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BF won't fulfil my fantasy....is it the end?

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Bjicella

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I've never posted here before so firstly, hello :)

So, my problem is that I have a very specific (and not that weird) fantasy that my bf just won't agree to. For some reason I'm becoming obsessed with it and I'm beginning to wonder if there is a future for us if he can't do this for me. Am I being completely unreasonable??
 
It comes down to you personally..is this just an excuse to break up over other thing? Is the fantasy more important than love? Do you think u are being unreasonable? Are other things in the relationship successful? These are the ? U need to ask yourself not someone else..its up to u

being obsessed about it just comes down to wanting something u can't have, u want it more
 
You raise some very good points! I do love him, but sexual needs are just as important in a relationship as love (just my opinion). Thanks for replying
 
You need to be specific about what your fantasy is, otherwise how can we give an opinion?


More to the point, how can we have a good wank over it ;)
 
Have you talked to him about this?

If this is the only issue that you have in your relationship it's not that bad. Are you just looking for an excuse to break up? What exactly is your fantasy that you want to have done? If he did enact your fantasy keep in mind that it's not going to magically fix your relationship or all the issues you are having and that the fantasy might not turn out the way you fantasize about it.
 
The fantasy is kind of fucking important.

Is it him and another dude, him watching you with another dude, etc? I'd drop you right then and there change my contact info etc.

edit: and why does he owe you this fantasy?
 
Yeah do you want him to wear a bugs bunny mask of get gang banged cuz one is reasonable.

There is no way of looking at this objectively OP.
 
While I think most would agree that sex is important it is certainly not everything. If the rest of your sex life is good you may have to let go of the fantasy.

If he were unable to perform sex to your satisfaction because of some kind of freak accident would you leave him then. Would you cheat on him.

Don't be shy, fill us in on the fantasy so people can drop some for serious wisdom on you.
 
I reckon its got to be something pretty lewd.

He won't agree to it and she won't say what it is. Makes you wonder...
 
Get rid of him. If he won't do it there are plenty of others will.
 
If a dude says no Id guess its to do with another guy or something related like that. If its that important to you youll find a compromise like watching male on male or 3way porn together and take it from there. If it involves anything like you wearing a dong and doing him up the bum get a blow up doll and do that.

I dunno. I wanted to so certain things with my ex hubby and he was quite shy so instead of a 3 way we just fucked in front of an audience instead in Thailand.

These things work out one way or another.
 
zephyr said:
I dunno. I wanted to so certain things with my ex hubby and he was quite shy so instead of a 3 way we just fucked in front of an audience instead in Thailand.
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Fuckin hell 8o If that's what you call 'shy', I'd love to hear your definition of 'outgoing'...
 
zephyr said:
If its that important to you youll find a compromise like watching male on male porn
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- My bf doesn't want a mmf threesome, how do I convince him ?
- Play him gay porn, that'll get him going

Are you being serious ?
 
Clearly it's not the fantasy she's worried about. She's worried about the fact that there is this extremely important thing that he won't do for her, and she's worried that it is indicative of all the OTHER things he won't do in the future. I agree, the fantasy is important to know, because it comes down to whether or not it is unreasonable or not. If it's something pure, only involves the two of them, and doesn't violate either partner, and he's still resistant, then yeah that sounds like there could be other problems ahead. However, if it's truly weird, or even just barely out of his comfort zone, and she's simply not respecting his boundaries, then that means there will be OTHER problems down the road. If she hasn't spoke to him at all about this, then they're fucking doomed.
 
Seattle_Stranger said:
Clearly it's not the fantasy she's worried about. She's worried about the fact that there is this extremely important thing that he won't do for her, and she's worried that it is indicative of all the OTHER things he won't do in the future. I agree, the fantasy is important to know, because it comes down to whether or not it is unreasonable or not. If it's something pure, only involves the two of them, and doesn't violate either partner, and he's still resistant, then yeah that sounds like there could be other problems ahead. However, if it's truly weird, or even just barely out of his comfort zone, and she's simply not respecting his boundaries, then that means there will be OTHER problems down the road. If she hasn't spoke to him at all about this, then they're fucking doomed.
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This.
 
troll thread.

its like a question version of a thirst trap, never quite there
 
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