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I’m a trans woman - AMA

right but you didn’t wear the type of clothes you would wear to a fancy restaurant or a white collar work environment. because dogs don’t judge humans like humans judge humans.

not sure if you’re male or female, did you put on make up?

the things you did (shower etc) make you feel better and fresher but also make you look better , that’s understandable. there’s a other things we do that make us more physically uncomfortable but also make us look better (nice clothes, make up, nice shoes instead of tennis shoes etc). the latter category is more the type of thing i was referring to in my originally comment. cosmetic things we obviously do do impress other not to make our selves feel fresher and hygienic which is a self care thing
i never had white collar work environment clothes even if i did at some point work in such an environment.
i have been both under- and overdressed to places, both fancy and gritty.
i like to wear nice things because i like them. i don't always do it. i sometimes (like today) take out the dog in my pjs and we have a doorman here, and lots of people with dogs.
so basically, i do what i fucking want to do.
is it smart? no idea. i guess i i would care more about social norms i would drive an expensive car and live in a better place (i'm at my parent's now, house sitting),
but you know what?
being myself for myself is my equivalent to a fancy car/house/vacation/whatever.
 
i never had white collar work environment clothes even if i did at some point work in such an environment.
i have been both under- and overdressed to places, both fancy and gritty.
i like to wear nice things because i like them. i don't always do it. i sometimes (like today) take out the dog in my pjs and we have a doorman here, and lots of people with dogs.
so basically, i do what i fucking want to do.
is it smart? no idea. i guess i i would care more about social norms i would drive an expensive car and live in a better place (i'm at my parent's now, house sitting),
but you know what?
being myself for myself is my equivalent to a fancy car/house/vacation/whatever.


i’m envious. you’ve transcended hundreds of millions of years of social animal evolution and hundreds of thousand of years of homo genus animals’ evolution based on social hierarchy and caring what other members of the group think of the individual and the objective consequences on the individual’s life, status, social standing, resource attainment, etc etc. to only act according to what makes you feel best about you

bravo, i wish i could achieve that but being human i have these millions of years of evolutionary selected for habits traits and desires that i can’t personally shake
 
i’m envious. you’ve transcended hundreds of millions of years of social animal evolution and hundreds of thousand of years of homo genus animals’ evolution based on social hierarchy and caring what other members of the group think of the individual and the objective consequences on the individual’s life, status, social standing, resource attainment, etc etc. to only act according to what makes you feel best about you

bravo, i wish i could achieve that but being human i have these millions of years of evolutionary selected for habits traits and desires that i can’t personally shake

Haven't you also transcended hundreds of millions of years of animal evolution by being antinatalist ?
 
Haven't you also transcended hundreds of millions of years of animal evolution by being antinatalist ?


no, it’s well documented that when resources are limited and or carry capacity is maxed out, to favor their own survival and wellbeing, animals will kill their own young (kinda like abortion), miscarry, become less fertile via hormonal changes, or not mate, - all result in limiting procreation so that the individual can survive that difficult overpopulated or under resourced era.

also in captivity animals have been know to cease mating or procreation. while captivity isn’t natural this does show that there’s something buried there in the animal instinct or psyche,

granted these mechanisms of limiting or ceasing procreation have the downstream effect of the animal that practices it, surviving, and then later during times of plenty, they do reproduce and pass on that trait of not procreating when it’s expedient for survival and wellbeing of the individual - hence AN practices are selected for and passed on in this way. the animals that continues to have excess progeny dies and its young die - so the trait of excess reproduction no matter the conditions, is not selected for

but the mechanism does exist and was selected for despite in the macroscopic sense it does favor survival of the species.

but that mechanism of limiting or abstaining from procreation was selected for during evolution for these reasons. so it’s not unnatural.

this does correspond to conditional antinatlism though; and not to the AN rationale based on the immorality of creating suffering out of thin air.

regardless of the reasons it exists in nature, it exists. as more highly evolved animals (humans) we can begin to assign moral justifications and other reasons for the practice too which is a bigger can of worms though and a new thing.

but no, it’s a natural thing other species have done for hundreds of millions of years, regardless of the reasons.


and on a different note. i’d love to transcend the reliance on social interactions and validation as i originally referred to. it’s competley unrelated to anti natalism, regardless of whether AN practices have evolutionary roots or not, i don’t see the connection between AN and waning to be free of the chains of worrying what others think about me.

AN does trigger a lot of people. so i’m not surprised you brought it up in an unrelated conversation. When you’re not confident in the choices you’ve made and you hear a valid challenge to it, it creates a defensive reaction, so this is very common occurrence i deal with if i express AN views.

ppl see my own choices and ideology as a personal assault because of the decisions they e made in their own lives. and if they were truly non regretful of their own decisions and confident in the altruism of them, they wouldn’t be so triggered by AN viewpoints
 
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and on a different note. i’d love to transcend the reliance on social interactions and validation as i originally referred to. it’s competley unrelated to anti natalism, regardless of whether AN practices have evolutionary roots or not, i don’t see the connection between AN and waning to be free of the chains of worrying what others think about me.

AN does trigger a lot of people. so i’m not surprised you brought it up in an unrelated conversation. When you’re not confident in the choices you’ve made and you hear a valid challenge to it, it creates a defensive reaction, so this is very common occurrence i deal with if i express AN views.

ppl see my own choices and ideology as a personal assault because of the decisions they e made in their own lives. and if they were truly non regretful of their own decisions and confident in the altruism of them, they wouldn’t be so triggered by AN viewpoints

It wasn't unrelated at all. The thread is very clear. You were underhandedly mocking @asvarohn for saying she didn't consider what others thought in regards to how she dresses. Suggested she had transcended evolution. So thinking of evolution it reminded me of your own posts in this thread regarding antinatalism. To me as an uneducated man, the entire purpose of evolution is adaptation, survival, reproduction etc. nihilism or misanthropy really don't factor in to the equation.

To be fair, I do see views like yours coming up more and more, do you think there's any connection between that kind of thing and the idea that many/most trans people become infertile (at least the ones who medically/surgically transition) ?

Also @arrall , I'd be happy to send this AMA over to you as well along with my last one.
 
here lies the big problem of so many people, especially here.
they think everyone has to share the same ideas.
Trying to understand another vantage point is not a problem. Ideas don't have to be shared, but maybe not completely dismissed.

Although I suspect this was a specific idea here you are referencing. The thread itself is a gamble, but so far so good.
 
To me as an uneducated man, the entire purpose of evolution is adaptation, survival, r

many animals wont procreate in captivity and let themselves go extinct in captivity. humans evolved to be hunter gatherers in small communes, not corporate slaves in front of screens in giant cities - a type of captivity. it’s not unnatural that when a species is subjugated they practice antinatalism; we see it in tons of species besides humans so not all animal behavior is based on multiplying like a cancer. why is this evolutionarily expedient? maybe populations in captivity or bad environments grow to be weaker individuals the soil the gene pool and evolution introduced this type of animal antinatalism to keep the gene pool refined with the most fit individuals that grew up in the best environments and lifestyles?


i explained how it’s scientifically documented that animals will kill their young, abstain from mating, or become less fertile via hormonal changes during periods of famine or difficulty in the environment in order to prioritize their own survival and make it into the future where the can then reproduce and this “temporary antinatalism” thereby favors survival of the species.

abstaining from procreation is very much something that exists in the psyche / instinct of animals and therefore had to have been selected for during evolution (probably for the surviability hypothesis i explained above).

also dare i say that humans are a bit smarter than animals and part of ther evolution is learning not behave like pure wild animals.

more on this in the next post too…
 
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To be fair, I do see views like yours coming up more and more, do you think there's any connection between that kind of thing and the idea that many/most trans people become infertile (at least the ones who medically/surgically transition) ?


sorry there’s another message above this one and i can’t combine them on mobile.


as to this point. No. antinatalism is rising because generations today are facing materially worse living conditions than the past few generations and even generations 100s of years ago that had it objectively harder had stronger community and social connections. The greater difficulty in making it and a bleaker outlook on the world + decaying social connectivity has made ppl view life less positively and for those that have the foresight to think about someone besides themselves; they realize that bringing a child into this hellscape will likely be sentencing the child to a miserable, lonely, wage slaving life for no justifiable reason. People are waking up to this ponzi scheme where we have been turned into cattle for billionaires and ppl are opting out. this is not the way of life humans evolved for.

this is what is known as “conditional antinatlism" though - it isn’t true antinatlism, but i’ll take it nonetheless.


as far as trans ppl becoming infertile i think that’s based on altering their bodies with hormones in a way that the human body didn’t evolve for. It’s the same reason men that are abusing T and steroids are becoming infertile and impotent. The body didn’t evolve for that.


so the body didn’t evolve to be trans; but let me posit this, maybe aspects of our minds or hormonal make up do have that trait that was passed on from ancestors.

in many species it is expedient to change sexes for survival of the species therefore changing sexes via the initiation of hormonal changes happens and i believe it’s males change to females. Wrasse species of fish do this. frogs, a variety of other animas do it too. when there aren’t enough females a male will change sexes so it can then be fertilized and sustain the species. in these animals it is completely natural. something triggers it though. All animals are genetically related through a common ancestor somewhere hundreds of millions + years ago; so it might be that this “urge” to transition that is advantageous for certain animals is buried in the genetic code of all animals and can “flare” up if the person has the right genetics at play to tap into this ancestral “transition gene” - this is a total hypothesis on my part i don’t think it’s been researched but given how similar the genetic code of all animals is, i wouldn’t count it out completely.
 
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i dont even know what antinatalism is.
guess i'm too stupid
or maybe it's just that i don't care enough to know.

but i come think that if becoming infertile because of surgical sex changes means humans stop reproducing like a plague, then that's an argument in favor
 
Take it to CEPS.
I'm not engaging with this here because we have enough threads being derailed with political bullshit as it is.
And maybe if you watch the video, it will answer your question :)


Oh no way, CEPS has way more impetus for rationale (despite the crazy) ...I'm taking this anon (with a rain cheque), to some comedic channels 😉...you can't be posting nonsense, on here and not bring laughter & joy to the people...that's, not fair 💜

(I watched that video/influencer a few, years ago - 2c nonsense, posing as "philosophy" for clicks & monetisation)
 
Are HRT medications really that expensive?
It really depends on where you live and if you have insurance.
But yeah, they certainly can be.
I’ve seen people have to pay hundreds per month or more, leaving many to DIY even if they can get hormones through the medical system - which most people cannot, such as those in the UK where waitlists are over a decade in most of the country and over 200 YEARS in some places (I think Scotland?).
I personally DIY because enanthate (an ester with a longer half life) is not available where I live pharmaceutically and is much cheaper than pharmaceutically compounded valerate - which would also require me to inject every 5 days instead of every 7-10.
I can get a vial of enanthate that lasts over a year (if the vial doesn’t get contaminated first) for ~$25 USD, or pay $75-80 USD every 1-2 months for valerate.
I believe some Americans pay a lot more than that.
 
It really depends on where you live and if you have insurance.
But yeah, they certainly can be.
I’ve seen people have to pay hundreds per month or more, leaving many to DIY even if they can get hormones through the medical system - which most people cannot, such as those in the UK where waitlists are over a decade in most of the country and over 200 YEARS in some places (I think Scotland?).
I personally DIY because enanthate (an ester with a longer half life) is not available where I live pharmaceutically and is much cheaper than pharmaceutically compounded valerate - which would also require me to inject every 5 days instead of every 7-10.
I can get a vial of enanthate that lasts over a year (if the vial doesn’t get contaminated first) for ~$25 USD, or pay $75-80 USD every 1-2 months for valerate.
I believe some Americans pay a lot more than that.
pretty sure you can also get valerate diy for that price, though 25 is insane damn, good job
 
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