... plus to be fair I have been bona fide very sick with some sort of flu ... but if I'd REMEMBERED IT WAS TODAY I could've pulled myself together with some rest, food, and cold and flu tabs.
Anyway, at about 10 am this morning, after a sleepless night at my father's dreadful house, quite a lot of alcohol and I'm coughing and spluttering and not with it ... I get the text msg saying "Hey it's my graduation today and I'll drop off your ticket this afternoon".
I called her up and attempted to sound as sober as possible. All I could think of was: I cannot possibly go. I'm off my face, I'm coughing up phlegm, my nose is streaming, I have nothing to wear, I am dog -tired, I DON"T WANT TO SEE HER FATHER OR STEPMOTHER either, and I was even irate and thinking "why did she not give me more EXPLICIT warning"?
I suppose for a normal person, I'd been given warning enough ...
And then I almost had a FIGHT with her about it because she was so desperate to get me off the phone.
She said, "Mum, you sound really sick, I don't think you should come ...
I said, "well I am so sad" (and I am so sad) "but what about next weekend, we'll get together and do someting really nice?"
Then she tells me she's off to the country for a month on Monday. I had no idea this was in the offing.
I am not sure how guilty I should feel about this.
Guilt aside, it's not doing much to improve my "loser" image.
I will feel so sad while she is away. I have missed her graduation. I have let her down. I am ashamed.
Anyway, at about 10 am this morning, after a sleepless night at my father's dreadful house, quite a lot of alcohol and I'm coughing and spluttering and not with it ... I get the text msg saying "Hey it's my graduation today and I'll drop off your ticket this afternoon".
I called her up and attempted to sound as sober as possible. All I could think of was: I cannot possibly go. I'm off my face, I'm coughing up phlegm, my nose is streaming, I have nothing to wear, I am dog -tired, I DON"T WANT TO SEE HER FATHER OR STEPMOTHER either, and I was even irate and thinking "why did she not give me more EXPLICIT warning"?
I suppose for a normal person, I'd been given warning enough ...
And then I almost had a FIGHT with her about it because she was so desperate to get me off the phone.
She said, "Mum, you sound really sick, I don't think you should come ...
I said, "well I am so sad" (and I am so sad) "but what about next weekend, we'll get together and do someting really nice?"
Then she tells me she's off to the country for a month on Monday. I had no idea this was in the offing.
I am not sure how guilty I should feel about this.
Guilt aside, it's not doing much to improve my "loser" image.
I will feel so sad while she is away. I have missed her graduation. I have let her down. I am ashamed.