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benzos and prolonged ejaculation

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ok...i was bored one night so i popped 2mg of ativan just for fun...later that night my girlfriend shows up...we end up having sex and for some reason it just didnt feel as good as it should...also i was going for a really really long time...and i found myself losing my erection occasionally thru the night...
any ideas? do benzos affect sexual performance???
 
I might imagine that benzo's could affect sexual performance since they put you in such a relaxed state.
Are you on any anti-depressants? Many of them are notorious for their sexual side-effects.
 
I don't think you have anything to worry about. If you took those Ativans, you were just feeling the effects of them and you were in that relaxed state. I'm sure that what happened to you was normal.
 
Yes, benzos often cause that to happen. Ativan and Xanax are not nearly as bad as the ones with actual skeletal muscle relaxant properties (Valium and Klonopin).
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"All great things must first wear a terrifying and monstrous mask in order to inscribe themselves on the face of humanity"
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My first experience with valium I took 70 mg over 4 hours.(felt nothing till the next morning) For the next 3 weeks my sex drive was nonexistent. Getting it up was definitely not an option. I also lost my appetite for a few weeks and lost 20 pounds.
I was chills then a mofo tho.
 
this is funny...
my one experience with benzos (20 mg. diazepam, i think) resulted in the best orgasm in recent memory... oh well, sucks for y'all... heh heh
 
It was probably just the downer effect, not because they are benzos, but because they are CNSD's and such is common...
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# unzip ; strip ; touch ; finger ; mount ; fsck ; more ; yes ; umount ; sleep
 
Have you ever been just to wiped out for sex?
I know most men won't want to say yes, but no one is looking!
When your whole body wants to float away and just retire to bliss, sex can kind of prove to be a distraction to that, so you won't enjoy it as much and if you are not enjoying it as much.... you get a bit soft here and there, make a come back and hey, if your girl has patience, you might cum, sometime.
Why not just lay back, hold you lady and have a lovey sleep?
You know lovey sleep right, it is a big happy thing at my house
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melissa -
Shit, I wish more girls agreed with that thinking.. with one of my recent girlfriends (no longer dating her) she was a sex fiend and made me feel obligated to give her a few good lashings regardless of my mental state.. I would have fixed and she, not being a heroin user, wouldn't understand it - or she would think that because I was able to maintain an erection, I wanted to have sex.. usually durring these times I would simply fail on her once my body fully reverted to "blissed mode" - sadly guys have a much more difficult time faking an orgasam, and I was to afraid to try and end up getting caught.. we later broke up and I kinda felt relieved that I could now enjoy my drugs.. the last girl, whom I truely felt I *MADE LOVE* to (as oposed to simply "fucked", "banged", "slammed", or "had sex with") was able to respecks ma feelin' and even though the circumstances were - well lets just say she had traveled a long way to spend a short amount of time with me - while totally blissed out of my skull on a 100ug/hr fentanyl patch, I was able to, on more then one occasion, not only *MAKE LOVE* to her, but have multiple orgasams and long, incredible sex that left me wishing there were many more days in her vacation...
So while I guess it comes down to the person you're with and the circumstances, um, shit.. I was thinking about that last girl and totally forgot what the fuck I was talking about.. damn I miss her!
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# unzip ; strip ; touch ; finger ; mount ; fsck ; more ; yes ; umount ; sleep
 
Here's the scoop on why Benzo's do this. They take away anxiety....anxiety in a form produces the ability to have an erertion and orgasm....Lack of Anxiety....Lack of erection, orgasm or both.... lots'o fun.
 
Phreerx,
It isn't like I always just thought everything was cool!
There were long periods of time where I was angry and crying because I didn't understand why he wasn't into me. I am talking diets, drinking, yelling... the whole thing.
There has been a lot more talking over the years and now I am a bit more in touch with what is happening.
It also helps that anytime he is not "somewhere else" I have more sex then most people would even think about
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So, that girl might be out there, you just need to touch her a lot and tell her all the time that is is the drugs, not her,because we think it is us.
 
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