I've been robbed by an "escort"

[paranoid android]

Ive only had 1 escort in my life payed 200 Canadian for like a half hour back in the day. Was totally worth it. But there are shitty people in every job. Just cut your losses and move on imo

 

[marcoman]

Yeah, don't dwell on it. Move on. Learn from it. You'll be fine.

 

[ChemicallyEnhanced]

Hello all.

I've got sort of an embarrassing/angry story to tell you guys...

A few days ago I met up with an escort with the promise of sex for 3 hours for £300/$408. When I arrived at her house I gave her the money up front and she wanted Cocaine which I ended up paying for and then she said she wanted me to stay for an extra 2 hours which I stupidly agreed to so I gave her £200/$408 so that's £500/$681 in total for 5 hours. I took the Coke and ended up talking too much, I kept hinting to have sex and she said "don't worry babe we've got enough time for that" so I said "okay". We gave each other back massages and then she started to get me to buy her jewellery online which I refused and then she said she's "tired" and wanted me to go an hour early. She probably wanted to see another "client" to swindle. Has this girl robbed/extorted me? I mean I got NOTHING for the money I gave her ! I'm from the UK (white British) and she's from Romania (mixed race) and her English is bad. I know where she lives and she's got two kids and she's got no partner (boyfriend/husband). What do you think I should do? I could go to her house and demand for my money back (with protection of course). What do you think? Cheers guys.

Well, *I* would turn up at her house (with protection 'cause I'm tiny), force my way in, if necessary, and get my money back, with interest.
Hooooweverrrr, I'm an asshole and the "right" thing to do is probably just cut your losses and find sex workers from a more reliable place in future...I'm sure there are websites, or word-of-mouth or SOMETHING. If you found one in the first place, you probably know where to look.

 

[neversickanymore]

yeah as others have stated.. cut your losses.. learn from the scam and sustain on ramen or such for a couple of weeks. There are great sex workers out there.. you just need the wisdom to recognize them. Sorry this was done to
you.

 

[pixies+]

What she did to me was so shockingly cruel that there's no word to describe it, it speaks volumes about her character. I just wasn't expecting it, I didn't think anyone was capable of such an act! I keep thinking about it and it's probably going to take a while for me to get over it

PS: I've seen two escorts in the past and I had a very good experience. But this experience was the complete opposite in a very criminal way, it was next level stuff! She took all my money and I don't get paid till the 24th which means I don't know where I'm going to get food from, I'm in a seriously desperate situation now. This is why I wanted to try and get my money back. I actually thought about suicide, and women say men are bad!

I’m sorry you found out how cruel some people can be. Believe me when I say this… she did you a favour. I know that sounds completely insane… but she opened your eyes to the depths some people will go to fuck you over and not give one single fuck as to how you were going to feel.

Some People are vile and completely fucking disgusting. They’re a disease… sometimes fatal. They feed off your weaknesses, vulnerabilities, naivety, and kindness… the more human you are the better for them. More to take from.. more to work with as they shatter your heart, your soul, and your reality. They’ll taunt you. They’ll destroy everything good in your life and laugh at your misfortune. They consider themselves powerful… especially if they can drive you absolutely insane. Watching you fall apart, as you distance yourself from everything healthy and hopefully discrediting yourself in the process is orgasmic to these pieces of human trash. Killing yourself due to their cruelty is the ultimate pleasure..

Now that you know such people exist, don’t allow yourself to let them win. Take back your power. Stand your fucking ground. Killing yourself because you were swindled out of hundreds of dollars and being humiliated is not the way my friend. I promise you… you will be a better human for having gone through something like this and coming out with the knowledge and understanding that these types of people are everywhere. Learn how to protect yourself. Never lose your voice.

I know it feels impossible right now. But you’ll find a way to continue. Reach out to local food banks… I guarantee you’ll find humans that want to help you. Help is out there.. though I recognize how tough it is out there. Seek out local shelters if you have to. I’m sure you’ll find someone at one of these places that can help you navigate your food crisis.

I’d also encourage you to lay off the escorts until you regain the financial stability. Your health needs to come first. The other stuff will fall in line once you become number one.

Don’t let the vile fuckers win. Your pain is real.. you matter. That girl is a master at what she does. You’re not the first and you’re not the last man she’s going to take advantage of. Don’t let this be the end of you. Learn from this painful experience and keep it close… don’t forget what she taught you. This is life dude. It can be truly awful at times… it can also be so god damn beautiful it fills your heart with joy. It can make your soul dance.

Seek out people that make your soul dance. I promise they’re out there