HighonLife
Bluelighter
ebb and flow?
i have heard the term but dont truly know what it means
i have heard the term but dont truly know what it means
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ohline
Bluelighter
ebb and flow (plural ebbs and flows)
- The flowing out and in of the tide.
- (figuratively) A large flowing out and in.
brutus
Bluelight Crew
hey wiggi...i spaced on saying hey yesterday...and yes,drugs do find me...i have altered the universe so that it is so.
you doing ok??? hope so.
Much peace and love................skillz
:D
I'm doing alright I guess, I've started messing around with another girl since me and my girl broke up last night after 1.5 years. I don't think I will be sober enough to do this calc homework since I took too much Xanax already. At least I won't get pissed off and quit doing the homework though and my benzo tolerance is ungodly so maybe this will work out. I figured it would be better to have plenty of benzos than Somas since it can be hard for me to talk or walk with soma.
Chainer
Bluelighter
hang in there wiggi, that shit sucks. bout 9 months ago i broke up with my girl of 3.5 years, it was rough. It's refreshing being single and able to hook up with anyone though.
HighonLife
Bluelighter
really, personally i prefer soma to xanax
to each thier own,
hope things work out for you, cant say i know how it is leaving a girl you've been with for that long, im still with my girl, but i can empathise with the pain of feeling like you've lost someone you've cared that much about
HighonLife
Bluelighter
dont be shy ladies, i want as much answers as i can get, even you lurkers i wanna know
so panda, pff i wanna hear from you, skillz i wanna hear from you too of course, though i know you arent into the dick
ohline
Bluelighter
can i ask why exactly you're asking?
amanda_eats_pandas
Bluelighter
^Make up sex with said girlfriend perhaps? Morbid guy curiosity?
If you guys broke up last night and you're already messing with another girl I'd say you're doing quite well for yourself dude.
brutus
Bluelight Crew
Yea, I just couldn't exactly find out if Soma could be tested for so I didn't want to screw around and get kicked out of the clinic. I know are tests are sent off to a lab and they are a 12 or 14 panel, but I hope that shit is out of my system in 5 days when I get an UA. I have a script for benzos so that's ok that I will fail for them.
But yea man it is fucking rough losing a girl I cared way too much about, but basically I lied to her about me being an addict and I was just ashamed to tell her everything. The girl I am messing around now is pretty non judgmental. You can't tell everyone that you used to smoke crack and they act like it's not a big deal.
HighonLife
Bluelighter
i was told i was a prude and boring lover
but i find myself going soft when i try to be rough and mean, its not me
i have sex with her the way i feel about her, which is soft and caring
but apparently she doesnt always like it that way all the time
i am willing tto give her what she wants but when i start fucking like that then i just feel like she enjoys being treated bad/dirty, and i cant do that. i dont think of her that way and thats not the way i want to show my love for her, but if its what she wants then its what she wants
but i ask yall because i wanna know if most girls like that or if she just wants that because of other certain reasons
anyways i gotta go to work
also i cant help but feel like maybe b/c i wasnt pleasing her being why she mighta did what she did, although it happened awhile ago and i still fuck her gently since n i belive it hasnt happened since i cant help but feel like she was looking to be treated like a slut and i just cant treat her that way cuz i dont see her that way
Chainer
Bluelighter
just cause she wants it rough doesn't make her a slut, im just kinda picking up that attitude. every girl likes variety my man
ohline
Bluelighter
first, i'll just say this:
it's of my opinion that when men and women have sex, the women should be allowed to dictate what happens. do you realize how much harder it is for us to get off in comparison to men? i don't know any dude who's had a woman come before him and then stop as she was unable to keep going to get him off. happens to us all the time.
now if you aren't comfortable getting "rough" and lose your erection whenever you try to be.. you could try having her reassure you about how much she's loving it, during? i dunno, man. i personally couldn't handle sleeping with someone who couldn't be dominate when i wanted it (pretty much always).
what chainer said is truth:
you need to change that mentality. a girl wanting passionate, animalistic sex makes her a slut? then every girl i've ever personally known, ever, is also a slut. i'm seriously bummed and disappoint in your attitude, brodude.
..also, that's not an excuse to cheat on you because she could have talked to you about it. if not being sexually compatible sends her running to another man then she should have just stepped off in the first place. wrong shit is still wrong
TL;DR unwarranted advice of the day
i think i'm gonna go see that "warrior" movie sometime soon. i've heard really awesome things about it. i just hate paying so much for movies these days. it's ridiculous.
RecklessWOT
Bluelight Crew
This is why I love this place
HOL I can understand what you mean. If it's some random slut I can fuck her like a slut, but if its a girl I give a shit about at all, it's hard to treat her like I don't. Even if she's begging for it idk man shit's just kind of weird slapping a chick and callin' her a whore when I know she's not...
Now if I'm doing coke with freshly graduated 2 days ago cum-dumpster, it's a different story... Cum will be dumped and hair will be yanked.NASSAD Social Song of the Day
Shots by LMFAO ft. Lil Wayne
NSFW:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNtTEibFvlQ&ob=av2e
sorry if I fucked up the format, I don't know it, I've never posted one before.
kthnks bye.
Johnny blue
Bluelight Crew
HoL man don't think too deeply on this shit. It's just sex. IME a little bondage will do ya wonders. If you don't want to spring for the starter kit a bathrobe or whatever you find will work as restraints and maybe a blindfold. I recommend that you start early as in before the two of you even get home from work. A few texts typically set the mood throughout the day. I know all chicks are different but, if you get her brain going all day then you're ahead of the game. Just tell her what you're going to do to her and don't hold back either. It's not something you should be at everyday or it loses it's charm (for both or you) but, it has always worked for me![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
Anyways man you need to talk shop with your boys more. That's the fucking point of talking shop man, to learn new dirty things to do.
That may not be your thing but, something will be. Just let loose dude cause no guy fantasizes about missionary so go get it. Have fun
As far as your current situation goes I've been on both sides of the coin so I think I can offer a word of advice. If you think you can forgive her now then do it now. If not now then just run far away and disafuckingpear because this will quickly turn into the worst relationship that you will ever have and you are too young for that. If you do decide to bounce get in some of that nasty dirty sex before you leave and then on to the next one.
Lastly most chicks like their hair pulled and there's only one way to find out...
Good form on the S o' D Jay
Chainer
Bluelighter
If you were talking to me, that's kinda the opposite of what I'm saying. Every girl I've been with seems to like crazy sex more then "missionary to finish," - i mean hell, that shit bores me as well.
You never met my ex-gf. You know a dude now, that used to happen to me all the time, she'd finish after maybe 15-25 min and then I'm kinda left to my own devices. I know how fucking annoying that is. imo if your partner doesn't look like they just ran a marathon, you ain't done yet.
Lastly most chicks like their hair pulled and there's only one way to find out...
bing!
ohline
Bluelighter
ITT chainer tries to make it look like he got that good dick.
but seriously, i'm guessing she was a bitch? i mean it's not like it is for guys because you lose your erection after finishing. our vaginas don't close or anything. mouths either, for that matter.
purplefirefly
Bluelight Crew
There is a time and a place for both, I love me some passionate and loving lubbins, but then there are times when I want to be taken from behind, have my hair pulled and fucked like an animal. Maybe I prefer a little roughness over always sensual. I need something to get my endorphins going.
purplefirefly
Bluelight Crew
HoL man don't think too deeply on this shit. It's just sex. IME a little bondage will do ya wonders. If you don't want to spring for the starter kit a bathrobe or whatever you find will work as restraints and maybe a blindfold. I recommend that you start early as in before the two of you even get home from work. A few texts typically set the mood throughout the day. I know all chicks are different but, if you get her brain going all day then you're ahead of the game. Just tell her what you're going to do to her and don't hold back either. It's not something you should be at everyday or it loses it's charm (for both or you) but, it has always worked for me Anyways man you need to talk shop with your boys more. That's the fucking point of talking shop man, to learn new dirty things to do.
That may not be your thing but, something will be. Just let loose dude cause no guy fantasizes about missionary so go get it. Have fun
As far as your current situation goes I've been on both sides of the coin so I think I can offer a word of advice. If you think you can forgive her now then do it now. If not now then just run far away and disafuckingpear because this will quickly turn into the worst relationship that you will ever have and you are too young for that. If you do decide to bounce get in some of that nasty dirty sex before you leave and then on to the next one.
Lastly most chicks like their hair pulled and there's only one way to find out...
Good form on the S o' D Jay
This man speaks the truth on all counts, especially the bold part.
Try different positions, the only men and women who "love" missionary are too pussy to try anything else even though other positions feel sooooooo much better, especially for the woman. Personally, I love being on top and I love doggie, both feel amazing for me and hit all the right spots. Missionary styles are okay as long as my legs are flung over his arms or something like that, don't know if thats still considered missionary though.- Status
