It's weird, isn't it?
I'm glad i don't know any men that are so insecure about their masculinity that they need to project judgements of manliness upon others.
Of course, it's somewhat deliberate because i don't like those sorts of people...
But yeah, i put it down to insecurity, and a type of tribalism.
I suppose you could say that i'm playing that game too, by saying that i dislike people who feel the need to over-emphasise and
perform a type of hyper-masculinity - but it's more that i prefer people to be themselves and take others as they are.
But yeah, stereotypes about diets and gender roles make
no sense to me.
I can't imagine ever suggesting to someone "you do [
whatever] because you think you're morally superior to me" (or however people have said or implied that.
Very odd - it just strikes me as really insecure.
Obviously different people approach these things in different ways - i've had people tell me that they
try to be vegetarian, but find it hard, which is interesting to me because i have never ever felt any temptation to eat meat.
That doesn't make me better, or worse - or anything of the sort.
People have preferences, and we have choices - but i've never really judged people for what they eat. Lots of things are environentally harmful, or ethically questionable - but have zero interest in blame, guilt or moralisng about those things, because i don't think it achieves anything to get on your high horse. I mean, there are enough people that are hostile to environmentalism without creating more by acting self-righteous and judgemental.
If i want to share the joy of a plant based diet, i'll cook someone dinner, or take them to a great vegan restaurant.
Being a judgemental dick is for amateurs
