thank you all for the warm welcome! yes, i am finding my way around the forums nicely, thanks to great search features, and a well organized site. the work you are doing here, harm reduction through dissemination of honest information, is the most valuable thing people can do for each other. applicable not only to drugs, but also sex, science and medicine, politics, religion, or anything else that hides behind a veil. as a mom, i always strive to be as honest as i can with my children, even about my own mistakes, in the hope that the truth shall set them free to experience their humanness, and this life as fully as they wish to, knowing beforehand the risks and rewards of the behaviors humans engage in. i'm already greatly enjoying the bl community, and hope that i will be able in the future to contribute as much knowledge as i've gained.
And they'd call me a redlighter, because i tend to come of as the kind of bold, brash, frankly sexual woman that one might find hangin' out the red light.