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Can I trust a pregnancy test 25 days after sex??

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bundleofnerves

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Ok let me start off with saying I have extreme anxiety all the time. It's a condition I've suffered from for about four years now.

I had sex. It was protected but at the end, he pulled out, took the condom off and came on the back of my thighs.
Whats the possibility that I can get pregnant from that. And before you say 0 the only reason why I'm freaking out is what if any got near my vagina, close enough to count? What are the odds? I cleaned myself off right off afterwards, but I have thicker thighs that rub together and what if that is what help spread it? Anyway the second part of my question is, I took a pregnancy test this morning, first morning pee, 25 days after intercourse. I have irregular periods. I wont get some for months and sometimes I get them very close together. So I can't go by missed period. I want to know how long after ACTUAL INTERCOURSE can I count on the test to be as accurate as it can? I had severe cramps for two days and severe bloating. I took a midol. I also had frequent urination for only one day, the same day I took the midol and I wonder if it was because it made the bloating go away, water weight, hence the peeing and, sorry TMI, pooping. I've been eating all the chocolate and slept so hard for a couple of days. these are all the same days all on days, maybe 20/21-24th day after intercourse. On day 25, today, with a negative test I feel fine, a few pangs here and there uterus wise, but no period yet. Even though irregular, about now is when I COULD expect it and not be surprised.

Should I be panicking? Am I in the clear? Whats the timing with these 'symptoms?' The internet is crazy, I will think I'm ok (plenty of sites say 14-16 and 19) to women talking about their tests were negative up until they had the baby! So of course I focus on those out of the ordinary tales and assume that will be my outcome. Some say I wouldnt feel any symptoms until five weeks and others say I would be so worn out by now. Please let me know! The anxiety makes me so wired i get sick. And throwing up when worrying about pregnancy already is a mindfuck.
 
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i'd say that the chance of you getting pregnant from cum on your thigh - even it it was spread around a bit - are very low. you know what needs to happen for you to become pregnant, right? it doesn't just happen if the smallest amount of cum gets in any kind of contact with your vagina...

go see a doctor. get tested. know for sure.

alasdair
 
i can't go to the doctor. if i could i would because it would really set my soul at ease.
and what do you mean if I know what needs to happen?
 
I always love when people ask questions like this asking "what are the odds" like we're some Vegas bookies who can tell them a number.

The chances are VERY low. I would strongly recommend you get this free app called 'my days' that tracks your period. There are others but that's the one I use. You can mark when you had sex, and when you start and stop your period. After a few cycles it gets very predictive and can tell you when you're ovulating. If you know when you're ovulating them you can pretty much eliminate any of this crazy anxiety about pregnancy.

Also, have you talked to a doctor about the irregular periods? Birth control would kill two birds with one stone here.
 
I have no idea about the odds; but they're very low or non-existant especially if the semen did not get anywhere on or in your vagina.

You wrote about taking a pregnancy test, if you think the one you bought is not accurate buy other ones and use those; but over the counter pregnancy tests are highly accurate. If you're having your period then you're not pregnant.

If you haven't had any sex at all for 25 days, then you're not pregnant; but if it will make you relax and feel better test yourself again, or see a medical professional. Also if you get nervous about becoming pregnant get on some birth control for your own sake and still have a guy use a condom.
 
Priest is perfectly correct. Your preggo test says negative. As far you know no spunk got inside of you. You had some symptoms of your period but no blood or slime.
If you need more reassurance you should go to the doctor. (but perhaps that is difficult for you).
Perhaps another preggers test would give you some more reassurance.
Next time use a condom.
 
HPT are pretty accurate, even the $1 ones. But sometimes, they are wrong because of the woman's pee is not quite right for that test. So take another or see a doctor for confirmation.

Usually, a woman knows something is different in about 3~6 weeks.
 
well i took another test today at 4 weeks after intercourse and it came out negative. still havent gotten my period but i guess im going to just have to trust the tests. even though im still not convinced. im not sure why i cant believe it, even though the chances in the first place are very low as youve all pointed out. my soothing sevens still arent working and im sure im going to go insane, but i will clutch onto the negative result.
 
To get pregnant, your boyfriend's sperm must be actually inside your vagina whère the environment is meant to eliminate as much sperm as possible because only one gets to fertilize an egg.they have to swim all the way into your uterus into the Fallopian tube where they meet with the egg and only one gets to penetrate it.

If your boyfriend did not cum in your vagina (assuming the condom didn't break), then it is highly unlikely you will get pregnant.

If you are pregnant, your body will produce human chorionic gonadotropin which is the basis for your pregnancy test. Your body will produce it for 2 months until the placenta takes over.

So, since you've taken 2 tests that turn out negative and you feel you aren't experiencing any changes then you most probably aren't pregnant.
 
Bundleofnerves, can we like be best friends? I'm literally the exact same way and am having a similar situation. It's a relief though to see that there are other people who have the same fears. So thank you for posting!
 
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