There is a lot of ad hominem and just bashing happening. I do think both of our 'sides' are doing it. For example it's OK to say what23 has some bigoted ideas but to judge him as a bigot really requires he outs himself by declaring he is a bigot. One racial prejudiced idea might be bigoted, when we call him bigoted it triggers a different view of him in the mind of each reader.
A better example would be I am gay, I don't just have some gay ideas, I'm not someone who sympathizers with gay people. To call me derogatory gay slurs becomes pointless, because I am. If I was struggling with my sexuality being called a snowflake would bother me. The act of name calling, only brings in emotion when the party being judged actually feels the judgement. Any judgement people wish to bring at me for being gay doesn't affect me. So I'm ok with terms like snowflake, it doesn't represent me in anyway but it tells me volumes about my judge.
Reading the name calling, it's difficult to stay calm and not tell people they are dumber than my last fart. (If you feel victimized by that statement reread the last paragraph). It really would do no good at providing them a perspective they don't have. The minute I start judging with blanket terms I can see that I have lost the argument and beyond that, I will have failed at bringing anything relevant to the table.
I could care less what I get called for my opinions or beliefs, I live in a world full of children, most have only grown up in a tiny area of their life and I'm one of them. Racial prejudice I have overcome, I was not always as certain in my beliefs as I am now. I used to fear others and thought we should close our borders. Change, is a slow process, being yelled at and called racist while I was becoming very non racist didn't help.
To help put this into perspective, I grew up in a Mennonite community. Some people will change their opinion of me based on that single word from my past. It was easier to overcome the unintentionally misguided beliefs I was trained in because I was gay. If I wasn't gay I may have been lost to a horrifying world of believing in anything I was told. Being gay, showed me a single lie I was taught and gave me a thread to pull on. I believe I made it out. Name calling never helped. Using it here isn't helping either.
Insulting or name calling third parties, 'bunch of snowflakes rioting'. Is trolling for victims. Realizing your racial or religious paranoia, understanding you must be the author of your beliefs and fearlessly experiencing the world you are in would be my advice, if you feel under equipped to compete with others.