Michael_25
Bluelighter
I seem to lack a backbone. I've been dissed to my face but it doesn't seem to register immediately as I'm in disbelief. For instance, the other day I was at a cafe, waiting for my flat white, and one staff member referred to me as a "freak". Naturally, this made me feel like shit. What pisses me off the most is that it's unwarranted; I did nothing to justify such a comment from someone. I should have pulled him up on the spot but I was like "damn, did he really say that?!"
Should I go back the next day and confront him? I was always told to resolve such things on the spot -- not ruminate on them then come back a few days later and tell the guy how I feel.
I look like major pussy: baby face, completely non-threatening, etc. Thus people think they can call me this shit without any repercussions. This isn't an isolated incident either. It has happened in the past and my pussy ass doesn't do shit.
Do I go back and report this dude to management? Or let it slide and next time speak my mind then and there?
How would you guys approach such situations?
Should I go back the next day and confront him? I was always told to resolve such things on the spot -- not ruminate on them then come back a few days later and tell the guy how I feel.
I look like major pussy: baby face, completely non-threatening, etc. Thus people think they can call me this shit without any repercussions. This isn't an isolated incident either. It has happened in the past and my pussy ass doesn't do shit.
Do I go back and report this dude to management? Or let it slide and next time speak my mind then and there?
How would you guys approach such situations?