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ChEmIcaL_NiGhT

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For those of you "old skool" Bluelighters out there that remeber the real community atmosphere that Bluellight once had..
Whats happened to the "Sunny pJ's party" type events where we would all go out as one, and let ourselves been seen.. Bluelight has become very segregated, and is so more and more (in melb)
Who else out there thinks that bluelight has become more antisocial/uncommmunal in general.?
PS - this is not a gripe at any group in particular, just a thought that crossed my mind.
Chem
 
Goddammit!!! I wanna another PJ Sunny Party!!! :)
I dont think its more segregated - I think it seems that way coz a lot more of us are closer than what we were a year ago...... there were different "groups" I guess u could say and most of us kinda amalgamated when meeting each other and different events, some friends stayed, others kept back to their groups.....
 
There are just more people now.
And with anything, you meet new people then the ones who 'click' tend to stick together. You cull the wheat from the chaff so to speak.
 
i think having a smaller group of dudes back then made a big difference. Its a lot easier to meet ALL the melbourne (and even syd, brisvegas & perth) bluelighters when there arn't many.
I remember the spleen meetup where we had reps from just about all states.
 
HA HA HA elver...
but if i go up to de spook and feel he is a worthy bl'er and throw my arms up and yell WHEAT!!* he will think im nuts...
ha ha ha
*private joke with myself
 
Not an old skool BLer so can't really comment, but i agree with pleonastic if you book a party they will come! :)
mmm Wheat and Chaff highly dubious maybe the wheat should get together and form the hoers and the chaff should become the chaffers! But then again this would increase the segregation, in the already segregated Bluelight community.
[ 28 March 2002: Message edited by: Tabernacle ]
 
umm yeah things do change, its called progression, evolution, development, growth..
or for the so-called jaded bluelighters,, degradation, deterioration, destruction....
nothing stays the same.. except for vegemite -- it still tastes like shit!
-.,~pLuR~,.-
 
i like vegemite!
i haven't met many new bluelighters lately, and i reckon it's pretty much cos i don't need to. my nights out are full enough of ace people :) so i don't seek out new ones like i might have this time last year. sorry to all the new BLers out there but i'm not gonna come looking for you guys at parties. i'm sure some of you are great, tho!
[edit] BTW Am i oldskool yet??? ;) [/edit]
[ 28 March 2002: Message edited by: DQ ]
 
*ROTFLMFAO*
Despite some very valid points, I'm laughing my ass off. I think the newest bluelight insult to emerge from the depths of idiocy is chaff.
You're all fucking CHAFF!!!!!! ;)
-plaz out-
 
Hehehe well yeah I do have my group of close friends, but no one here can say that I'm cliquey or anything like that.
The amount of people that I've met on here and still hang out with occasionally and talk to will prove that. I've been posting on here since August 2000 and yes there have been a lot of people come and go during that time. Things change, but still the people I've met have been amazing.
Thankyou. :)
 
The funny thing about ravers and bluelight also... you are pretty much accepted by the group and then they get to know you.
Which in time will present the problem of people discovering things they may or may not like about some of the people that have been hanging around...
Its stupid to say a group THIS large will all get along. But I'd like to think we can all be in the same place or same house and just have fun without worrying about anything........
 
Bunny raises a good point - the problem of instant friendships. This is going to sound harsh, but hear me out - it's a general rant and not specifically directed to anyone at all.
I'm not going to like someone because they're a bluelighter. I'll like someone because we get along, or because they're cool people, or something normal like that. Similarly, I wouldn't expect someone to like me based on just that. The site is too big now for everyone with a bluelight nickname to automatically be cool. There's going to be some people that you won't get along with signing up and turning up to meetups.
Remember that the only thing some of us have in common is that we do drugs and go to parties. And that's a pretty shallow thing to solely base a friendship on. Use bluelight to meet new people that might potentially become friends - don't assume that we're all one big happy family that will instantly be soul mates. As has been said, that's just destined for trouble.
So in answer to the question "has (bluelight) become more antisocial/uncommmunal in general", I'd say yes, but that's not an entirely bad thing. At least now people are forced to make a good impression and make friends properly in the real world, rather than flashing their "I'm cool" badge and being instantly accepted. :)
 
*josh_nexus is still waiting actually meet the BL establishment and have them deside whether he is even worthy of the title "chaff"*
...meanwhile ill just content myself with attempting to gain recognition in the BL ranks by being completely irrelevent....
 
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