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I am trapped and lost

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I have always been a loner, making things alone with myself and little friends. Had a few relationships which all broke. Then was very lonely, got to know a woman online, we chatted, then I travelled to her place (other country) and ended up moving in with her. Then things began to change.. she is controlling me. I don't even have a fucking key to our appartment, we only leave together or she alone but never me alone. She has zero friends, works from home. I am obviously unemployed. Never could have imagined that I'd be in such a situation one day. She does not want me to do drugs and drugs are what keeps me going, so I take DXM which I can order online. I need to find a way out but every time I try to speak to her about having to do fhings in my own country (which is real, I get disabikity support of which half has been suepended until I do some administrative chores) she gets very aggressive and changes topics. I don't want to get physically violent and this would only bring me into jail but I see no other way. What can I do? Call the police? I don't think they would help me at all. I know I have to solve this on my own and by myself but I feel completely helpless and stuck.
 
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Perhaps for your sake find a way to move on. Do you have any independence, are you being held hostage or maybe you prefer living as you are. Change would be good for you.
 
It sounds like a hostage situation though. You got trapped somehow and will have to escape.


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What does she do when she gets aggressive?
What do you imagine she would do if you walked out the door? Why would you think she would make an effort to stop you?
Clearly you have computer access, can you contact friends/ family/ police/ your country's embassy for help?
If you are being held against your will and by force, you should be able to get help from the police. If she is not physically making it impossible to leave then you can leave. What country is this and where are you from?
 
I think we solved the case, right ? ;);)

Oh Well.

Things do happen and can get very aggravating lol to say the least.

chippermonk said:
What does she do when she gets aggressive?
What do you imagine she would do if you walked out the door? Why would you think she would make an effort to stop you?
Clearly you have computer access, can you contact friends/ family/ police/ your country's embassy for help?
If you are being held against your will and by force, you should be able to get help from the police. If she is not physically making it impossible to leave then you can leave. What country is this and where are you from?
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I think it's the weather.

Or we are getting sprayed with something. wink wink. I always say that. lol I have to get out of that habit. But I think there is
shit falling out of the sky.

This is highly alerting. I hope this one gets resolved as well. 💟
 
Sounds like you definitely need to leave. Is there a reason you’re in such fear of leaving? Has she become physically violent before?
 
I would say get the heck out of there next time she leaves the house. Do you have family that could help you or that you can talk to about this? It’s only going to get worse if you stay. Best of luck to you.
 
Kaori said:
Günümüzün tipik kadını gibi geliyor kulağa.😶
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Ruh emicilik günümüzde ortada kalan kişilerce yaşanılan kriz durumudur seni yıpratmasına izin verme şiddet oltaya gelmek olur hiç düşünme açık net ol izah et ayrılmakla tehdid ilişkiden sıkıldığı için seni bir kalıba döküp hesap verme sorumluluğundan kopmak için olabilir
 
Ki3ly said:
I think we solved the case, right ? ;);)

Oh Well.

Things do happen and can get very aggravating lol to say the least.




I think it's the weather.

Or we are getting sprayed with something. wink wink. I always say that. lol I have to get out of that habit. But I think there is
shit falling out of the sky.

This is highly alerting. I hope this one gets resolved as well. 💟
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Conspiracy Theory Yes GIF by A Badge of Friendship
 
Start taking recordings of aggressive situations then you will have some proof
It works in the uk ,in fact just saying your partner physically abused you even if it's something like grabbing an arm is enough to get them arrested
 
This depends so strongly on which country you're in and whether you're a legal resident there that it's almost not worth trying to answer unless you're actually going to tell us which country you're in and what passport you hold. My first reading of this thread is that your biggest problem isn't that you don't have a key to your apartment, it's that you're breaking the law, and therefore you don't expect the police or social services to help you. Hence, you haven't run away.

Honestly, this whole "my country" thing is ridiculous. Nobody is going to dox you just by knowing which country you're from, unless you're the Prince of Liechtenstein.
 
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