So my 25 year old brother has had a severe mental breakdown, all over something that my parents said to him 2 months ago, and he is still losing it. Because of his mental state throughout his whole life, something that was said, sent him into a raging, crying depression, every day, all day, for the last 2 months. He is so angry and my parents for whatever was said. They have tried to help him, with no luck. Everything they said is wrong, and makes my bother even worse, so there is no way to even talk to him if that makes sense. He yells at them all day non stop, saying they ruined his life, he cant get his credentials for school, stuff like that. Also, he repeats himself OVER, and OVER, non stop. Also, he calls them every horrible name in the book, non stop. He also says that his parents never gonna see him again, and its there fault cuz hes like this and they want him to be like this, don't care about him, and so on. It is his mental state that is making him like this, but is convinced its my parents that make him like this, which is not the case. He says he cant wait to leave, and how he wants to be as far away as possible, but yet, 2 months later, he is still here. He screams at my parents saying, "how the fuck are you gonna fix this," and they say anytihng you want we will do for you, but he would rather do this shit and not move the fuck out. He is unable to not speak to my parents. If he hates them and says the only way for him to get better is to be away from them. He is still here though. And also, he asks for help, but yet my parents offer to move him anywhere, do anything for him, and he is still here. This is all because of his mental state. All my parents do is listen to the irrational shit he has to say because they do not know what to do. He will go in his room, then come out going crazy, he does this all day. Its his obsessive compulsive behavior that prevents him from just staying in his fucking room damn it. I cant begin to count the amount of times that he repeats himself, its fucking sickening listening to him. Most shit that parents say to there kids for disciplining them or whatever, they don't flip out and bring up the past 20 fucking years later. This shit is fucking me up having to deal with it. I could write for days about this lol. Sorry for the long post.
Don't really know why I wrote this, guess im just looking for what people have to say, maybe advice etc.
Oh yea, and this is a horrible time for me to be trying to get off opiates. This just sucks. Thanks
Don't really know why I wrote this, guess im just looking for what people have to say, maybe advice etc.
Oh yea, and this is a horrible time for me to be trying to get off opiates. This just sucks. Thanks