yes i have this problem occasionally. I can sympathise with you and I'm sorry that you have to go through this as I know how fucked it is.
I told my GP about it and he told me what it's called but I forget sorry. _____ Arousal Syndrome or something similar to that (I know it had the word arousal in it). He said unfortunately there is no treatment that he knew of, but he said it was nothing to worry about, and it's not sleep apnea. However, doctors have been wrong in the past, and it might help to see a sleep specialist.
I used to get it about once every few months, then it turned into about once a fortnight, then it gradually became every night, but this was only for a brief period. After it started happening nightly, I started exercising eating fairly healthy, cut down on my my caffeine, sugar, alcohol and drug intake and it just went away. I get it VERY rarely these days. (once every 6 - 12 months)
Do you live a fairly healthy lifestyle? Do you suffer from anxiety?
My advice would be to try a healthy lifestyle, cut down on caffeine/sugar/alcohol/drugs etc and maybe try a multivitamin. If this doesn't work then perhaps try a sleep specialist? Hopefully it will just go away for you as it did for me.