Loozer_Magnet
Bluelighter
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- Aug 20, 2016
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I have recently come to terms with my addiction to alcohol. I've (for the most part) traded in other drugs for alcohol. It all started when I was 18. I started experimenting with alcohol and other drugs. I had never done anything, not even smoking weed, until after I turned 18. Over the course of the next few years I tried a little bit of this and that.. Xanax, Oxy, Vicodin, Weed, Cocaine, shrooms, ecstasy.. Alcohol became one of my favorites.. It's legal, easy to get a hold of (I worked at a bar), cheap (free for me most of the time due to my job), and everyone I knew drank.
After I became pregnant with my first daughter I cut it out completely during pregnancy and up until she was 6 months old. Little by little I started imbibing... A few drinks here and there... Then I started looking for reasons to drink.. I missed drinking so much.. I loved the inhibition it gave me..
When I met my current companion (6 years ago) I cut back again.. Not wanting to scare him off with my excessive drinking.. I reserved it for weekends or special occasions (mostly)...
Since then we have had 2 children together for a total of 3 kids.. And I find myself drinking on a regular basis.. He's been pretty good about it. He never makes me feel bad.. But I do it to myself. My 6 year old daughter even makes comments like "Mom, are you really going to drink ANOTHER bottle of wine?"..
I can't drink every day because of work.. But when I can't drink I sit and think about how I can't wait until my next drink.. And I can't ever just stop at one... Once I start, it's like my brain is telling me I should have one more, then another until I completely black out and wake up the next morning and realize I've drank 2 whole bottles, plus 3-4 other drinks (four loco, best damn root beer, mad dragon, etc)...
I was diagnosed with depression and was put on SSRIs but it didn't help with my desire to drink..
I just don't know what to do with myself anymore.. I know that my drinking is out of hand. I know some people don't see it as a problem unless I have spent all my time and money on it, lost friends and family over it, or have done whatever I can to get a hold of it.. Which I haven't, but I know there is a problem.. I just don't know how to fix it.. And I don't want it to get so bad that I do lose everything...
After I became pregnant with my first daughter I cut it out completely during pregnancy and up until she was 6 months old. Little by little I started imbibing... A few drinks here and there... Then I started looking for reasons to drink.. I missed drinking so much.. I loved the inhibition it gave me..
When I met my current companion (6 years ago) I cut back again.. Not wanting to scare him off with my excessive drinking.. I reserved it for weekends or special occasions (mostly)...
Since then we have had 2 children together for a total of 3 kids.. And I find myself drinking on a regular basis.. He's been pretty good about it. He never makes me feel bad.. But I do it to myself. My 6 year old daughter even makes comments like "Mom, are you really going to drink ANOTHER bottle of wine?"..
I can't drink every day because of work.. But when I can't drink I sit and think about how I can't wait until my next drink.. And I can't ever just stop at one... Once I start, it's like my brain is telling me I should have one more, then another until I completely black out and wake up the next morning and realize I've drank 2 whole bottles, plus 3-4 other drinks (four loco, best damn root beer, mad dragon, etc)...
I was diagnosed with depression and was put on SSRIs but it didn't help with my desire to drink..
I just don't know what to do with myself anymore.. I know that my drinking is out of hand. I know some people don't see it as a problem unless I have spent all my time and money on it, lost friends and family over it, or have done whatever I can to get a hold of it.. Which I haven't, but I know there is a problem.. I just don't know how to fix it.. And I don't want it to get so bad that I do lose everything...
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