I can't seem to follow like 50% of what is posted here LOL... but I'm doing my uttermost best to learn from all of your postings.

Any user reports out there and any neurotoxicity information I should know before ordering myself 5 grams of this 3-FEA?

I personally like the fact that is being compared to MDMA and does seem to have a relatively high duration in the body...
Keep on posting! :D
-- Peace o/
Chemist here, I'll try to break down these substitutions as simply as I can. I also want to mention that 5 grams is a lot, and this drug should likely be spaced at least 6-8 weeks in between uses, similarly to things with similar pharmacologic profiles such as the MDXX family.
Keep in mind that methyl vs ethyl is a single carbon vs a two-carbon long chain.
Ok, breaking down the common consensus of the amphetamine substituents relevant to this thread, based on this numbering scheme, based around the core structure of unsubstituted phenethylamine:
Alpha: Methyl here make an amphetamine, ethyl here makes a weaker variant that's sometimes referred to as a "butanamine" by psychedelic chemists. Alpha-ethyl-2C-D for example was a Shulgin creation he named ARIADNE, which was weaker than 2C-D and as a result it found a cult following as a smart drug that lacked psychedelic effects but was kind of what microdoses wish they were. MDA with its alpha methyl replaced with an alpha ethyl is often referred to as MDEA, and it's considered to be weaker, less stimulating, and less useful in general than MDA or MDMA by most. 3-FA & 3-FMA should both be noticeably more potent than 3-FEA, assuming the SAR (Structure-Activity Relationship) extrapolates. Btw "pyros" are where a heterocycle (closed loop of carbons) called pyrrolidine is placed just to the right of here.
Beta: This position is fascinating and highly unexplored. Cathinones are amphetamines with a two-carbon bond to an oxygen here. Ephedrine (as is naturally found in E. sinica) could be considered beta-hydroxy-methamphetamine. That leads me to ...
Things hanging off the NH2 on the tail, displacing the hydrogens (aka "nitrogenous substitutions"): Methyl, ethyl and hydroxy groups shine here. N-methyl-amphetamine is usually just referred to as methamphetamine. Shulgin took the 3,4-Methylenedioxy skeleton of MD(M)A and synthesized it with an N-hydroxy substitution, creating MDOH, which is worth reading about in PiHKAL for sure.
Surrounding the benzene ring you'll see that only positions 2-6 are available for substitution, as the "ethylamine" part of "phenethylamine" is on position 1. Typically 5 & 6 substitutions are viewed as relatively useless in the amphetamine world (despite their fascinating uses in alpha-unsubstituted phenethylamines). 2-Subs are pretty weak and don't have a ton of character. That leaves the 3 and 4 positions to be the ones that really shine.
I hope this helps lend some understanding and spark some curiosity! Feel free to DM with any questions pertaining to the phenethylamine SAR.