Matter of speaking not necessarily bl. If I've made a complaint against someone do I tell them or leave it? I don't want to seem underhanded or like I'm backstabbing but I really had no other choice if my feelings aint being taken into account n I'm punished easily when others are not for the same behaviour. I need to feel like I matter as a person n that I'm going to feel safe in a specific place.
However, If I tell the person I may seem like I'm being manipulative arrrrrggggg I don't know what to do. I don't normally like having to go this route but I'm really left no other choice. I wont be bullied or belittled by another person especially when I took time out of my day to try n give that person support. And I can't stand back n have consequences when others who do similar do not.
Really hope I've done the right thing though because I've had people do this sort of thing to me n I thought they were being underhanded n wondered why those people never talked to me.
Why can't things just be simple n fair? I'm so frustrated right now but I think I've come a long way since last year.
Evey
However, If I tell the person I may seem like I'm being manipulative arrrrrggggg I don't know what to do. I don't normally like having to go this route but I'm really left no other choice. I wont be bullied or belittled by another person especially when I took time out of my day to try n give that person support. And I can't stand back n have consequences when others who do similar do not.
Really hope I've done the right thing though because I've had people do this sort of thing to me n I thought they were being underhanded n wondered why those people never talked to me.
Why can't things just be simple n fair? I'm so frustrated right now but I think I've come a long way since last year.
Evey