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How common is incest?

Lost Ego

Lost Ego

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K um, ever since i um became a man or w/e--- lost weight and had a muscular physique, my mom and sister, the only 2 ppl that live with me, will often check me out and im really uncomftorable with it. Like just this morning i woke up, went to the bathroom and i came out and my mom was looking at my dick through my boxers and then she says good morning like nothing had just happened, wtf! ok like... she does this every day and its just stealing glances at it but its like wtf. she'll touch me inappropriately like sit next to me and place her hand on my inner thigh when she is talking to me and i move her hand and she'll be like "whats ur problem". my sister must know i jack off, w/e, but last week i guess she heard me and came into my room without even fucking knocking and then i quickly put it away in the knick of time and she was like fuckin lookin at my hard dick through my shorts for 10 seconds b4 she started talking to me. wtf! im not cool with any of this shit and i really dno wtf to do since this is my family and the only 2 ppl i live with. they always fucking steal glances at my cock, every fucking day, idk what to do. is this common? i know the Oedipus complex is supposed to be son -> mom, not the other way around. ugh, 1 time i was tying my shoe facing the um couch (i was about 12) and my mom walks up wearing a skirt and she sat right in front of my face with no panties on, i still cant get this horrible image of my mom's vagina outa my head and i think she did it on purpose. i mean she had to of known! i haven't had the courage to talk to my psychiatrist about it. is there any mental illness that can cause your eyes to wander uncontrollably even though you dont wanna, like my eyes sometimes wander to male bodys and i dont like men but they just do and i can't not look sometimes. maybe its the same with my mom, maybe it's a hereditary neurological disease. all i know is it all started around when i read a introductory book about sigmund freud called "basic freud". anyways, any input would be helpful. i think im going crazy
 
wow... that's a bit bizarre... cant say I've heard many cases of that happening... but I do suspect you are jumping the gun a bit by insinuating that your mother & sister foster a joint 'incestual' interest towards you.

maybe the 'inappropriate touching' thing can be cleared up by saying 'don't touch me' - some people are hands-off by nature, and you may well be one of these people. simple. 'keep your hands off me, I don't like being touched' usually gets the message across. parents are usually very physical towards their children, and they sometimes need to be told when to refrain from these actions as their child grows older (IME men are extremely funny about being touched by their mothers, moreso than girls with their dads).

and how do you know your sister KNEW you were beating off? how loud can you possibly be? maybe she was staring at your boner 'cause she was in shock. and same goes for your mum - if you had a morning wood or something, it can be a bit distracting for the person standing in front of you if they don't expect to see that. who knows. next time you should yell at your sister and tell her to either KNOCK first or leave you the fuck alone - it's your room, your privacy, how would she like it if you came barging in unannounced?

just be a bit more forceful in asserting yourself and dont put yourself in the situation... parents can be really oblivious, do you really suppose your mother INTENDED to show you her snatch? come on. you should have said something to her, "mom, do you mind? put some panties on....THAT'S GROSS!"

speak to the people who are bothering you. I can guarantee you're building this up in your head to be more than it is 8)
 
i didnt have a morning wood, they often just look at my junk when im wearing boxers/basketball shorts/sweats. i dont think i could have the nerve to say that to my mom, my relationship with her isnt very open and i dont think i would have felt comftorable in saying that to her. maybe my sister was in shock, i did yell at her when it happened, "wtf are u doing, did u knock, get the fuck out" and she just stood there and looked at me and then back down and back at me. speaking of morning woods, my mom always comes in when i have then and it wakes me up cause im freaking out and i have to roll over and if i didnt she would still invade my privacy and try to tuck me in or w/e. i dont feel like i have much privacy in my house. ok maybe she didnt intend to show me her snatch but i fucking saw it and it traumatized me. regardless of how you look it at, they still steal glances at my cock all the time, this isnt normal.

edit: and its not like a joint incestual interest towards me. when u say "joint", it makes it sound like they are in it together which i dont think they would be, i think they are just somewhat attracted to me or something. my point is, i feel that the way they look at me is completely inappropriate and im looking for advice on what to do, some way to make it stop. do i have to put the 50 pounds back on and become unattractive again? i'll do it. i fucking will.
 
well looking & touching are 2 different things... if you have a prominent cock then maybe it's just habit...

do you smoke weed? you seem a little paranoid about the matter.

if they are OGLING your pubic region, just ask, "do you mind? my eyes are up here, not in my pants" - once they know you feel uncomfortable, they ought to stop doing it
 
Tex@s said:
As a man i must say shit can get intense!
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save the intense moments for when you are home alone?

who wants their family to hear them?

wanting your family to hear your beat off is just as weird as the treatment the OP claims to receive... why would someone draw attention to their cock if that's what's making them concerned in the first place?!
 
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Your body's changed, as you say, since you 'became a man'. They're noticing. If you're wandering around part dressed they can't help it. I doubt they are experiencing any lustful thoughts towards you. Hyroller gives good advice here imo. How old are you ? If you're young i'd say you're just adjusting to sharing a house with female relatives as a young adult, as opposed to being a kid. It's somewhat different.
 
I just read in some other posts you made how you have a masturbation fixation, you do it 3-4 times a day & you've made yourself bleed. And how once you masturbated under a blanket in the family room with your sister and mother present, and other quite exhibitionist circumstances like in class and loudly a girls bathroom while she was just outside the door.
 
badandwicked said:
I just read in some other posts you made how you have a masturbation fixation, you do it 3-4 times a day & you've made yourself bleed. And how once you masturbated under a blanket in the family room with your sister and mother present, and other quite exhibitionist circumstances like in class and loudly a girls bathroom while she was just outside the door.
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sounds like an attention seeker IMO.... who cant help but project his own sexual fixations on to those around him (he is always thinking about his cock, therefore, everyone else must also be doing the same thing).


freud would say you were quite possibly dropped on the head as a child :p
 
It's more common than people are comfortable with accepting.
 
I'm sure it does happen, but a person's temperament and credibility can definitely affect and/or skew the nature of their claims - in any situation
 
I think that you should talk to you psychiatrist about this whole project. If you have a hard-on its hard not to notice it and be like, "Oh um ok thats a hard cock, but whateva."

I some how doubt that your mother and sister are trying to get a look at your dick. I seriously doubt that she meant to show you her vagina.

You should really talk to your psych about this, he might be able to give you some insight about the whole project with you.

Why is it you think your mother and sister would look at you in a sexual manner? What possible pleasure could they get from it?
 
i know the Oedipus complex is supposed to be son -> mom, not the other way around
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lol...
If you have a hard-on its hard not to notice it and be like, "Oh um ok thats a hard cock, but whateva."
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that's not why he should see the therapist... anyone would have an erection given stimulation and/or the thought of sexuality activated in their head
 
since these thoughts seem to begin around the time you read "basic freud" maybe you should read something about a different psychiatrist, like one less sex obsessed than freud.
i'm pretty sure there's no hereditary neurological disease that causes your eyes to uncontrollably wander w/ incestuous intent.
i really don't think your mom and sis are intentionally trying to make you uncomfortable.

your post made me lmao and i really needed to laugh so thanks. :)
take a deep breath, dude. everything'll be ok.
-izzy
 
this would be a good time to test my hypothesis that nymphomania is genetic
 
You're right qwe that isn't why he should talk to his therapist about it. Fact of the matter is that he sounds like he is obsessing needlessly over something that probably isn't coming from both his mother and his sister. He sounds seriously paranoid and he could probably use the insight on the matter that structured therapy can provide.
 
you guys are too much. all of your posts have made me lmfao. thanks for the insight on myself, although perhaps a little too much in 1 sitting but its okay, i appreciate it all.

u think i'm paranoid, i agree, my therapist disagrees that there is anything wrong with me, paranoia included, i need a new psychologist. so i obsess over paranoid delusions, what does that equal???

do i smoke weed? no, not anymore. the paranoia started towards the end of my drug use. the paranoia has not gone away since i quit 5-6 months ago, perhaps the weed/acid/other drugs i did triggered some sort of neurological disease? my grandfather's uncle/brother(i forget) had schizophrenia =/. always been a little paranoid about it...

and um, my cock isnt that prominent, i would say that im a little below average. and i wasn't hard when they were checking it out.

so is there a neurological disease that causes ur eyes to wander where they shouldnt, period?

maybe i am blowing all of this outa proportion like euphoricnod and others said. and to answer ur question euphoric, idk what possible pleasure they could get out of it, i suppose i am just starting to become a man and adjusting.

i think that i always come on here first for all my problems and then when i go see my psychologist, i can think rationally and he thinks nothing is wrong with me and im normal, while in reality i have just adjusted to the situation and he thinks i sound like a normal teen. maybe im far more abnormal than once conceived.

and i dont jack off loud on purpose, but when im trying to finish i sometimes go too hard and the damn chair makes a bunch of noise or the porno makes a sudden loud moan and i have the volume too high, those are the reasons i would think they could hear it. idk, maybe they cant, i hope they cant but sometimes im just hella horny or w/e and i just gotta do it whether anyone is home or not. badandwicked, u make it sound as if i jack off 3/4 times a day, i jack off once a day, and i only bleed when i dont use lotion o.o, which is like never because i dont wanna be too loud cause my sister is home 24/7 and has no life.

euphoricnod, u asked what possible pleasure they could get outa it. well, my sister has never had a bf and is extremely lonely and perhaps somewhat twisted sexually - she was raped as a little girl. my mom, idk she is hella anti-social and once heavy into drugs, perhaps she could even be a psycho. do psychopaths cry? nvm she's not psycho, but umm lol idk i think im just wrong about it all, u guys always change my mind about crazy ideas, thanks for that.
 
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