So I honestly don't even know where to start because i have so many thoughts in my head that i want to share. I'm sorry if this message is out of order or illiterate.
just a side note , I just emailed my psychiatrist asking for an appointment as soon as possible so i can talk to her about the problems i have been having.
okay so freshman year i used to actually have a social life, I am now a junior, but soon to be a senior and I lost my social life all together. It is about a month and a half into summer and I have only gone out twice, both were with my only close friend. ( i am a dancer , so when i say "going out" I mean hanging out, because i dance literally every day 4-6 hrs.) Both times I went out , I became so self conscious about my appearance and felt so ugly.Meaning my hair, face, clothes , and my body weight. I am not over weight but I'm always worrying about it. All of these factors lead to my extremely low self esteem and lack in confidence. I am unable to maintain all of friendships. the only reason i have stayed close to my one friend is because we have been close since 2nd grade.
I have extensions and i feel like my hair looks like COMPLETE shit everyday. Sometimes I start out the day feeling more confident about my hair, but as the day progresses, I end up feeling hideous. Also during the school year , I felt so annoying because I excessively touched my hair and my bangs in a certain way , attempting to fix it. ( Compulsively fixing it whether it was conscious or subconscious ). since i stayed home so much, I forgot how terrible this problem was. As for dance, I constantly have to redo my bun , ponytail, or what ever the style is. If i dont, I feel so ugly that I cannot focus on dancing and dont even want to look at my self. I ask people if my hair looks okay and they say it looks fine , but that reassurance doesn't affect me in anyway because I still feel terribly ugly.
My face is another major problem. I stand in front of the mirror hours on end just looking at my face up close and just picking at it. To the point where my face is covered in open wounds , scabs, redness, scars, etc. lol actually as i am typing this i am picking at my face. It gets so frustrating because sometimes i do my makeup and right when i finish, i pick at it right after. My skin picking has gotten worse , in the shower I pick at my legs. Some days I will pick at my arms turning nothing into a visible sore. Occasionally , I pick at my upper chest and my lower torso , hip area. I recently looked it up and it sounds exactly like CSP (compulsive skin picking disorder) also known as dermatillomania. my face picking is my worst area .
In dance , i am always fixing my clothes because i hate the way i look in them. just like my hair and makeup situation I leave my house, both school, social and dance feeling okay about the way i look , and the minute i arrive to the places , I hate absolutely despise what i am wearing. leading to constant fidgeting. I refuse to wear shorts anywhere because i hate how my thighs touch. people tell me my legs are skinny , but i feel like they look big. I wear pencil skirts but only to special events , so that leaves me with two choices for school. Either jeans or leggings. I dont really wear leggings because I dont like the way it feels when walking around in public, I dont wear sweats in school or with friends because i dont want people to think i am fat. So that leaves me with jeans every day. My legs look even worse in jeans in my opinion, they look too big and too long in my jeans, Making me insecure everyday.
The only two reasons why i am not anorexic is because my sibling used to be anorexic and i dont want to put my family through that again and the hunger becomes unbearable. Now i dont know if i could call myself bulimic because when i view other situations, i dont feel as extreme. But I do throw up at least once a day ( There are days I do not throw up though).
The problem with researching on the internet, is that it is easy to put things in one's head. I recently read more about body dysmorphia and i dont know if it is just in my head or i actually have it. Also when someone has BDD , how distorted is their vision when they view their appearance? Because for example one day my arms look way too long and the other it doesnt seem noticeable same for other parts of my body, but it isn't so extreme that it is as if im looking at a fun house mirror. I dont want to be one of those obnoxious teenagers that just make bullshit lies up about their illnesses to get it, I am genuinely confused and concerned.
I also constantly need to look in a mirror to reassure myself , but in minutes i am back to feeling unappealing. I feel as though i look so self centered because i look at myself in the mirror so much.
I feel like i cannot confide in any one because i sound conceited , vain, and just looking for attention.
Also is there a way where this cannot be shown on google?
just a side note , I just emailed my psychiatrist asking for an appointment as soon as possible so i can talk to her about the problems i have been having.
okay so freshman year i used to actually have a social life, I am now a junior, but soon to be a senior and I lost my social life all together. It is about a month and a half into summer and I have only gone out twice, both were with my only close friend. ( i am a dancer , so when i say "going out" I mean hanging out, because i dance literally every day 4-6 hrs.) Both times I went out , I became so self conscious about my appearance and felt so ugly.Meaning my hair, face, clothes , and my body weight. I am not over weight but I'm always worrying about it. All of these factors lead to my extremely low self esteem and lack in confidence. I am unable to maintain all of friendships. the only reason i have stayed close to my one friend is because we have been close since 2nd grade.
I have extensions and i feel like my hair looks like COMPLETE shit everyday. Sometimes I start out the day feeling more confident about my hair, but as the day progresses, I end up feeling hideous. Also during the school year , I felt so annoying because I excessively touched my hair and my bangs in a certain way , attempting to fix it. ( Compulsively fixing it whether it was conscious or subconscious ). since i stayed home so much, I forgot how terrible this problem was. As for dance, I constantly have to redo my bun , ponytail, or what ever the style is. If i dont, I feel so ugly that I cannot focus on dancing and dont even want to look at my self. I ask people if my hair looks okay and they say it looks fine , but that reassurance doesn't affect me in anyway because I still feel terribly ugly.
My face is another major problem. I stand in front of the mirror hours on end just looking at my face up close and just picking at it. To the point where my face is covered in open wounds , scabs, redness, scars, etc. lol actually as i am typing this i am picking at my face. It gets so frustrating because sometimes i do my makeup and right when i finish, i pick at it right after. My skin picking has gotten worse , in the shower I pick at my legs. Some days I will pick at my arms turning nothing into a visible sore. Occasionally , I pick at my upper chest and my lower torso , hip area. I recently looked it up and it sounds exactly like CSP (compulsive skin picking disorder) also known as dermatillomania. my face picking is my worst area .
In dance , i am always fixing my clothes because i hate the way i look in them. just like my hair and makeup situation I leave my house, both school, social and dance feeling okay about the way i look , and the minute i arrive to the places , I hate absolutely despise what i am wearing. leading to constant fidgeting. I refuse to wear shorts anywhere because i hate how my thighs touch. people tell me my legs are skinny , but i feel like they look big. I wear pencil skirts but only to special events , so that leaves me with two choices for school. Either jeans or leggings. I dont really wear leggings because I dont like the way it feels when walking around in public, I dont wear sweats in school or with friends because i dont want people to think i am fat. So that leaves me with jeans every day. My legs look even worse in jeans in my opinion, they look too big and too long in my jeans, Making me insecure everyday.
The only two reasons why i am not anorexic is because my sibling used to be anorexic and i dont want to put my family through that again and the hunger becomes unbearable. Now i dont know if i could call myself bulimic because when i view other situations, i dont feel as extreme. But I do throw up at least once a day ( There are days I do not throw up though).
The problem with researching on the internet, is that it is easy to put things in one's head. I recently read more about body dysmorphia and i dont know if it is just in my head or i actually have it. Also when someone has BDD , how distorted is their vision when they view their appearance? Because for example one day my arms look way too long and the other it doesnt seem noticeable same for other parts of my body, but it isn't so extreme that it is as if im looking at a fun house mirror. I dont want to be one of those obnoxious teenagers that just make bullshit lies up about their illnesses to get it, I am genuinely confused and concerned.
I also constantly need to look in a mirror to reassure myself , but in minutes i am back to feeling unappealing. I feel as though i look so self centered because i look at myself in the mirror so much.
I feel like i cannot confide in any one because i sound conceited , vain, and just looking for attention.
Also is there a way where this cannot be shown on google?