 statistic doesn't mean you can count "one, two three four, five- you have aids." in some remote parts of Africa, 99 of 100 people may have aids, while in a civilized area of Europe, 1 of 1000 does. Use common sense, ask about your partners previous partners- make it seem like a dirty game, what kind of people have YOU slept with? They're more likely to be honest that way than if you ask them if they've slept with anyone with HIV. Just be open and honest with you partners. Sex is amazing and pleasurable with common sense and caution. Wait for a partner you care about, rather than a stranger from a bar. My advice? Go for the virgins ;D gurantted clean
 
My god...what is the world coming to. Oh...it already came... It's easy as a few people said above. Get to know someone properly instead of rushing into bed with them. If you are such a fuckup that you can't deliver a decent resemblance of a romantic relationship to someone, you should fuck your hand, a hole in the wall, or a sex toy and save the world from a Jerry Springer comeback.
 
rangrz said:
cause, no one ever got HIV or Hep C or whatever via other routes. Its no guarantee they are 'safe' because they are a virgin.
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Just like this guy said ...
All because you fuck a virgin doesn't mean she/he is clean... there is other ways to get a STD you know...
 
Um no, you're not being paranoid. A lot of these loose bitches do have STDs. Yes, it's totally true. But um, just as many dudes have STDs too, it's just not as widely reported (statistically). I look at it this way, men are the dipsticks (dicks) spreading around cultures of STDs to all of the petri dishes (vaginas). Personally, I would never have casual sex with someone I didn't know or trust for this exact reason. That's what vibrators are for. Then again, I always have a man, so I'm like good on that. Trusted booty-calls only son, knawimsayin. Bars are only for real debbies.
 
MyFinalRest said:
Let me just simply answer the OP's question. How many? One.
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or any arbitrarily large (lets say 300 trillion) even they all have HIV and your not using a condom, and still not get it. Being that contagion is a probabilistic and not deterministic; it violates no laws of physics or math for that outcome to happen. The chances that the scenario I described happening approaches zero (but is still a positive none zero value) That's the fun thing about probabilistic events... you just CAN NOT be certain what will happen until after it the act done, until the waveform collapses, until the fat lady sings.
 
Get an HPV vaccine, whether you are male or female.


Herpes is a bigger deal than it is made out to be. I don't have them, but friends have admitted in confidence. It's pretty much a big joke to them. One weird ass pimple a year for most people, although for some it is a painful blister and for a very few it is a raging case. I have never known anybody to admit to raging herpes, but I'm sure it happens.

Point is, herpes is worth the price. One friend I know had it before he was sexually active, and wasn't aware that his outbreaks were actually herpes until he spread it to a girlfriend, with whom he was supposedly monogamous. Shit gets weird like that sometimes.
 
^that's the two main ones that get spread through mere skin contact. Many people have been infected with them and don't show any signs. Herpes type is supposed to have an infection rate of about 90% in the US I think, it's just that some people are prone to cold sores and some aren't.

HPV usually doesn't cause many people symptoms, but I have known people who have had raging cases of gential warts because of it.
People should be cautious about these epidemics. Not just for yourself, but for others and future generations.

Even if statistics indicate that the probablity approaches zero of actually catching an STD with one partner, the least number of partners it takes to recieve an STD is still one. You could always end up being that lucky "1 in a million."

Really, getting an STD test (both partners) is no fucking big deal. It's not asking much. I plan on bringing it up next time I get a gf and will happily offer to get one. I've never had a test before, nor any symptoms, but I hardly can accept that partners both getting tested and showing each other the results honestly can be considered an "assault on trust." Not being able to go through with it is.
 
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Point is, herpes is worth the price. One friend I know had it before he was sexually active, and wasn't aware that his outbreaks were actually herpes until he spread it to a girlfriend, with whom he was supposedly monogamous. Shit gets weird like that sometimes.
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Wait a minute, so he had genital herpes before becoming sexually active? How the hell does that work? I've got some ideas, but the probability is like... one in a trillion.
 
Even if statistics indicate that the probablity approaches zero of actually catching an STD with one partner, the least number of partners it takes to recieve an STD is still one. You could always end up being that lucky "1 in a million."
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Of course, my point was more that the op's question, is not per se, answerable in advance. "How many til you get an STD" is something that you can only answer after you get an STD... It is kind of "John398's STD paradox"
 
verso said:
Wait a minute, so he had genital herpes before becoming sexually active? How the hell does that work? I've got some ideas, but the probability is like... one in a trillion.
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Well, I didn't want to say in my original post because of my irrational fear with regards to internet anonymity (or lack thereof, rather), but the individual's parents open up a little too much with him, and both admitted they have the herps.

I would assume, as he does, that he was pretty much born with it. His girlfriend was pissed (thought he had cheated, but he is absolutely not like that, and his girlfriend was the first he had ever gotten), but they are still together.

He acknowledged having outbreaks since childhood, even though he had no idea what the fuck they were.


Anyways, the major point of my post is that herpes isn't a big deal. Too many people I know are open about it (given, I know a lot of really bad, bad people) and see it as a joke. HPV can cause cancer in both men and women, and we have a vaccine, and there is no excuse for sleeping with multiple partners and not getting it.
 
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