asvarohn
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Mar 19, 2026
- Messages
- 189
i never had white collar work environment clothes even if i did at some point work in such an environment.right but you didn’t wear the type of clothes you would wear to a fancy restaurant or a white collar work environment. because dogs don’t judge humans like humans judge humans.
not sure if you’re male or female, did you put on make up?
the things you did (shower etc) make you feel better and fresher but also make you look better , that’s understandable. there’s a other things we do that make us more physically uncomfortable but also make us look better (nice clothes, make up, nice shoes instead of tennis shoes etc). the latter category is more the type of thing i was referring to in my originally comment. cosmetic things we obviously do do impress other not to make our selves feel fresher and hygienic which is a self care thing
i have been both under- and overdressed to places, both fancy and gritty.
i like to wear nice things because i like them. i don't always do it. i sometimes (like today) take out the dog in my pjs and we have a doorman here, and lots of people with dogs.
so basically, i do what i fucking want to do.
is it smart? no idea. i guess i i would care more about social norms i would drive an expensive car and live in a better place (i'm at my parent's now, house sitting),
but you know what?
being myself for myself is my equivalent to a fancy car/house/vacation/whatever.
