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Frary: Drugs and alcohol reach for us through all five senses
Jennifer Frary

It was a dark and stormy night. The moon was full behind the clouds, so there was just enough light to see the wind wiping leaves off of the trees. Perfect reason to drink. It was a perfect summer day: high in the low 80s, with sunshine and a light breeze. Perfect day to drink. It was a day that ended in “y.” Birthday, holiday, Tuesday.

BANG! The trigger has been pulled and the reaction has begun. The bullet is racing toward its target. Without masterful bob-and-weave skills, pain will follow. That’s a relapse in a nutshell.

Triggers for alcohol or other drug use come in as many forms as there are people to experience them. They are pulled by things we see, smell, taste, feel or hear. The more senses associated with drug or alcohol use, the more triggers exist. Let’s take a closer look:

Sight. Run into an old high school flame 20 years later, and all of a sudden your emotional state returns to the butterflies and jitters of the first time you kissed. Sights that may trigger relapse include the local bar, others drinking/using and enjoying themselves, the Genesee Beer sign, or a black light felt poster. Any sight one associated with their substance use, either once or over a period of years, can be a trigger.

Smell. Cinnamon and cloves bring back Christmas, while fresh cut grass and earthworms evoke spring. Scents are powerful memory triggers. Can you remember what your grandmother’s house smelled like? Your baby’s skin after a bath? Smells that may trigger relapse include burning sage, which is similar to marijuana smoke, alcohol escaping the pores of a neighbor on the bus, or the bottle return business. Any smell one associated with their substance use, either once or over a period of years, can be a trigger.

Taste. "I’m so hungry I can taste it." I’ve said that plenty of times. Try a new dish and you might say it tastes like chicken. Tastes or flavors that may trigger relapse include: non-alcoholic cocktails or beer, or the junk food commonly consumed during that period of one's life. Any taste one associated with their substance use, either once or over a period of years, can be a trigger.

Hearing. Have you ever had the experience of hearing a song for the first time in a long time and it brings you back to the first time you heard it? Who you were with, what you were doing, and how it made you feel? Sounds that may trigger relapse include the pop and crackle of a wood fire, genres of music listened to during the using period of life, or the verbal expressions of those who don’t believe one is making a change. Any sound one associated with their substance use, either once or over a period of years, can be a trigger.

Touch. You may recall your treasured stuffed animal from childhood when shopping for a new plush gift. Holding your partner's hand can give you a sense of security and peace because it reminds you of the commitment and love. Sensations of touch that may trigger a relapse include a pipe, a glass bottle or even a cigarette on the lips. Any sensation one associated with their substance use, either once or over a period of years, can be a trigger.

It should also be included here that sensations of feelings or emotions are powerful triggers. Allow me to consider them as “touch” on an internal or spiritual level. Some emotional states seem to be obvious triggers: anger, sadness, betrayal, abandonment, etc. One would not be surprised that drugs or alcohol would be associated with these feelings as a form of self-medication. However, the opposite is equally true. Alcohol is a frequent guest at weddings, graduation parties, baseball games and all other forms of celebration in our culture. In many cases, drugs are invited to the same events. Thus, drugs and alcohol “touch” emotionally in positive ways, too.

The five senses are powerful human experiences. The longer a substance is used, the more each of the senses is associated with using. Individuals who use “all day every day” or “to function” are training their brains to associate even mundane events with using: washing dishes, going to work or walking the dog. The trigger isn’t always a party, a dark room, a bar-room or a liquor store. Knowing what one’s triggers are, or could be, is key to relapse prevention. If we can gain awareness of the triggers, we can plan ahead for taking appropriate action.

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Absolutely spot on. I like this. It forces us to further scrutinise what triggers us to use and how we can avoid them. I'm going to look further into this. Lists will made. Thanks.
 
I agree this is a great article.

A few questions I think it would be beneficial for all of to think about and discuss around this:

Is it possible to identify all our triggers?
Is avoidance the best long term approach around triggers, it definitely is, in early sobriety, but what about later on?
What techniques do we know to prevent triggers?
What techniques do we know to deal with triggers?
Does the effect produced by being triggered have any real power?
What are the results of being triggered, that is what can we experience?
In what we experience, can we split it into separate parts and look at each parts design and intention? in other words what the hell is actually going down?
Where does this phenomenon come from or what was its original purpose?
If it had an original purpose why are its effects seem so powerful when applied to addiction?
What are some common triggers not associated with addiction?


There are a few questions I think we would all benefit from exploring around this topic. Once we see what we are up against we no longer fall for its moves, If we no longer fall for its moves we no longer get played.

Also, Id love to hear peoples thoughts around this statement.

It should also be included here that sensations of feelings or emotions are powerful triggers

This is a great article IMO and I really think a good discussion around it can help us all out and many others who are lurking.
 
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Excellent!

One thing I have noticed are changes of seasons are always challenging for me. Summer into Fall particularly for me. I have so many memories associate with using during this transition. So glad I am aware of it now. I also just love fall and around the Midwest fall is simply stunning in sights, sounds, smells IMO. Plus the whole Octoberfest, Harvest Fests, Halloween runs/shows, etc etc.

I was planning on going to Phish in Vegas over Halloween. Obviously, I am not going to do that, but I feel kinda sad. I've been more then enough concerts to last a lifetime, but I know I will not be seeing some of the friends I have made through the scene often or at all. It feels kinda like giving up my youth. So, I have been thinking about that stuff a lot. I honestly think a lot of this was brought up because I saw some hippie kids hitchhiking a few days ago and it reminded me of myself and my friends back in the day. Ultimately though, I do not want to go back there. I had lots of fun, but it was lots of work and there were plenty of times I wondered "why am I doing this to myself, I wish I had a more solid foundation".

I will still go to shows eventually, but I am nowhere near ready for it right now. Oh well... I'd rather be clean at the end of the day.
 
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So, I think this could be a very good discussion. For me too, it's the seasons. Summer is what gets me, in particular a really nice day. This happened to me a week ago, we had a gorgeous day and it made me crave an icy cold beverage out on a patio. It killed because I had been dry for about 45 days and caved in. Now I'm right back where I started trying to quit again.

Hopefully without ending up in the hospital this time.

Its weird, for me my trigger is because I'm in a good mood. But, unfortunately or perhaps fortunately, I've recognized that I'm one of those people who can't just have one or two. So, at least for now, the desire to quit is strong, but being overridden by fear of AWS again.
 
For me it's taking public transportation in NYC.. which totally sucks cause I have to for my job!

All those afternoons/nights scoring oxys taking the subway in. Then being so desperate I'd snort the oxy off a credit card in a starbucks bathroom in timesquare.. So there - Starbucks, time square, subways. All triggers that I'm CONSTANTLY around.
 
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