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Any guys masturbate WITHOUT ejaculating?

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scatterbrain

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I'm just curious how many guys do this. I'm guessing a very small percentage. If so, you notice any positives out of it for retaining that semen "energy?"
 
^ agreed it also keeps you horny longer , and when you do hold it you will ejaculate a lot more.

It is also very good that you can control it
 
Not on purpose, but its happened. Its usually more frustrating than anything else. Same thing as having sex and not finishing. I don't really see any upside to it.
 
for some reason I barely ever ejaculate in sex, and I had sex hundreds of times.
however in masturbation i can ejaculate easy
 
Monkeybizness said:
^ agreed it also keeps you horny longer , and when you do hold it you will ejaculate a lot more.

It is also very good that you can control it
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As I matured I began to realize that sex could be something else entirely than a bareback horse race to the orgasm. You could look your partner in her eyes and lock focus on her feelings and her internal joy in the lovemaking. You could position yourself delicately over her and kiss her lips eyes cheeks neck and breasts. You could whisper sentences into her ear about what you thought of her and what you imagined in the future. You could explore her body with your fingertips and tongue and lips, lingering in places that she found erogenous. You could make her wet with your tongue by finding the places she delighted in having pressure and gentle flicking rhythm applied to. Then you could slide your rock hard dick inside of her and let her grab ahold of you and act out symbolically everything she felt for you and you felt for her, hugging her tightly arching her back off the bed, her legs wrapped tightly around you, chest heaving, moaning, compassionate strokes against her G-spot, pausing and lingering in her wetness, embracing each other and exchanging "I love you"s. Focusing into her eyes and imagining the future with her, REALLY seeing the life you will create together. Remaining hard inside of her and stroking her vagina with steady rhythm, just how she wants it right then. Feeling your cum ready in your testicles, ready to spring out, the seed of the possible life you two can create, right then, right there, together. Holding on the edge of the explosion of this seed into her. Locking eyes with her, right hand under her body gently raising her torso toward your own, her body arching sexily off the bed, as deep as possible inside of her, feeling the opening of her cervix dilated to you, hungrily asking, begging, please, please, please fill me.
 
^ that was some sad stuff dude.

ANd Andy's post wasn't strange at all.

OP - Ahaaaaa - Yes, for a while I started training myself to have orgasms without blowing my load...stopped doing that for a while.

I'm going to get back on it though, whilst I still don't have a partner - I see where you're going with this, having read up on tantra, and karma sutra stuff etc - and it's a great idea, I like the idea of the breaking of the waves - pranayama synching with your partner's breath, so you can hopefully reach climax together everytime...and saving that energy from spending, and recirculating it round your body - until you choose to orgasm and have an orgasm that makes you see stars everytime - had a few of these when I was testing it out.

WHat about you?? WHat are your experiences, dude?
 
Blue Balls: the condition of temporary fluid congestion in the testicles and prostate region caused by prolonged sexual arousal in the human male often accompanied by acute testicular pain or testicular congestion due to prolonged and unsatisfied sexual excitement.
 
Matsuo Munefusa. said:
As I matured I began to realize that sex could be something else entirely than a bareback horse race to the orgasm. You could look your partner in her eyes and lock focus on her feelings and her internal joy in the lovemaking. You could position yourself delicately over her and kiss her lips eyes cheeks neck and breasts. You could whisper sentences into her ear about what you thought of her and what you imagined in the future. You could explore her body with your fingertips and tongue and lips, lingering in places that she found erogenous. You could make her wet with your tongue by finding the places she delighted in having pressure and gentle flicking rhythm applied to. Then you could slide your rock hard dick inside of her and let her grab ahold of you and act out symbolically everything she felt for you and you felt for her, hugging her tightly arching her back off the bed, her legs wrapped tightly around you, chest heaving, moaning, compassionate strokes against her G-spot, pausing and lingering in her wetness, embracing each other and exchanging "I love you"s. Focusing into her eyes and imagining the future with her, REALLY seeing the life you will create together. Remaining hard inside of her and stroking her vagina with steady rhythm, just how she wants it right then. Feeling your cum ready in your testicles, ready to spring out, the seed of the possible life you two can create, right then, right there, together. Holding on the edge of the explosion of this seed into her. Locking eyes with her, right hand under her body gently raising her torso toward your own, her body arching sexily off the bed, as deep as possible inside of her, feeling the opening of her cervix dilated to you, hungrily asking, begging, please, please, please fill me.
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Wowhot :)

I used to do this more than I do now, partially because for the longest time orgasms simply weren't that pleasurable to me. In fact, for most of my relationships, the act of sex was much more rewarding than any orgasm. Just knowing the pleasure I was giving my partner was much better than my own orgasm.

However, ever since I went on a serious JWH binge, my orgasms seem to have gotten stronger. Also, this weird thing has happened several times. I ejaculate a little, with almost no force (it almost dribbles out), but I don't orgasm. However, it doesn't give me the usual post-ejaculate softie. Instead, I can keep going, and my second ejaculation is coupled with a much much more powerful orgasm. Kinda weird, but I'm not complaining :)
 
Altered Perception said:
Blue Balls: the condition of temporary fluid congestion in the testicles and prostate region caused by prolonged sexual arousal in the human male often accompanied by acute testicular pain or testicular congestion due to prolonged and unsatisfied sexual excitement.
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Hahaha...this is rare as fuck though mate - most men just just excrete the sperm etc, when they piss, every 3 days, if they haven't ejaculated.
 
Altered Perception said:
Blue Balls: the condition of temporary fluid congestion in the testicles and prostate region caused by prolonged sexual arousal in the human male often accompanied by acute testicular pain or testicular congestion due to prolonged and unsatisfied sexual excitement.
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I really don't think this happens to some guys. Thank God! It would suck if sex always had to be a means to an end.

You could explore her body with your fingertips and tongue and lips, lingering in places that she found erogenous. You could make her wet with your tongue by finding the places she delighted in having pressure and gentle flicking rhythm applied to. Then you could slide your rock hard dick inside of her and let her grab ahold of you and act out symbolically everything she felt for you and you felt for her, hugging her tightly arching her back off the bed, her legs wrapped tightly around you, chest heaving, moaning, compassionate strokes against her G-spot, pausing and lingering in her wetness, embracing each other and exchanging "I love you"s.
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I love you. :)
 
I've recently been practicing a technique
where you retain your semen when you ejaculate.

You still ejaculate but you apply pressure
across-ways with a coupla fingers
bellow your scrotum in that space
between your testicles and your anus.

It requires a fair amount of discipline,
you gotta also grab the top of your penis
breathe in + hold as you cum,
then apply pressure downwards and
wait for it be be reabsorbed into your body

That takes about a minute.
Deep breathing + massage help this.

It takes a coupla months to get used to this.
Your brain is seriously hardwired to want to get
it out.

But the difference once you get used to it is phenomenal.
Both physically + energetically.

That spent, tired feeling that you have after
you ejaculate, regardless of whether you realise it's there,
is gone.

It seems that absorbing the proteins et al does
majorly mad things for your genitals, too.
My dicks bigger, both flacid + erect,
and my whole, well, genital region looks vastly healthier
from just two months of daily/twice daily practice.

This can be practiced with a partner, too,
something I'm working on...
 
Yes I do this a lot and when I have had sex/relationships with a fair amount of bisexual and gay men they do this too.

I'll write more about this topic later when I'm not sleepy.
 
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