weekendwarrior11
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Jul 25, 2014
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Hi,
I notice alot of vulgar post from dudes on here and I want honest answers from women so with that Im going to try and be as tasteful as I can.
I'm in a long term relationship (7 years to be exact) and have a question. We have a very normal sex life and communicate about what we want/like/ or don't like. Anyways, since the beginning, I have always came really fast ( she was my first too, for reference) and I personally hate it. Sometimes even like 5 thrusts other times I'll last maybe 1 or 2 minutes.
I have expressed to her how much I hate that I can't last and hot embarrassed I am about it and constantly am apologizing. She always laughs it off and tells me it doesn't matter because I ALWAYS immediately after intercourse focus on her with my hand until she gets off. So she does always get off but it's always with my hand.
Now I know she's clearly in love with me and wouldn't leave me for something like that, and she always tells me she's more then satisfied with out sex life probably because how I noticeably try to make up for my issue.
But from a outside women's perspective, do you think she ever wishes I wasn't like that? Because I'm sure my hand gets old after a while. She claims that I do enough trying new ways to get her off it doesn't, but I can't help but think she wishes I could last. And if so is there anything more or different I could do to ease the situation?
Please only mature responses from women. Don't really need a dudes perspective, cause I've asked many dude friends. Lol
And BTW we have an incredibly strong relationship. For the past 7 years we have done Nothing but better each other and build each other up ( I would probably be one of those perverted dudes posting on here getting girls to say they like it up the ass or something before her but now I try to be more classy. Lol )
Thank you.
I notice alot of vulgar post from dudes on here and I want honest answers from women so with that Im going to try and be as tasteful as I can.
I'm in a long term relationship (7 years to be exact) and have a question. We have a very normal sex life and communicate about what we want/like/ or don't like. Anyways, since the beginning, I have always came really fast ( she was my first too, for reference) and I personally hate it. Sometimes even like 5 thrusts other times I'll last maybe 1 or 2 minutes.
I have expressed to her how much I hate that I can't last and hot embarrassed I am about it and constantly am apologizing. She always laughs it off and tells me it doesn't matter because I ALWAYS immediately after intercourse focus on her with my hand until she gets off. So she does always get off but it's always with my hand.
Now I know she's clearly in love with me and wouldn't leave me for something like that, and she always tells me she's more then satisfied with out sex life probably because how I noticeably try to make up for my issue.
But from a outside women's perspective, do you think she ever wishes I wasn't like that? Because I'm sure my hand gets old after a while. She claims that I do enough trying new ways to get her off it doesn't, but I can't help but think she wishes I could last. And if so is there anything more or different I could do to ease the situation?
Please only mature responses from women. Don't really need a dudes perspective, cause I've asked many dude friends. Lol
And BTW we have an incredibly strong relationship. For the past 7 years we have done Nothing but better each other and build each other up ( I would probably be one of those perverted dudes posting on here getting girls to say they like it up the ass or something before her but now I try to be more classy. Lol )
Thank you.